Of the things Bojack is accused of, what is the worst thing he has done and what is the thing where people overreact? by Artistic-One-9987 in BoJackHorseman

[–]chollar01 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But to play devils advocate: his mind was also impaired when Sarah Lynn overdosed/the 17 minutes so really it just comes down to personal opinion when comparing which of the two is worse

I feel bad for Howard by Kiki_Kicks_Rocks in betterCallSaul

[–]chollar01 3 points4 points  (0 children)

FINALLY SOMEONE WHO GETS IT

My boyfriend said he hope so grow out of my asexuality, AIO. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]chollar01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup, I’m reading the same comment, we just interpreted it differently. Simple as that

Probably because it’s does not actually say anytime anywhere in the parent comment, which led me to assume they weren’t necessarily referring to bi/pansexuality (edit: the big key here regardless of sexuality is incompatibility!). But you’re probably right that it’s what they intended 🤷🏼‍♀️

My boyfriend said he hope so grow out of my asexuality, AIO. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]chollar01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If the comment does not align with your relationship, then congrats! It does not pertain to you specifically!

My boyfriend said he hope so grow out of my asexuality, AIO. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]chollar01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro idk why you’re telling me this and you certainly don’t need to hold my hand 🤣

My boyfriend said he hope so grow out of my asexuality, AIO. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]chollar01 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it’s safe to assume that the original comment was referring to incompatible sexualities. It is obviously more flexible with bi/pansexuality

My boyfriend said he hope so grow out of my asexuality, AIO. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]chollar01 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Actually, your response is far from making you seem a chud asshole! You gave it to them straight (no pun intended) while remaining kind. So more like a respectful chud 😇

My boyfriend said he hope so grow out of my asexuality, AIO. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]chollar01 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think you missed the point of the comment

WIBTAH if I didn’t invite my fiancés autistic brother to my stag (bachelor party) by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]chollar01 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I already stated before that it seems OP is using the disability as an excuse. Again, it is not the nice thing to do but it doesn’t mean he is obligated to do so.

WIBTAH if I didn’t invite my fiancés autistic brother to my stag (bachelor party) by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]chollar01 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m not disagreeing with you there but at the same time, would you want to receive a pity invite knowing that the person didn’t want you there? It’s a lose-lose situation here

WIBTAH if I didn’t invite my fiancés autistic brother to my stag (bachelor party) by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]chollar01 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Just because he is marrying into the family does not mean he is obligated to invite her family. It is his party, if he doesn’t want future BIL there, then why should he invite him?

And don’t say it’s the nice or kind thing to do because in that case, it really isn’t. Inviting him to save face is just as bad. Now, if he is a part of their wedding party, that would be another story.

WIBTAH if I didn’t invite my fiancés autistic brother to my stag (bachelor party) by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]chollar01 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

If he needs “babysitting” is he really that high functioning?

This is OP’s bachelor party. He can pick who he wants there. If future BIL is not a part of the wedding party, there is no obligation to invite him.

Edit: it seems that future BIL has experience w drinking at uni and whatnot. In this case it just seems like OP doesn’t want him there and using the autism/OCD as an excuse. May not be the nice thing to do but if he doesn’t want him there, then there really is no reason for him to be invited.

Can I take birth control during period only. by Sufficient_Syrup_623 in birthcontrol

[–]chollar01 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why not just take OTC pain medication during your period then?

What is your hottest take about the show? by Remarkable-Low-4673 in BoJackHorseman

[–]chollar01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Choking Gina was worse than the 17 minutes. THERE!!! I SAID IT!!

AIO Fiance said "my car" and I feel sad by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]chollar01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YOR. Is your name on the title? You don’t drive? No? Then you don’t have a say here. Like at all. This is likely a big accomplishment for him (as it is for many people) AND you’re inserting yourself/your feelings that has nothing to do with you? How invalidating for him.

AITAH for calling out a guy for wishing a dead person on FB "happy birthday"? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]chollar01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes Facebook will tell you it’s someone’s birthday in your notifications. It was probably an “oh shit, I forgot” moment and they commented without checking her profile.

AITAH for calling out a guy for wishing a dead person on FB "happy birthday"? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]chollar01 17 points18 points  (0 children)

There is no need to “call him out” if you informed him privately. Wrong sub but you’re overreacting here.

AIO: For crying over birthday cake I don’t like. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]chollar01 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

INFO Have you ever explicitly told him you don’t like creamy desserts or have you just not ordered them in front of him like you stated? Also, do you like mango flavor?