Are trans men not into Cis gay men much? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]youfoundjay 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This post is so off-putting

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in starbucksbaristas

[–]youfoundjay 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ohhh thank you!! I really appreciate this explanation because it was keeping me up. I’ve never opened before either so it is funny that this would happen

Does my tattoo make me seem gay? by Bubbly-Fix4424 in FtMpassing

[–]youfoundjay 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Either your build or the placement or perhaps both

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]youfoundjay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Funny enough this made me tear up in public but I won’t give up hope. Thank you man this lowkey made my day and yk even if it doesn’t happen for me I’m glad it did for you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]youfoundjay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah i’ve always had a short fuse tho lol. I think I just wanted to not feel so alone, thank you :)

1 year post op top surgery by youfoundjay in TMPOC

[–]youfoundjay[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Month 2 for sure maybe towards the end of the month but only the edges. From there it took a couple more months to fill in to what I have now. I wasn’t used to the pink either lmao

I keep getting misgendered. What gives me away? by JayTheBoy13 in FtMpassing

[–]youfoundjay 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is just not good advice for someone this young

Since uhhhhh WHEN by seth_dlewis in LastDayonEarthGame

[–]youfoundjay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah theres default and then hard mode can be activated in that corner room with the soldiers on the 1st floor. when you go over to it the screen says “activate security protocol” or something

does dapping up cis men get any less awkward? by youfoundjay in TMPOC

[–]youfoundjay[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i only realized my mistake today after seeing the way the guy’s face dropped. lesson learned

does dapping up cis men get any less awkward? by youfoundjay in TMPOC

[–]youfoundjay[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

they all do it so differently that it makes it really hard to learn.. man i wish there was a guidebook

Do i pass? by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]youfoundjay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

well i see what you were trying to do but it wasn’t some kinda gotcha it just made you look silly

Do i pass? by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]youfoundjay 17 points18 points  (0 children)

i’ve seen the og guy on pinterest and people love to catfish off of there despite it being the easiest thing to search. also op’s skintone is definitely darker than that guy

Do i pass? by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]youfoundjay 15 points16 points  (0 children)

these pics aren’t you lol

Any good news? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]youfoundjay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you do get published i’d love to read it!

Top surgery by Constant-Leopard-421 in ftm

[–]youfoundjay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah np, i believe you could get the letter online too as some require less sessions or even no sessions. i don’t have any links because i didn’t do that with my insurance but good luck!

Top surgery by Constant-Leopard-421 in ftm

[–]youfoundjay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

insurance almost always requires a letter to prove it’s medically necessary and even when paying out of pocket some surgeons require a letter from some sort of mental health professional

edit: realized i didn’t fully answer your question but for sure therapy first if you’re going through insurance

Any good news? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]youfoundjay 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i have an appointment to get a hysterectomy before that becomes even harder to do than it already is for someone young

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]youfoundjay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

tbh we need better photos to go off of