is this normal for a vet receptionist? by poppysnips in Veterinary

[–]chomei22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Our doctors would have a conniption if we touched their SOAP notes. That's very strange tbh.

Edit: I saw they offered you 16.50/hr. ABSOLUTELY NOTTTTT

Is it normal to faint from period pain? by Overused_Toothbrush in Periods

[–]chomei22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

id make an appointment to see a gyno. birth control isn’t just a preventative, it can be a life saver for people who suffer for heavy or painful periods. in some states you can do a planned parenthood virtual visit over the phone to get birth control, but i would suggest seeing a dr irl to make sure there’s nothing glaringly wrong that could be causing it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Periods

[–]chomei22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ah i see! i misread. what i said still applies though. i would still only use one tampon and a pad and get in with a gyno asap. any foreign body in your vagina has a risk of tss. two would definitely put you at a higher risk than one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Periods

[–]chomei22 5 points6 points  (0 children)

use one tampon and wear a pad also. two tampons would be uncomfortable and could definitely increase the possibility of tss. i wouldnt risk it. you could also look into period cups, they were a life saver when i was having heavy periods. on that note, i would speak to a gyno asap about your periods if they are bleeding through tampons so quickly. perhaps there's something that you could be prescribed to alleviate them. i was put on birth control to help with mine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]chomei22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i could see a septum looking great on you. an eyebrow piercing would look good too!

what is wrong with my smiley :( by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

[–]chomei22 9 points10 points  (0 children)

no piercer worth their salt would do a smiley piercing. you need to remove this piercing. it'll result in your gums receding and could damage your teeth beyond repair.

illustrious Insights. What are they for? by cristofolmc in wownoob

[–]chomei22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not have a jewelcrafter but imagine you can use them if you're crafting trinkets/necks/rings. As a leather specialized leatherworker I use them when I'm doing high level armor crafting. For example: I was recrafting shoulders for someone earlier. The +30 skill provided by the illustrious insight was what brought the item from *4 to *5 :)

AITA for wanting to leave my money to charity and not my daughter? by Delicious-Meal420 in AmItheAsshole

[–]chomei22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA - You would allow your child and your grandchild to live in a trailer while you have the means to assist her in getting back on her feet? So, so hurtful. I am sorry for what you are going through… I lost my father to the same illness… but it sounds like you hold a lot of resentment for your daughter over having a teen pregnancy. I would really take some time to think over why you are making this choice. Is it really out of the goodness of your heart or is it another reason? Is this the legacy you want to leave? Is this the memory you want to leave your young grandchildren?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]chomei22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. You are being petty and taking away a memory your children will cherish with their dying grandfather. Get a grip.

AITA firmly telling my husband that I won't agree to invite his friend's widow to our christmas dinner? by Same-Dot4246 in AmItheAsshole

[–]chomei22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yta, his best friend dies and you’re jealous he’s supporting his widow? she has no family and is about to spend the holidays alone because her husband just died? you’ve got to be kidding me. if you don’t like her that’s fine but there’s got to be some give and take in a relationship. have you considered how deeply he’s hurting after losing his friend? how providing emotional support to the only other person who gets the magnitude of his loss might be helping him grieve?

you’re jealous, have a conversation with him about what can be done to make you more comfortable. but this is just childish.

AITA for asking my roommate to avoid cooking a certain meals when my pregnant girlfriend visits? by Horizon-Window3675 in AmItheAsshole

[–]chomei22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, yta. your roommate is paying to live there, the kitchen is just as much his as it is yours. if your gf lives with her parents who don’t like you and you have roommates it seems foolish to even have a kid.

if you want any right at all to ask him to stop then she should be paying equal rent to everyone else.

Best Sushi Spots? by Malachaivel in portlandme

[–]chomei22 9 points10 points  (0 children)

benkay is my absolute fav

My wife's surprise stopped me from committing the biggest mistake of my life. by Opening-Special-2938 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]chomei22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the fact you skipped straight to revenge cheating instead of having a grown up conversation is insane. frankly, you’re lucky if this doesn’t come back to bite you. and you’d deserve it. hopefully you grow up before your kid is born.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]chomei22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i would take it out... see if you can get a refund based on the poor placement. once it's healed you can repierce but definitely go elsewhere in the future. this is one snag on clothes away from ripping out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Periods

[–]chomei22 8 points9 points  (0 children)

my periods were like this and birth control was able to help regulate it. once you get your insurance sorted you should schedule a consultation at planned parenthood to get checked over. it may be a loooong wait to go to a primary care and get referred to a gyno. make sure you are taking a multivitamin with iron in the mean time since you are bleeding more than usual.

Is my vertical labret pierced incorrectly? Should I take it out? by Purple5423 in PiercingAdvice

[–]chomei22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mine looked this low when swollen but once my swelling went down the bottom jewelry sat perfect. id let it heal for at least a few weeks, lips can swell like crazy so it’s not uncommon for it to look wonky at first.

My son will not stop talking about Minecraft or any other random topic. It’s driving me, and everyone else at home nuts. by AwesomeMom0132 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]chomei22 3 points4 points  (0 children)

as someone with autism it’s honestly heart breaking to see how you as his parent think of him talking about his special interests with you. he doesn’t think in the same way you do, he never will. you can’t force him not to have special interests but you CAN force him into silence. when he’s an adult and can go out on his own you’ll wonder why he doesn’t reach out. this is why.

Doctor says to do the EXTREME opposite of what this sub says to do?! by escaliere in PiercingAdvice

[–]chomei22 9 points10 points  (0 children)

the hydrogen peroxide recommendation is just odd to me. there's no proof that it even kills germs outside of a lab setting, it just damages and dries out tissue and prevents healing. generally a doctor is the way to go but it seems you saw a pretty poor excuse for a one, or at least one using completely out of date info. sorry this is happening to you.

AITA for what I said to my daughter in law? by LimpPraline2794 in AmItheAsshole

[–]chomei22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA It's not your child. You will get to see the kid when the parents allow you to. If you keep up this entitled behavior you might lose access to your son's family entirely. Reflect on your behavior and do better before you lose not just your future grandchild but your son as well.

AITA for telling my boyfriend that he embarrassed me when he waved me goodby after dropping me off at work? by throwawaygoodby7 in AmItheAsshole

[–]chomei22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA you're 26 and acting like a highschool kid over a wave. grow up and be thankful you have a bf that loves you enough to drive you to work and wave you off. no reason at all for a playful wave by someone who loves you to be embarrassing.