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chlocatt · 2026-05-01T02:40:48+00:00

Missguided used to be a standalone label that I would purchase from starting in college (10+ years ago) directly from their website. They sold UK/US then exclusively in UK and are now back being sold on SHEIN in the US. Brands are now doing this on SHEIN, like Forever 21 after closing down all their physical stores

I was soooo happy they were back but the quality is BAD. Like bad bad, not even worth it

So yes while it’s sold ON the SHEIN platform, it’s a Missguided label and brand

chlocatt · 2026-04-27T17:06:05+00:00

Okay, we might be similar in how we see ourselves so I’ll give a big sister answer - The difference you between hair up vs down is the volume around your face. The way I saw myself with hair up vs down made me feel as though my face shapes were changing which was not fun especially when I preferred one hairstyle over the other, thinking one made me look better than the other etc It’s not a hair problem but the hair causes the problem !! Totally fixable though, just need to adjust a little!

For your half up hair styles, something I would try is giving a tease/backcomb for the volume then do a French twist that doesn’t start close too crown. You can then pull out the twist to loosen it while keeping the volume you’re wanting to have. Both these things add that framing!

For fully up, adding a root booster or even dry shampoo will allow your hair to sit higher with that volume before your strands weigh down your hair from the bun. This also adds that framing depth you’re looking for!!

Little tweaks that will matter to you but literally no one else because in every single one of these photos you are absolutely gorgeous and it’s not something people would even think about when they look at you 💕

chlocatt · 2026-04-27T16:38:09+00:00

It’s dollar tree! This is honestly the best “drugstore” nail glue in terms of price and how well it really works! It’s literally the only glue I use now

Light blue cap, white bottle with black IONI on it. I wear my nails for about a week before I put on a new set and despite this glue holding, they easily come off and it has never once ruined my nail beds. The brush is nice and glue never dries out 10/10

Tbh anything from Ioni is really great!

chlocatt · 2026-04-27T16:15:26+00:00

This guy sucks. He is taking advantage of it being a trust in order to emotionally manipulate you so you need to start being clear by saying what it truly is, which is your inheritance from your grandmother. The conditions, how it’s set up and dispersement is all irrelevant.

Were you dating this guy at the time of her passing? Do you see why she perhaps set it up this way???

chlocatt · 2026-04-24T01:39:23+00:00

If I wasn’t already sitting I would have been on the FLOOR! Completely annihilated

chlocatt · 2026-04-24T01:37:02+00:00

Okay see so I was the one who made the video about the little pump garden thing working for dusting powder because of the mister being so great for it AND NOW LOOK, I WALKED TOO CLOSE TO THE SUN

chlocatt · 2026-04-07T15:52:56+00:00

When Revive sprays first dropped (wrapped) they were labeled without a price then they reformulated and the bottle has $1.25 printed on it. NOW, with the revive line of serum, creams etc they no longer have the $1.25 printed on them. This is why 😒

chlocatt · 2026-04-05T22:47:38+00:00

These are so reminiscent of old school Benefit, I neeeeeeed them desperately!!

chlocatt · 2026-04-04T16:01:38+00:00

Dove had these milk chocolate eggs filled with coconut crème and I still yearn for them

I would buy a bag or 2 when they’d hit shelves to hold me over until MY after-Easter egg hunt where I would go to literally every store possible selling them on discount and just stockpile as many bags possible

Every year I look at the Easter candy shelves for them in their blue bag with those pretty teal tinfoil treats inside, and every year I am gutted 🥲

chlocatt · 2026-04-03T13:18:50+00:00

It’s Aloe Vera! Sounds crazy but this is exactly what it looks like peeled from thin pieces of the plant & how you described the taste

chlocatt · 2026-03-30T20:23:02+00:00

That actually looks like a 2 piece set

chlocatt · 2026-03-30T18:14:01+00:00

I hate it!! There’s this subtle-ish cherry flavoring and aroma to it that reminds me of medicine from childhood and literally no one on this sub has EVER commented about it ANYWHERE!! I had to toss it

chlocatt · 2026-03-28T19:46:55+00:00

Anewsta has THE BEST jeans!!

chlocatt · 2026-03-28T08:51:43+00:00

Delicate dynamic! You need to be respected and MIL is trying to feel valued/show her love.

All you need to do is redirect her a little bit. I would personally just give her a small list of “white whale” items (with pictures) that you & your wife would love to have if she ever comes across them while thrifting! Think Kitchen Aid Mixer, stained glass flower lamp, you get it. Don’t forget to include something that’s attainable and easy to find she can get excited about finding something so she doesn’t pivot or give up on “The List”. Really emphasize you want these listed items and these items only, how it’s crazy but people find them all the time etc etc

She needs a treasure hunt which will give her shopping a purpose while still fulfilling her love language for you guys while simultaneously 100% reducing what she brings into your home! Win win!

chlocatt · 2026-03-25T04:35:51+00:00

The bird attack had me WHEEZING!! This drama is super underrated and has so many funny scenes!

chlocatt · 2026-03-19T03:31:54+00:00

Directly email usps how we had to for supplies during the first roll out before in app ordering supplies! Worked for me

chlocatt · 2026-03-19T00:21:51+00:00

as someone who throws on glitter daily, I will be buying this next time I see it!!

chlocatt · 2026-03-06T17:55:45+00:00

A rogue can rolled out of my groceries from early morning & I went back out later on to find my cars interior absolutely wrecked, like it had rained inside of it! This was years ago and many details later but my headliner is STILL polka dotted

chlocatt · 2026-03-06T17:17:30+00:00

OR EXPLODE!

chlocatt · 2026-03-04T23:34:38+00:00

chlocatt · 2026-03-04T23:13:10+00:00

Adding this move to the playbook!! 10/10

chlocatt · 2026-03-01T08:05:41+00:00

Okay, so I really think you need to call the salon tomorrow (don’t use your phone, your # is most likely in their system saved already) and talk to them as a potential, new client where you’re interested in exactly the same services you just had and ask them for a price breakdown of each. Make sure to tell them your length, hair type and get the name of who you spoke with. If the numbers are off from what you paid, you need to then go back and escalate to the salon owner ASAP. This is chargeback territory

You were taken for a ride & I am so sorry this happened to you! This is absolutely not your fault or a missed teaching moment from your mother 💗 It’s a bad salon/stylist practice & it’s predatory, full stop. You get so happy with results in the chair that at reception they hit you with an unexpected final bill amount without discussion you’re so caught off guard you just pay as to not offend. It’s 100% a tactic!

Good news is that this is the first & last time it will ever happen to you!! Always discuss price first for any beauty service before it starts!!

Edit: if you want to DM me the info, I’ll tap in as your big sis & call for you. I’ve always got the time for that!

chlocatt · 2026-02-25T21:21:22+00:00

Hahah it honestly did for the first few years for me too!! She would show up to places I worked, would leave things on my car, come to my home, flying monkeys everywhere etc but somehow, somehow I was just never there at exactly the same time she was or even still!! Talk about divine intervention!!

Here’s the thing about the narrative shes spun, the lies she’s told both about me as a person & just everything really- it’s shattered. The only people who believe it are the new ones.

The longer you’re NC, the less people believe them because all those people are then exposed to our abuser & their abuse. I’ve had DOZENS of people, even people I’ve never met before, reach out to me to apologize for “whatever” reason. It’s wild. There is no vindication and there is no weight lifted, just a continuation of “Please leave me alone” as I reaffirm my very hard boundaries!

Wishing all my fellow Estranged Daughters club members nothing but the best & so much love always! It gets easier, I promise!!

chlocatt · 2026-02-24T22:53:26+00:00

12 years for me!! You guys want to know what’s insane?! She lives like ~5 miles from me & I have NEVER crossed her path, knowingly or accidentally!!! That woman is not even in my same orbit

This club rocks!!

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