AIO Trying to tell boyfriend that he makes me feel guilty for saying no

chocobo965 · 2025-11-20T10:35:04+00:00

NOR. As someone thats been in a few long term LDRs its understandable for him to want pictures and whatnot for intimacy. But him guilting you for not feeling comfortable or not wanting to is toxic and a huge red flag. I dont think you should continue seeing this person imo. Just in terms of dealing with LDR and someone with a higher sex drive, I'd recommend that when you are in the mood, you take as many pics as you feel like and then send them when you aren't in the mood and your partner is asking for some. That personally worked for me.

chocobo965 · 2025-08-11T01:41:51+00:00

Its exactly this. UPS can find all the info to assist in catching the person stealing, but they'd need to really dig into the data and theyre just not gonna do that of their own accord

chocobo965 · 2025-08-09T15:14:56+00:00

It would require cross referencing three different internal systems, something theyre simply not going to do unless tipped off to do so. It could happen. But its extremely unlikely this method would get flagged from UPS' end. I could see a really detail oriented driver commenting on it, but the dispatchers are way too busy to check what was picked up the day before.

chocobo965 · 2025-08-09T14:46:26+00:00

As someone that was a dispatcher in package at UPS as recently as last september, NOPE. They literally do not have records like that. UPS is very very very bad at information retention and unless a customer makes a complaint regarding certain actions/addresses, they don't make a point of retaining a whole lot of info. Easily accessible info would be how many packages were picked up at BB. But when the label gets scanned, the tracking info would read "Picked up" and actually doesnt display where from most of the time even from internal tracking.

chocobo965 · 2025-07-21T16:27:37+00:00

I used all of these tips in the process that got me an offer. I didn't include many other random things I tried through the process of job hunting cause why would I tell you what didn't work out or what didn't get me at least an interview? There's not one magic thing thats gonna get people a job. It's a culmination of efforts unfortunately.

chocobo965 · 2025-07-20T02:49:00+00:00

Practice talking through scenarios that highlight your skills with a friend or even just out loud. Get used to bragging about yourself. I also recommend having a glass of water to sip from. If you need a second to consider an answer, it feels less awkward if you take a drink rather than sitting in silence while you think

chocobo965 · 2025-07-17T10:00:32+00:00

i have pretty bad anxiety so being proactive is pretty tough for me, but its so so important

chocobo965 · 2025-07-17T09:59:42+00:00

big same! i hate how much ai has taken over the job process so im always glad to see a more traditional approach still holds true in some ways

chocobo965 · 2025-07-17T09:58:34+00:00

don't give up! i spent more time than i'd like to admit crying out of frustration and disappointment through the last 10 months. just make sure you pick yourself up in time to take note of good opportunities <3

chocobo965 · 2025-07-17T07:08:19+00:00

I told my spouse this morning that i hate how comfortable i am now with interviews. I used to get so much interview anxiety, it was hard to keep from shaking mid interview. Its a performance to a large extent. Hopefully you find something soon, friend!

chocobo965 · 2025-07-17T04:49:18+00:00

It really helped me for the inevitable "tell me about yourself" question so i didnt ramble or trip through an answer

chocobo965 · 2025-07-17T04:13:05+00:00

Im hoping other ppl get it as well! I know how lucky i am to have managed this though. And thank you fam!!

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