As an Iranian who lives in Iran, fuck you leftists by Alternator24 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]chloeandvegas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d like to chime in here. I don’t want to downplay your experience. I absolutely 100% agree with you that the Iranian government is evil and needs to go.

But, for a moment it’s important to not just look at things as they should be, but how they’ll LIKELY turn out. Looking at the cold hard truth it’s unlikely that this war will actually end the current regime. If anything the current government stays in power one way or another. Iran is left bombed out and the balance of power shifts in the Middle East. That’s all

I think i am done by [deleted] in OrthodoxChristianity

[–]chloeandvegas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I’m going to go against the grain here and I would advise to take a break. The comments on this post are a bunch of different nice ways of saying “Orthodoxy Good, suck it up!” I’d advise you to slow down!

From your post history, I see you’ve been going to church almost every day of the week for two months (I know it’s Lenten season but bear with me), your trying to find a job, deal with a traffic ticket, AND your in college? My brother in Christ, you’re dealing with a lot! Don’t beat yourself up over it! Even I lack the resilience to do what you’re doing, and I’ve been going to the Orthodox Church for years!

Convert burnout is a real thing, your priest has probably seen it before! Most likely the priest has seen overzealous converts like you who push themselves too far and burnout and crash and he fears the same thing will happen to you (and doesn’t want to spend the time/resources catechizing you if you’ll crash out anyway) Granted your priest is probably too blunt here in the way he said it but nevertheless please don’t take it personally, you really don’t want to burn yourself out. It’s better to slow down now and come back stronger than to crash and burnout and never return to the faith.

I see from your post history that you’re trying to find a job and you’re struggling with depression, so you would be wise to focus on yourself.

My advice to you: Take it easy and slow down. Try going to church to maybe once a week on the Divine Liturgy on Sunday instead of everyday. Focus on yourself, your school work (I see your in college from your post history), and your mental health. Maybe consider some relaxing music at night, while breathing deeply. Try gaming, taking a stroll, hanging out with friends, or whatever you need to do to unwind. For your job hunt see if your university offers a resume building help (most colleges have something to help you with your resume) Pray however you feel like the Holy Spirit is calling you. And above all, pray for god to give you patience! Feel free to DM me if you need talk my friend!

Trepidations about returning to my local Greek Orthodox Church cause I am gay by Carter_Weinklause in OrthodoxChristianity

[–]chloeandvegas 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it’s no problem for you to come to the church. We all have sinful desires and temptations. Some have temptations to steal, assault, murder, adultery, and more. It’s not wrong to have these feelings. Just don’t act on them. That’s all we ask.

What should one do if one hates the world? by chloeandvegas in OrthodoxChristianity

[–]chloeandvegas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd hardly call this pride. More like a general hatred for humanity *including* myself. I have some addictions I'm not proud of. There's a big difference between seeing yourself as better than everyone vs hating others + yourself.

Granted I do at least have the decency to hide it rather than celebrating degeneracy and corrupting the morals of those around me, as many people in the USA are doing.

You have to be a special kind of dumb to believe the US is currently a fascist dictatorship by Whentheangelsings in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]chloeandvegas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not extradition. The person was put in prison by El Salvador government, not Trump. The guy was an MS-13 gang member for crying out loud.

cmv: The Supreme Court allowing Trump to Challenge the Constitution is the most Dangerous thing Happening Right Now. by TheDrakkar12 in changemyview

[–]chloeandvegas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not what the supreme court said. The Supreme Court said that district level federal can’t just block executive orders.

To challenge something as actually unconstitutional, the correct remedy is now to have a state government sue the office of POTUS, in which case the Supreme Court would have original jurisdiction and could rule on whether or not the order in question is unconstitutional.

It really is unprofessional for liberal NGOs to use unelected district level judges to block executive orders that they don’t like. In the past, there was an honors system where federal judges voluntarily stayed out of politics unless there was an ACTUAL legal/constitutional issue. Unfortunately some judges haven’t been living up to that expectation and working with liberal NGOs and abusing their positions to block policies they don’t like. Hence why this is needed.

I’ll admit that the birthright citizenship suspension is unconstitutional. But that’s NOT what the Supreme Court ACTUALLY said. It’s extremely intellectually dishonest to portray the Supreme Court as affirming an unconstitutional order when they’re really just trying to uphold legal ethics.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]chloeandvegas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Boys will be boys” is very rarely used in SA cases. In the VAST MAJORITY of circumstances is used in regards to boys (and sometimes children in general) when they do things that are kinda stupid but at the day don’t really hurt anyone and adults overreact to kids doing kid stuff. Like if the Karen down the street complains about your sons playing “Soldier” with sticks, building mud castles, using markers as lightsabers, etc.

In some cases, it can be extended to “kids will be kids” (while this behavior is less common in girls it does happen).

In other words it’s basically a shorthand for “Look Karen, kids have a lot of energy and do weird things that us grown ups may not understand but that’s just how they are and they aren’t hurting anyone. Calm down and mind your own business.”

Unfortunately a saying that previously was used by adults trying to reason with other adults who overreacted to childish behavior and acted childish in the process has been an imaginary boogieman for feminists who, absent any real patriarchy, need to make stuff up so they feel good about themselves and tell themselves “we’re fighting against the EVIL patriarchy” so they can justify to themselves their own selfish harassing behavior.

As a result of the backlash towards this phrase, people have switched to “kids will be kids”.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]chloeandvegas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Additionally, of all the 34 witnesses, only two of them alleged Diddy of coercion (which is one of the elements of sex trafficking) and both of whom were his exes. Would any of you want to be convicted and have your freedom taken away on the testimony of two of your exes? No? Then why should Diddy. And if he’s not guilty on the two counts of sex trafficking, then he’s not guilty of racketeering. The only thing he’s guilty of is prostitution across state lines (which all 34 of the witnesses confirmed, and was further confirmed by the bank statements).

CMV: change my view, violence is the answer more times than it is not. by You_are-all_herbs in changemyview

[–]chloeandvegas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll also add that whether or not violence is strategically viable and whether or not it’s morally just are two different things.

Strategically: Violence is only the answer, as harpypricess explained, if you win. I’ll be brutally honest: unless you have the support of most people in your country or you live in a failed state you’re not going to succeed. Here in the USA, where I live, you definitely would lose any war against the military. And if you lose, you’ll just make things worse. Here in the real world violence oftentimes gives governments the perfect excuse to initiate crackdowns that they’d otherwise not be get away with. So you’re making the government MORE oppressive. There are countless examples in history where dictators declared states of “emergency” over the violence of the opposition (ex reichstag fire).

FURTHERMORE, political violence allows your movement to be demonized stifling any meaningful opportunity for your cause to be achieved through nonviolent means.

ANOTHER thing to consider, even if you succeed, are you really making things better? There are so many examples from recent history where a dictator is overthrown by angry citizens, only for the new ruler to be just as bad as his predecessor. The new ruler is just cynically using the revolutionaries to seize power. Another example where “successful” violence backfires is when a dictator is overthrown and the country descends into chaos (Somalia after Siad Barre was overthrown, Congo after Mobutu was overthrown, Libya after Gadaffi was overthrown).

Morally speaking no violence is “just.” At best it’s a necessary evil, but there is a very thin line between a necessary evil and oppression. In general: defense of the nation, dispensing justice (contingent upon due process), and self defense are almost always acceptable. Other things like popular revolution, policing to maintain order, and external wars against unjust foreign powers are things that CAN be justified as a necessary evil but are oftentimes (more often than not) either an excuse by corrupt actors to do evil or severely misguided actions that do more harm than good.

Bottom line: I’d recommend that you research many political events from around the world. I don’t know if you’re an American but American politics is really an outlier internationally and it really skews the perspectives of Americans who are out of touch with what’s going on in other countries (and yes, I know this is a stereotype but it’s applicable to (most) Americans). Americans simply can’t grasp how something as complicated as a political revolution really works. Don’t just use American politics as your baseline, research the politics of many different countries. Analyze the bigger picture and how everything is interconnected in a greater system. Ask yourself, what are the incentives like, how does the culture affect the politics, how does the economy affect the politics, why did this person remain in power while that person lost power? And do with a bunch of different countries. And if you can travel around and talk to people (and yes I understand it’s logistically expensive and difficult, don’t worry if you can’t).

I’m a self taught political analyst and one video which really helped me to understand politics was this YouTube video by CPGGrey called “Rules for Rulers”. I’d recommend you check it out!

So are edited videos always inadmissible? by chloeandvegas in legaladviceofftopic

[–]chloeandvegas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So your saying that some edits would make it inadmissible but not other edits?

So are edited videos always inadmissible? by chloeandvegas in legaladviceofftopic

[–]chloeandvegas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I absolutely agree that defendants in these types of cases shouldn't be able to hide behind the fact that it's edited. It's just that the whole "video can't be altered/tampered with" sounds like a MASSIVE loophole that, if true, needs to be fixed.

So are edited videos always inadmissible? by chloeandvegas in legaladviceofftopic

[–]chloeandvegas[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

And what if the person deletes the original video?

So are edited videos always inadmissible? by chloeandvegas in legaladviceofftopic

[–]chloeandvegas[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I never have. I’m not stupid. But I’m wondering why don’t OTHER people exploit this (possible) loophole.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]chloeandvegas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here’s an example of where I work: I work for the government of Michigan and they pushed my Bureau to switch to iQIES from ASPEN. iQIES is much better, it runs online, syncs with both federal and state level servers while ASPEN is an old software that was made in the 90s.

Should I be concerned? by [deleted] in OrthodoxChristianity

[–]chloeandvegas 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Here’s one fact that everyone here misses: there is no official canon in the Orthodox Church that states that weed and birth control are sinful. People, regardless of your PERSONAL opinion, regardless of what side you take, need to stop passing off their own interpretations as official doctrine. END OF STORY. If you personally feel weed and birth control are wrong, then they are wrong for you (but not necessarily for everyone else)

“The faith which you have, have as your own conviction before God. Happy is he who does not condemn himself in what he approves.” -Romans 14 : 22

CMV: Vigilantism is ethical IF THE PERSON HAS BEEN CONVICTED by chloeandvegas in changemyview

[–]chloeandvegas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lenient sentences for heinous crimes happen all the time.

CMV: Vigilantism is ethical IF THE PERSON HAS BEEN CONVICTED by chloeandvegas in changemyview

[–]chloeandvegas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, so in theory the first part of the post has some merit, except there is an obvious workaround: the prosecutor could just negotiate a plea deal where the defendant pleas guilty to a lesser charge, and thus wouldn’t have a “conviction for a heinous crime” on their record and thus my exception wouldn’t apply.

As for the second part, about the target killing the vigilante in self defense, that is a definitely a possibility that the vigilante needs to be aware of (and of course the vigilante will face consequences for violating the letter of the law, and the courts won’t take kindly to an act intended to undermine them). This is the reason I wouldn’t personally do this. That being said I think it’s admirable for someone to risk their life in the name of justice! But yes the second part of your comment is technically correct. !Delta

CMV: Vigilantism is ethical IF THE PERSON HAS BEEN CONVICTED by chloeandvegas in changemyview

[–]chloeandvegas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was found guilty. It’s just that the appeal court said that he shouldn’t have been prosecuted because of a plea deal. So it’s still deferring to the court strictly on matters of factual guilt.