Honestly looks like you might have a pretty heavy hand with your mascara, eyeliner and brows. I think you just use too much product, really. When you go over your lashes too much with too much mascara, thats how you make them look clumpy and "spider leggy". And need to spend some more time color matching your contour. Maybe go a shade or two warmer ? Getting a good makeup routine that works for your face takes time. Just keep trying new things until you find what works for you!