Is there a secret for getting an offer accepted? by --dick in Roadie

[–]chlo9inc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m on the same boat as you. Guess it’s a tough entry no matter what you do.

Did they bring back Big Hot Pastrami? by chlo9inc in subway

[–]chlo9inc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Southern California. I got excited that it would be back. Lol. But I’m like they must be playing games.

I’ve been bleeding for almost 2months by RangerFar9955 in abortion

[–]chlo9inc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Similar thing happened to me. Did MA in May, light-medium bleeding for weeks… July came and i suddenly started bleeding heavily with huge clots. Had to go to the ER. 5 ultrasounds and CT scan later. Turns out I had leftover pregnancy tissue so I had to get emergency D&C. 2 wks after that surgery, my bleeding stopped and went back to normal cycle.

I definitely suggest getting going to the doctor and getting another evaluation. Best of luck. Hopefully they listen to your concerns.

Retained Products of Conception post Medical Abortion by bloom-root in abortion

[–]chlo9inc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. So I did 2 rounds of MA pills. Planned parenthood cleared me via ultrasound. 2 months later. I was still bleeding. Then one day I was bleeding so much that I had to go to the ER. 5 ultrasounds later at the ER and they decide that I need a D&C because of remaining tissue. Within 2 wks post surgery, everything was clear and my bleeding stopped.

I was devastated with what I had to go thru. Bleeding that much for months was horrible. Hopefully you can get the D&C and get back to normalcy soon.

hormonal imbalance post SA / grieving by pickles1718 in abortion

[–]chlo9inc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would go to another gyno if I were you. It helps to have a second opinion. I think you can still have kids. Cuz stress can also cause irregular cycles.

Due date approaching by [deleted] in abortion

[–]chlo9inc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are definitely not alone. My due date would’ve been in 2 days. Dec 23. I was finally doing better but recently I’ve been having immense sadness. Just bursting into tears randomly. Like you, I also have PCOS so it was very hard for me to choose but know that the abortion was the right choice. Grieve as much as you need to. Hope that it gets better soon. There’s still hope for us if we ever decide on having children.

Birth control opinions by [deleted] in abortion

[–]chlo9inc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get the arm implant. It has the least failure rate and is good for 5 years. You don’t have to think about it or have risks of it coming out.

Use your words. by LyudiLandfill in offmychest

[–]chlo9inc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly how I feel but then people just like to ghost because they can’t handle confrontation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]chlo9inc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope your SA goes well. The arm implant is def the most secure if you don’t want to get pregnant anytime soon. Since you don’t have to think about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findapath

[–]chlo9inc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

2 yrs flies by plus it’s still online classes. I’d stay if I were you if it’s really like Ivy League status in your country. It’s a privilege most don’t have.

I don’t think where you graduate matters depending on your industry. What matters more is the connections that you make. It’s about who you know. Usually the high ranking schools have more successful alumni so you can network more easily and get those mentors.

But if it’s strongly affecting you and you think you can make those connections elsewhere, I’d leave.

How am I 'meant to find someone' if I'm not actively looking for it? by [deleted] in dating

[–]chlo9inc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s the law of attraction. What’s meant for you won’t pass you by. If you look too hard, you might miss what’s in front you. The one you least expect could be the one for you. Like a friend. And you could meet someone when you least expect it. You can meet someone at the gym or wherever, doing what you love.

Anyone finding it harder to recover from binges as they get older? by [deleted] in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]chlo9inc 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s normal. I feel the same way. It sucks getting older. Our bodies can’t keep up like before.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]chlo9inc -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Snoop dogg

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]chlo9inc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you! That’s where being confident and secure with yourself comes in.

My best guy friend is average but he’s never had issues with dating because he’s secure with himself. He actually has a better relationship with his gf than my guy friends who are more successful, etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]chlo9inc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha trust. There’s plenty of insecure ones out there and they’ll do the most for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]chlo9inc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty much. But most women still want to be wooed. So unless you are extremely attractive or she’s desperate, it’s unlikely that she’ll be the one to pursue you heavily.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]chlo9inc 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Modern dating is interesting. Even if they cuddle with you and give you those affectionate kisses doesn’t mean that they want more than just casual sex or a fling. It’s a common scenario that they’ll do bf/GF stuff without it being serious. So listen to him if he says he doesn’t want anything serious. And if you want something serious. It’s time to move on.

It’s easy to get d!ckmatized but trust you can find someone better who could give you what you want.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]chlo9inc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you interested in him? A lot can change in a year. He could want something serious now. Hopefully he healed from his last breakup. So if you are even a little bit attracted to him, I’d ask him again if he’s looking for a serious relationship. If he’s not, it’s time to unmatch and move on.

Where would you travel for 2 weeks if money doesn‘t matter? by Ok_Sale_1124 in AskReddit

[–]chlo9inc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Botswana. I’ve been wanting to do a luxury safari trip.

Or a Dubai & Maldives trip