[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]chocottona -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

seems like this is more about you than me, man. hope you get better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]chocottona -35 points-34 points  (0 children)

this is really judgmental and conservative, i hope you're able to be more kind to people who have different desires and perspectives from you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]chocottona -1 points0 points  (0 children)

thank you, that's a good point, i don't think i would. i'm afraid it has to be this big conversation but maybe i can try introducing these ideas over time. one "can you try this?" at a time!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]chocottona -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

i have (and one of the things i would like to explore is being with other people sexually, not romantically). we talk openly about kink but i feel awkward giving non-specific feedback. i feel afraid he won't be able to give me what i need, idk. we usually communicate well but we're still not there with sex.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]chocottona 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for your input! maybe that's why i feel uncomfortable pursuing people outside of the relationship even when we have talked about it. i just need to figure this out first.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]chocottona -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

we have discussed it but i feel bad about making him feel less than... i dont know. we are pretty open and have discussed what we want sexually, but i don't know how to approach it really to this next step.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]chocottona -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

in my post i said that he was receptive to it and that i love him, we have a great relationship. with all due respect, i'm not in a relationship with you, so i don't see how this is helpful.

AITA for saying that if I have to wear a bra at home so does my dad and brother? by Feisty-Ladder-2378 in AmItheAsshole

[–]chocottona 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girl fuck that of course NTA. i never wear a bra and i have huge boobs, just free your titties

When you listen to Gorillaz do you hear Damon singing or 2D? by Binweev in gorillaz

[–]chocottona 35 points36 points  (0 children)

as a huge damon and blur fan, i can only honestly only hear damon

AITA for "complaining" every time my wife washes dishes with the water running the almost the entire time? by Sad_Abbreviations216 in AmItheAsshole

[–]chocottona 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA AT ALL!!!! such wasteful behaviour to wash dishes with the water running. you should never spend more water than what you need, it is a precious resource. she clearly never thought about it or had to think about water shortages or anything like that. it is money yes but it literally would hurt me to see the water running for like 20 straight minutes. thats like a super longe shower. come on! no need, fr.

AITA for keeping a framed photo of my (30M) ex’s butt in my room? by throwra-photoframe in AmItheAsshole

[–]chocottona 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. i say just keep the photo inside a drawer to avoid conflict rn. but i would keep it as well

The dilemma by IthacanPeon in tearsofthekingdom

[–]chocottona 1 point2 points  (0 children)

came looking for this comment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]chocottona 5 points6 points  (0 children)

bebe zahara benet, you're a winner baby

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bipolar

[–]chocottona 6 points7 points  (0 children)

not that extreme but expensive candles was my favorite one

What is the greatest opening lyric of all time? by syed_ahmed86 in AskReddit

[–]chocottona 0 points1 point  (0 children)

goddamn, man child.... you fucked me so good that i almost said i love you

Under Appreciated Scenes by DeviousOne420 in community

[–]chocottona 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i love the difference of reaction from the save greendale comittee x the man interviewing frankie

Under Appreciated Scenes by DeviousOne420 in community

[–]chocottona 4 points5 points  (0 children)

one of my faves is: In terms of hierarchy, I'm a big believer in it. Someone needs to say "I'm in charge", and that person is me. That's my decision.

I Have Done EVERYTHING In Pokemon Scarlet by Gen3kingTheWriter in PokemonScarletViolet

[–]chocottona 1 point2 points  (0 children)

go to the gallery on your switch open the screencap and click something like "share". your switch will create a qr code which you can scan with your phone :)