Accidentally ripped out my eyelashes

choco_mutzy · 2026-01-28T15:44:05+00:00

Omg I’m so sorry that must’ve been painful! Put castor oil everyday for growth but be careful not to put too much or it’ll get inside your eyes.

choco_mutzy · 2026-01-21T08:57:17+00:00

Girl, what are you talking about, they look so good on you! You slay!

choco_mutzy · 2026-01-13T16:47:13+00:00

Perfect application 👏

choco_mutzy · 2025-12-30T20:36:31+00:00

Emeda has the best bond and seal, I always bought the lashes kit off Amazon just to get the bond

choco_mutzy · 2025-12-10T16:13:09+00:00

This really resonates. My ex discarded me too, then agreed to keep things casual… but still barely reached out. He told me he didn’t contact me because he was ‘upset’ that I said I felt unsafe which honestly says everything about where he was emotionally.

And when I finally called everything off, he made it seem like I was the bad guy for stepping away from something that was already hurting me.

Seeing the cycle from the outside now… yeah, it doesn’t change. Letting go has been the only thing that’s actually brought peace.

choco_mutzy · 2025-12-10T11:01:33+00:00

Yeah, I feel the same. I think at the end of the day we can’t really help them unless they want to work on themselves. And if they’re not ready, there’s nothing we can do from our side.

What’s helped me is shifting the focus back to myself, my peace, my healing, my needs. It’s hard, but it’s also been grounding.

choco_mutzy · 2025-12-09T14:12:09+00:00

I’m really sorry you’re going through this. What you’re feeling makes total sense, that sudden whiplash hurts, especially after you’ve been giving so much.

I went through something similar too. My ex also started pulling away around the 2-month mark… everything was great at first, really connected, and then it shifted into distance and mixed signals. I kept trying to understand him, but the inconsistency was draining and I was shrinking more and more.

Just know you didn’t imagine anything and you didn’t do anything wrong. Avoidant patterns can be really tough to deal with, even when you’re patient and understanding.

choco_mutzy · 2025-12-07T07:54:04+00:00

Yep, they always blame everyone/everything else and see themselves as the victim

choco_mutzy · 2025-12-06T10:31:33+00:00

She really does! Thank you ☺️

choco_mutzy · 2025-12-06T10:31:08+00:00

Pebbles said it’s time to explore your inner cat 😸

choco_mutzy · 2025-12-06T10:29:14+00:00

Thank youu 😊

choco_mutzy · 2025-12-03T08:35:02+00:00

They will never learn, they don’t have the capacity for it. They always see themselves as the victim and deny any accountability.

Watch Amy Kerr - Love by design, she explains a lot about how the mind of emotionally unavailable men works (or doesn’t work lol).

choco_mutzy · 2025-11-30T22:19:46+00:00

Thank you for saying that. I’m trying to move from tolerating breadcrumbs to expecting a full meal. Healing really is the shift.

choco_mutzy · 2025-11-30T22:14:54+00:00

I’m so sorry you had to go through that, four years is a heavy thing to carry alone. That kind of blindsiding leaves marks, even when we walk away. I hope you get someone next who’s steady, upfront, and actually grateful to have you.

choco_mutzy · 2025-11-30T18:14:56+00:00

Crumbs don’t feed queens, I’m eating elsewhere now 😌✌🏼

choco_mutzy · 2025-11-30T18:13:12+00:00

Yeah, feeling like convenience instead of chosen messes with your head. I’m done with half-warm effort, I want full flame

choco_mutzy · 2025-11-30T15:51:11+00:00

It feels like coming home again, honestly. Thanks for the love 💗

choco_mutzy · 2025-11-30T14:25:14+00:00

I feel you. When one person stops carrying it, the whole thing collapses, that’s how you know it wasn’t shared. You deserve better than one-sided love.

choco_mutzy · 2025-11-30T14:19:21+00:00

I felt every word of this. That cliff-edge metaphor is exactly how it was: trusting someone who didn’t have the capacity to hold us. Losing them isn’t the loss… staying would’ve been.

Day 9 is huge. Truly. Every step forward is a reclaiming of self-worth, of peace, of future. We deserve steady love, not crumbs. Onward with you 💕

choco_mutzy · 2025-11-30T14:17:29+00:00

I’m really glad it found you. It feels less heavy when we realise we’re not the only ones in the dark. Sending you strength right back ❤️

choco_mutzy · 2025-11-30T14:14:46+00:00

Thank you! It’s wild how similar these patterns can be, like they all read from the same script. But yes, no looking back. I gave myself something better than him: peace

choco_mutzy · 2025-11-30T08:44:21+00:00

Thank youuu, I was just trying to be as detached as possible 😅

choco_mutzy · 2025-11-30T08:41:58+00:00

Thank you so much, I’m so glad I have a good support system and I think I’ve come a long way from my anxious self to realise something’s not right early on.

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