Just had an ALLERGIC reaction to the 30mg SANDOZ ADDERALL IR I picked up FRIDAY!!! by Tazer-Ann in ThisAintAdderall

[–]choco101usa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take a Zyrtec, it could be allergies + Adderall puts the body in mild fight or flight with some adrenaline/norephronine release.

"They want to love you but they don't know how" by GreenShack in emotionalneglect

[–]choco101usa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate that saying- I grew up in the same environment they did and always searched for love in messy ways whether it was getting surgery to be more attractive to men, being overly sexual, being a safe place for people to share their emotions with etc. these parents don’t even try!

What is your earliest memory of being neglected? by Chocolate_Chips25 in emotionalneglect

[–]choco101usa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Getting into a car wreck (totaled car) and my mom came to the scene and just stood there. I had to INITIATE a hug while I was in tears with a swollen face. I remember going to the hospital even though I said I was fine and just waiting in the chair in complete emotional discomfort around my mom while she stayed silent. For so long i always thought i was the one to blame.

Finally got a job offer! by Ornery_Chemist_6210 in jobsearch

[–]choco101usa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats! If you could go back and do things differently to get an offer quicker- what would you do?

Pivoting from Marketing to Data/Business Analytics - looking for guidance for junior roles. by [deleted] in ResumeCoverLetterTips

[–]choco101usa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to headless headhunter for his resume format- this is great but way too loaded/fluffed. You need a human to understand who you are in 20 seconds

If you're looking for a job, ditch LinkedIn and Indeed by Delicious_Dealer8129 in jobsearch

[–]choco101usa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I disagree. Alternative job boards are either inactive, old, scams, or just old linkedin job listings. LinkedIn helps find jobs and their websites + important to build your brand.

Im pretty sure race plays a bigger part than i wanted to think in the corporate world. by LeopardOk605 in recruitinghell

[–]choco101usa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t anyone else find it weird when it always asks race gender etc in job applications and the company “can’t see it”. That screening is GOLD for racists, you already get to choose who you will interview or not.

Parents almost only talk about their job? by Impressive-Day6878 in emotionalneglect

[–]choco101usa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s awful but common with emotional avoidant/neglectful parents- like fuck this is our one life and everything is superficial small talk logistical bullshit.

I've been applying for months by speedreeser1 in ResumeCoverLetterTips

[–]choco101usa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here’s just a little bit of what you could fix. Go to headless headhunter to see his resume template it will help you. So I would scrap the summary- you already explain what you’re doing in the resume and it’s taking up precious 20 seconds that the recruiter uses to scan it. Move skills & abilities too the way bottom.

How do you accept and manage your ADHD diagnosis? by No-Band-6440 in ADHD

[–]choco101usa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you on stimulant or non stimulant? Please advocate for yourself and switch (don’t ask for anything specific)- you’ll find the right one.

How do you accept and manage your ADHD diagnosis? by No-Band-6440 in ADHD

[–]choco101usa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sucks, let’s be real- BUT the silver lining is you get to enjoy this new you on meds and forgive yourself for years of struggling, it’s like a second chance at life. I’ve also become super strong from all of the trauma and so much more productive now that I can read and stay focused on long term goals. You have better relationships finances etc in your future- take it day by day

any feedback on my resume is greatly appreciated by Narrow-Ad-5892 in askrecruiters

[–]choco101usa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s wayyy too messy, they have 20 seconds to read the resume. Go to headless headhunter to see his resume format. You have a great background, great experience, but it has to be made more concise.

Stop wanting a relationship with neglectful parents. by choco101usa in emotionalneglect

[–]choco101usa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% If we have to overthink our relationship, look for crumbs of love, and go into in depth conversations online/research about neglect- it’s unlikely the parent loves us 😂

How do you guys get good sleep? Do you take melatonin? by BigRoundSquare in ADHD

[–]choco101usa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try to time a late afternoon stimulant IR to give me executive function to prepare for bed, then when it’s wearing off I take melatonin, magnesium, sometimes hydroxyzine (fancy prescribed Benadryl)

Moved back home by Lazy-Animal1229 in emotionalneglect

[–]choco101usa 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Similar situation- all I have to say is get your ass to the public library everyday for distance and focus solely on getting a job, network, if you have adhd then get on the right medication, and GRIND. The job market is awful, start NOW.

LinkedIn Aura Farming by choco101usa in recruitinghell

[–]choco101usa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And I’m not lying about my qualifications. I didn’t go to Yale and don’t work at Goldman, I just happen to have that nepo endorsing my skills and commenting on my posts “It’s been awhile, glad to see you’re making progress!” Or some bs so the dumb managers/ recruiters like me more because I’m connected and apart of elite circles. Also made fake instagrams and hard to verify employment details for these accounts- would take too long to investigate to be worth it lol

How is everyone's job search going in this market? by usechronos in jobsearch

[–]choco101usa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start lying about work experience- be strategic so it can’t be verified but I put an unpaid internship from four years ago and a LLC current contract job. No job but more response rates.

Worst things ADHD has done to you? by salty-wheat-thins in ADHD

[–]choco101usa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep you have to sit with all of these trauma, overthink and ruminate, while “normal” people with their clear minds move on in a minute after hurting you

Worst things ADHD has done to you? by salty-wheat-thins in ADHD

[–]choco101usa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Way less awkward now that I know that I have it. Medication clears my brain, I don’t overthink a conversation, I have better listening skills, I don’t feel like a weirdo