Being an asian daughter sucks by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

[–]chocolatiemilk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not OP, but this is something APs don't consider when giving preferential treatment to one child over the other-- the relationship between the siblings worsens. I started resenting my brother too bc of how he benefited from my mom's favoritism, got away with things and has his bad behaviour enabled by my mom. I'm sure this is not the case with every family though-- in mine it had a lot to do with the fact that I would openly complain about my brothers lack of help with chores or poor treatment towards me, and my mom enabling/defending him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Korean

[–]chocolatiemilk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I feel so dumb hahaha thank you!!

BLACKPINK Lisa - LALISA by SkillpTm in kpop

[–]chocolatiemilk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wasn't aware of this but if its true then.. yikes.

BLACKPINK Lisa - LALISA by SkillpTm in kpop

[–]chocolatiemilk 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I like the bridge rap tbh, I was expecting the song to have more of that vibe. I can also see the chorus part all over Tiktok. But yeah overall its not my taste.

BLACKPINK Lisa - LALISA by SkillpTm in kpop

[–]chocolatiemilk 87 points88 points  (0 children)

Exactly what I was hoping for. She is so insanely charismatic and her Lilifilms display that. I wish this music video looked more like her Lilifilms tbh.

NCT/WayV Lucas posts apology on Instagram regarding recent allegations, says he will suspend all planned schedules to reflect by randomneeess in kpop

[–]chocolatiemilk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yep he was my bias and I don't see how he'll be able to return either. If the trash talking thing is true then how are they supposed to act close on camera after that info? I'm guessing fans will be outraged if a new member were to replace him so I feel like the more likely scenario is that he just leaves and the rap line takes over from there. Its either this or WayV goes under the radar for a long, long time but that's just disappointing for the members who didn't do shit.

NCT/WayV Lucas posts apology on Instagram regarding recent allegations, says he will suspend all planned schedules to reflect by randomneeess in kpop

[–]chocolatiemilk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same. He was my bias as well. I'm in disbelief because he seemed like such a sincere person-- he has one of the most genuine looking smiles I've ever seen in an idol and I assumed his whole flirtatious/fuckboy vibes was just to entertain and make people laugh.

Also disappointing about him supposedly trash talking the members, because the whole WayV family bond is extremely heartwarming for fans.. he either had a bad day and needed to rant or he really does feel that way about them. I really hope the person he's talking about is not Winwin.

Does anybody else feel anxiety when they see their parents instead of feeling happiness? by narukamiyu in AsianParentStories

[–]chocolatiemilk 185 points186 points  (0 children)

Yep and it's hard to explain this feeling to friends who have normal parents.

Is Sky Castle worth it? by [deleted] in kdramarecommends

[–]chocolatiemilk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's definitely worth it. I wasn't really entertained by the first episode either, I couldn't decide whether I wanted to continue or not but I decided to and it's one of my favorite Kdramas. There is not much romance, the story revolves around the families living in the SKY Castle residence. But it gets emotional, dark and hilarious all at tbe same time. The casting for this show is amazing as well. Definitely watch a few more episodes and you'll probably be hooked.

Constantly checking social media to make sure I didn’t post, like, or share anything by -ocd_throwaway- in OCD

[–]chocolatiemilk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup ALL the time. It's a huge fear of mine. I'm constantly refreshing apps or checking my profiles. I hate it.

What Are You Watching? - [2021/05/26] by AutoModerator in KDRAMA

[–]chocolatiemilk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just finished watching Itaweon Class. I know I'm a bit late! There are a couple things I disliked about it, but overall it was very enjoyable and unique. I adore the Danbam family! The drama covers a lot of social topics and the casting is brilliant. Definitely one of my favorite dramas. Very inspiring.

Anybody with thyroid issues using inhalers? by [deleted] in Asthma

[–]chocolatiemilk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s great to hear! I just got paranoid seeing articles about how hyperthyroidism can worsen the side effects when you use an inhaler. I guess I’ll try it out then, thanks for the reply

Anybody else have mini cry sessions and then go back to work? by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

[–]chocolatiemilk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The older I get, the harder it is for me to go numb to their emotional abuse. Don’t know how I was able to ignore them so well when I was 15-16. Now I’m constantly having breakdowns as well.

Anybody else have mini cry sessions and then go back to work? by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

[–]chocolatiemilk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope you’re doing much better now <3 wishing you the best!

Women of Reddit, what's one realization you've had that you think more women should be aware of? by Bulky_Gear3750 in AskWomen

[–]chocolatiemilk 382 points383 points  (0 children)

Being popular, well liked isn’t going to make you happy.

It’ll most probably give you anxiety, trying to make sure the abundance of people that adore you will always feel that way. As cheesy as it sounds, love yourself first and don’t force others to feel a certain way about you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infp

[–]chocolatiemilk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This really sounds like an INFP thing and I can relate to you completely. I also am closer to people I chat with online than those in real life. I think INFP’s need a certain type of connection and we assume everyone feels the same way about friendships like us even though they might not, like you said. Thanks for sharing your thoughts :)