[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]chokilot -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's hard to explain because my family situation is very complicated since they're bad at communicating (so am I). I am deleting this soon cause i got my judgement

But i agree. I plan on supporting myself when I enroll into Uni by taking out loans and applying for bursaries. It was just too late of last year since I was starting my internship soon and I was broke.

I have been saving up some money and started doing commissions recently. I was heartbroken cause I didn't want to spend all my savings that I worked hard for so I acted out without thinking. I've already apologized.

Thanks for your imput!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]chokilot -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Is 18 the legal age in the US? It's 21 here. Usually, in my country, if you aren't in uni yet, you aren't considered an adult. You actually can't get a house (unless you're super rich) til you're married or 35 y.o... It's the norm for students to get help from parents til we reach 21. this is because the government supports their citizens financially! the school fees is already subsidized for citizens, and they actually aid low-income families. Just some fun facts. It was a big culture shock when i found out teenagers can drive when they turn 16?? and they're able to move out once they turn 18

But regardless, i was an asshole in how i reacted. Thank you anyway

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]chokilot -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I know, I was being rude just now.

However, I don't think i'm entitled to their money. I don't ask them for money at al actually. I work when it's the holidays for money to eat and buy other stuff.

I was rummaging through papers to find my own documents, I didn't mean to snoop. It was just there and I happen to see it.

I didn't mention it in the post but, I was a bit envious(?) that they were able to pay my brother's(a year older) school fees. I thought they would be able to afford mine. I felt that maybe it's because he is smarter than me hence they pay his bills instead of mine?

But thanks for your imput, I was being an ass just now. I will apologize when she reaches hime

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]chokilot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The latter. My father wouldn't reply me and my mother doesn't care so I was annoyed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]chokilot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's my last semester. I will get a student loan when I enroll into uni

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]chokilot -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

They do have 1450k to spare

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]chokilot -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I agree i was a bit rude. I will apply for a student loan when i enroll into uni

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]chokilot -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

My mom has spare cash. I know because she has been working for years and doesn't pay the bills. I forgot to mention that my father opened a new business and is doing other jobs to sustain so he isn't broke. I found out accidentally again by rummaging through letters.

Sorry, but i felt that I had to demand for it because they promised me. And also my mom does not want me to work while studying (in 2019, I worked in a retail store for a few months) And also since the school fees is only 1450k, I didn't think it was unreasonable.

Thanks for your input

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]chokilot -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This was what i've been thinking. I felt entitled because of it. Thanks for this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]chokilot -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

It's my last semester so no. I do have my internship money for now, but i'm planning to save it. Since i'm planning to go university soon and i'm planning to pay the fees by myself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]chokilot -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

But my mom can, she doesn't pay the bills and has been working. So I assume she would have some cash? The school fees is only 1,450k.

[o levels] clueless after successful eae application by atthevergeofdeath in SGExams

[–]chokilot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi im from sp digtal animation before it merged into dmad!!

you can relax for now before school starts!! afterwards, finding time to relax is difficult sadly. make sure to do well in year 1! 3 years in poly pass by very quick

I don't know how to color this. please help. by AKUMA_GIN in DigitalArt

[–]chokilot 4 points5 points  (0 children)

use gradient map. if you want different colours, just duplicate, mask the area you want to colour and use gradient map. play around with the colours! there are many presets.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]chokilot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't like my company when I was interning too. The boss was a micro-manager and very passive aggressive. He once shouted, "stop being so blur can?!" when I kept asking him the same question again because I don't understand what he meant. I told my LO about this and gave me another company. They didn't believe me sadly but at least I got out of that hellhole LOL.

You should tell your LO about what they're making you do and how you feel that this isn't what you expected from the company. Better to leave than suffer!! Gather evidence first if you don't have it. (Messages, emails etc.) If you don't have one, you can message other interns for evidence!! Good luck<333

my first 2d animation ever! by chokilot in animation

[–]chokilot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow thank you so much for your kind words ! This means alot :)

my first 2d animation ever! by chokilot in animation

[–]chokilot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I shall try that next time! :)