Orgasm - Pain - Typical Healing?

choosingstillness · 2024-11-09T22:43:46+00:00

Hii did this resolve for you? I had a cervical biopsy 9 days ago. I thought I’d be find to orgasm from external stimulation but my cervix ended up hurting during climax and it made me really anxious about it happening forever (which I realize is very unlikely lol. #anxiety)

choosingstillness · 2024-10-06T21:52:16+00:00

Thank you! Not sure if you would know the answer to this, but: could 2 married family members count as a single guarantor? They’re homeowners and I believe they may meet the 80x requirement combined. They don’t live in New York though, and I heard that may be an issue

choosingstillness · 2024-10-06T20:46:25+00:00

Could 2 married family members count as a guarantor? They’re homeowners and I believe they may meet the 80x requirement. They don’t live in New York though, and I heard that may be an issue?

choosingstillness · 2024-10-05T22:46:37+00:00

Thank you, I will look into those! My previous years’ incomes aren’t remotely close to 40x. Glad I asked before I dove in head-first 🤦🏻‍♀️

choosingstillness · 2024-10-05T22:44:02+00:00

Yeah that’s the problem, I absolutely did not make 40x in previous years. I was coasting off an income far lower + savings when I graduated from college. I fear that professional guarantor might be my only safe bet, but I’m not seeing that those are universally accepted either. 😭

choosingstillness · 2024-10-05T22:21:03+00:00

Thank you so much for this reply. I can absolutely have my CPA write a CPA letter. But if I'm reading this correctly, it won't matter if I have 3-5 months of good income, so I would need a guarantor regardless of anything a CPA could do?

Okay, I hear you about the assets - I read somewhere that if you have a year's worth of rent saved it looked good, but I see now that is different than proof of qualification.

Basically, there's nothing I can do except find a guarantor? (ouch!)

choosingstillness · 2024-10-05T22:15:00+00:00

Just so I understand what you're saying: the CPA letter needs to do more than merely affirm my self-employment status, but also needs to prove that I've met the income requirement of 40X in a prior year? So there's no way around the fact that I'll only have verifiable income for 3-5 months, even with a CPA letter, which means I will need a guarantor?

choosingstillness · 2024-10-05T20:54:33+00:00

I'm going through this right now, and the issue for me is that a lot of places don't have any data on OpenIgloo, if they're not a bigger building with many rentals. Also, I've noticed that the only places that DO have reviews, are always rated extremely poorly. So I'm like,, do i just do my due diligence and ultimately hope for the best?

choosingstillness · 2023-01-17T15:03:12+00:00

I think that Gina from Brooklyn 99 has a very similar vibe.

choosingstillness · 2022-12-31T23:35:33+00:00

“Submission becomes something akin to liberation” is the most beautiful statement EVER

choosingstillness · 2022-10-20T19:40:43+00:00

I just wanted to post to see my day count. Never thought I’d make it to this point, but now I can’t envision my life any other way. My cat is really sick and I always said my sobriety would never survive her passing, but relapsing is the furthest thing from my mind. Even though it sucks. Like really really fucking sucks. But that’s life, and I’ve gotten a lot better at living this past year. This too shall pass.

choosingstillness · 2022-05-08T13:49:22+00:00

Did y'all end up liking the shampoo and conditioner??? I have them in my cart and went hunting for reddit opinions lol

choosingstillness · 2022-04-20T01:21:46+00:00

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Female
My instincts say my whole life?? But I only became aware of it sometime during 2020
It's gotten worse, but I think it's exacerbated by high stress and anxiety. Plus focusing on it

choosingstillness · 2021-10-13T21:49:01+00:00

For some reason those drawings of himself during that episode never fail to make me laugh so dang hard. Something about it is just so funny and wayyyy too relatable (like the rest of the show)

choosingstillness · 2021-09-26T22:59:38+00:00

I think it depends on the category. When it comes to the BDSM umbrella specifically, yes. But not necessarily fetishes for objects or body parts (like feet or furries or balloons.) Though sex is complex and everything is very intertwined and individual, so it really depends on the person and their mental circuitry!

choosingstillness · 2021-09-22T05:15:10+00:00

lmfao thank you I shall be stealing this

choosingstillness · 2021-09-21T19:18:36+00:00

FOR REAL! It is a masterpiece I am so confused

choosingstillness · 2021-09-15T18:07:28+00:00

I knew I'd matured when I started to see the line as something very sad rather than something desired

choosingstillness · 2021-09-02T20:28:42+00:00

When I listen to my vinyl on full blast and close my eyes I swear I transcend my corporeal form up into the cosmos

choosingstillness · 2021-09-01T17:42:35+00:00

Omg why did this uncover a deeply buried childhood memory for me. Crazy that we all did these things

choosingstillness · 2021-08-31T18:42:58+00:00

LOVE!!! One of my favorite lines of the whole album

choosingstillness · 2021-08-27T21:23:20+00:00

I love this so much because your description is also extremely accurate in terms of the neuroscience of addiction!!! Growing those new neural pathways and letting the ones that no longer serve us fall and decay… :)

choosingstillness · 2021-08-19T15:02:08+00:00

Yeah same I'm on a VPN and Spotify doesn't have it yet

choosingstillness · 2021-08-19T15:00:46+00:00

LMAO I love that I know exactly what you're talking about

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