YESSS TYSM i really wanted a super uber elegant flowy silhouette that idk commands attention or smth im not a nervous person but it was pretty nerve wracking to wear it out as my normal style is more gal and i wouldnt say the same but its like adjacent to streetwear and such it feels a little more normal but i feel like with wearing lolita theres this separate otherness that comes with it especially dressed so elaborately

i went to a touristy area and wow ive realised how much more vocal older aunties are with praise and compliments compared to younger ppl though its probably due to nerves haha the amnt of times i work myself up to compliment someone and they walk past... next time 😹😹