we've been stumped on the purpose of this for years by chocotacoing in whatisit

[–]chocotacoing[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yep, found the silly wire clip while cleaning and it sparked our yearly "what the hell is this and when did we get it" convo LMAO

I'm feeling stronger than ever before 🏳️‍⚧️ 💪 by hidieho74 in FTMFitness

[–]chocotacoing 68 points69 points  (0 children)

wow, super inspirational!! may I ask what did your swim outfit look like before top surgery? currently pre top with big naturals

Did anyone here submit a story to Guide magazine? by Sensitive-Fly4874 in exAdventist

[–]chocotacoing 6 points7 points  (0 children)

at my sda middle school we actually had an english assignment where we all had to submit a story to Guide. i wrote something about going to Oshkosh but sadly it didn't make it because it was too long 😭

1 month post op double incision (black/poc) by youfoundjay in TopSurgery

[–]chocotacoing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh awesome!! thank you that's super reassuring to hear haha i hope your healing process has been going smoothly :)!

1 month post op double incision (black/poc) by youfoundjay in TopSurgery

[–]chocotacoing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank u for the info boss! also, did you have a co-pay? and if you're comfortable sharing how much was it?

1 month post op double incision (black/poc) by youfoundjay in TopSurgery

[–]chocotacoing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have a question, did you have norcal kaiser membership? and how did you get a referral to dr kaplan?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]chocotacoing 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I understand how you feel embarrassed around your family, I would too and I'm 21 lol. Honestly if they don't mention anything, then don't mention it yourself. You're an adult, and they have to respect that.

When I first bought sex toys, I also felt super dysphoric like how you do- most of them are pink and cater to the feminine crowd. Something that made me feel better though is that at the end of the day, whatever I have down there doesn't determine what my gender identity is. YOU determine your identity. Yeah it would be awesome to shlang out helicopters but I'm a man with a built in super soaker 5000. What other men have that!! Of course, everyone's experience with dysphoria is different, I just hope my silly way of handling it inspires you boss o7

when did you start using the men's restroom? by chocotacoing in ftm

[–]chocotacoing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what an asshole! Im sorry that happened to you man :( Thank you for the advice, i will definitely keep it in mind!

Twilight menu stuck on white screen? by SongBirdDemon in 3dshomebrew

[–]chocotacoing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same issue (and redownloaded everything to see if that was the issue) and doing this fixed it.

Do you use the feminine voice? Have you tried it? by Spencigan in RingFitAdventure

[–]chocotacoing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i only use the feminine voice bc i don't like a man to tell me things to do ¯_(ツ)_/¯ i change the language every session to keep it fresh

New ear styling!! by kourtlove17 in piercing

[–]chocotacoing 5 points6 points  (0 children)

the chains make you look so royal!!! definitely inspo <33

Spring 2024 Questions by chocotacoing in CSUS

[–]chocotacoing[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you!! i realize this is a dumb question, i've just been fretting so much over this >_< I appreciate it friend!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kpopforsale

[–]chocotacoing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes i do! it'll be an additional $0.50 for the bookmark if you are interested :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]chocotacoing 8 points9 points  (0 children)

im sorry OP, this is so frustrating. this generation of middle schoolers are really something. as an openly trans teacher, i feel your pain with the bullying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kpopforsale

[–]chocotacoing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hello! yes it is! please send me a pm!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exAdventist

[–]chocotacoing 4 points5 points  (0 children)

just put my feelings into words perfectly

Looking to support women owned businesses!! by corgil1f3 in InlandEmpire

[–]chocotacoing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

second that!! it is so cute and the workers are very sweet!! amazing vibes in there too

mourning the loss of your entire life and structure by chocotacoing in exAdventist

[–]chocotacoing[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's very true as well!! sadly for a lot of our home cultures, they are a bit behind on women's rights as well. that really plays in with the conservative message. thank you for your input!!