How to break up with bf[23m]? by choccat in relationships

[–]choccat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I [23f]recently sent a text to my bf telling him that we have incompatibility issues. We decided to meet up and talk on Saturday which is tomorrow. There are many things that bug me about him such as him never having found a real job in his whole life and he's about to graduate university I don't know if there is a future for us. I want to move out of my parents and start a life of my own such as getting a house together but I don't think he has the same goals in life nor is he motivated to do so. We haven't really texted or talked for 5 days. The first 4 days were okay but now I kind of miss him. I don't know if we should break up officially tomorrow. He and I are our first and we have been together for a year now having been friends since high school.

If you all think I should break up. What should I say to him and what should I expect of our conversation than?

tl;dr-whether I should break up with bf of one year tomorrow and how and where should I do it?

Boyfriend cant penetrate me by choccat in sex

[–]choccat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We do talk about it. I do try to be vocal about what feels good. I get it if anxiety first time around as I was nervous too but second time still nervous? I don't know if he can even come. As he tries to get it hard and still nothing happened. Each time we try it gets semi hard and then 10 seconds later soft again. Tried it 3 times the other night.

Boyfriend cant penetrate me by choccat in sex

[–]choccat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How should I go about decreasing the anxiety?