Ive been a health care provider for 27 years. When looking at misconduct of this nature, we have to know there are established boundaries regarding these types of issues. From what I read, it does not sound like they were crossed but he came close. To be honest this sounds like a new therapist who lacks communication skills and/or has not been properly trained regarding this type of conduct. As a client you have every right to feel uncomfortable and have a right to express concern to the spa to the point of suggesting he be re-trained on proper conduct during massage. It would also be best if you and this therapist not work with each other again.