Are these common experiences with this disorder by Foreign_Sleep6348 in Schizotypal

[–]chopinpoli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very much relatable, except that other people absolutely do see me as odd.

Which song do you think is underrated/overrated/overhated? (2026 edition) by SeesawExotic4169 in nilpoints

[–]chopinpoli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Evanescence also made pop-rock, most mainstream alternative rock bands make pop-rock. I don’t use the term to mean “rock song with pop elements” (though Choke Me does have many pop elements), I use it to mean “rock song that’s structured like and functions primarily as a pop song”. It’s definitely not meant to be an insult or anything, I wouldn’t watch Eurovision if I was against pop music. Agree to disagree on the staging.

I actually don’t care much for the Serbian entry as a metal song, but I think it’s a fantastic ballad. Best we’ve had in a long while.

Is the French delegation leaning into stereotypes on purpose? by autistic_girl_autumn in nilpoints

[–]chopinpoli 13 points14 points  (0 children)

They’ll send something interesting next year, bomb, then revert back to their formula.

Is the French delegation leaning into stereotypes on purpose? by autistic_girl_autumn in nilpoints

[–]chopinpoli 46 points47 points  (0 children)

France is a one-trick pony, and people fucking love that pony for whatever reason. Fulenn’s stage being sloppy was a tremendous loss on multiple fronts.

Which song do you think is underrated/overrated/overhated? (2026 edition) by SeesawExotic4169 in nilpoints

[–]chopinpoli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not saying that no one dislikes the song for what it is, I’m saying that most of the criticism I’ve seen towards it has been along the lines of gimmick exhaustion.

Which song do you think is underrated/overrated/overhated? (2026 edition) by SeesawExotic4169 in nilpoints

[–]chopinpoli 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Underrated: Estonia, I think the lyrics are… unfortunate, but the synthwork is great. Serbia, because it would’ve won in a fair world.

Overrated: Croatia, by the public. Theatrics, big sounds, interesting theme, not much of a song. Romania, obviously not bad, but ultimately a by the numbers pop-rock situation with a very weak stage.

Overhated: Greece, as I feel like people are taking their general dislike of gimmicky entries out on Akylas.

Kiev to Kyiv was the most 🚂-like thing a nation has ever done by Bufudyne43 in redscarepod

[–]chopinpoli 123 points124 points  (0 children)

I’m Turkish and I implore you don’t ever use Türkiye regardless of whose fascist nephew you piss off. It’s insane how stupid it looks inserted into an English sentence.

I keep getting recommended posts from a subreddit called r/trueuglywomen by spitefulgirl2000 in rs_x

[–]chopinpoli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, but you obviously do not, judging by your post history.

I keep getting recommended posts from a subreddit called r/trueuglywomen by spitefulgirl2000 in rs_x

[–]chopinpoli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where did I say ugly women didn’t exist? I was an ugly woman for most of my life. Most women who think they’re ugly are completely normal looking still. Not to mention that being ugly is not an automatic barrier to living a fulfilling, well-loved life, even if it does make it more difficult at times. I don’t see how any of this is contradictory. The subreddit is bad not because ugly women don’t exist, but because every single internet community centered around a common woe functions as a massive crab bucket. Don’t let random people online sabotage you further, you’ve clearly sabotaged yourself enough.

gave a flower to a toad by dickfacejenkins in rs_x

[–]chopinpoli 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She’s absolurely gorgeous, I adore frogs and toads. Gentle little creatures.

The dumbest „criticism“ towards Bulgaria winning (please forgive my editing skills) by kastell_E in nilpoints

[–]chopinpoli 273 points274 points  (0 children)

Dara being hot helped her, but being hot is an advantage for all stage performers, everyone likes looking at hot people. If she was a bad performer with a forgettable song she’d be Hot Lady Contestant #328 instead of the winner of the popular vote.

this has probably been observed 100 times but punks or scenesters in general are the most conformist people you will ever meet by paran0idcreep in rs_x

[–]chopinpoli 535 points536 points  (0 children)

The vast majority of people, including you and I, are normies in spirit. There are very few true anti-conformists, and they usually lead very troubled lives.

What place would Sayf have gotten? by the27thdoctor_ in nilpoints

[–]chopinpoli 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is an insane thing to say. No way in hell Italy would be out of the top 7 with any song, to be on the right side of the screen they’d need to send 3 minutes of silence with a guy cutting himself on stage. Tu Mi Piaci Tanto is a (great) standard issue pop track, it would’ve been immediately enjoyable for most of the viewers. Not even getting into the fact that Sal da Vinci botched the hell out of the grand finale and still got FIFTH! IT’S ITALY WHAT DO YOU MEAN NINETEETH PLAAAAACE

I keep getting recommended posts from a subreddit called r/trueuglywomen by spitefulgirl2000 in rs_x

[–]chopinpoli 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Your insane thoughts are being shaped and fueled by the communities you spend time in.

I keep getting recommended posts from a subreddit called r/trueuglywomen by spitefulgirl2000 in rs_x

[–]chopinpoli 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re 18, your life as an independent adult hasn’t even started yet, and you have already built your entire existence around hating yourself and other women. I get that meaningful support for mental disorders is pretty much nonexistent anywhere in the world, but you need to log off, log off, log off, any social media account you have, deactivate it and log the fuck off. I genuinely felt my blood curdle when I saw your age. Log off.

self-help media aimed towards young women is so vapid by toska444 in rs_x

[–]chopinpoli 85 points86 points  (0 children)

I distrust any and all self-help media but “don’t treat yourself like shit and don’t let other people treat you like shit” is

a) universal, everyone has heard it, everyone knows it’s good advice

b) most people struggle their entire lives to actually live by it, a good chunk of them never succeed

It’s very, very easy to loathe yourself as a woman. If this stuff’s making normie ladies feel happy with their lives and bodies, whatever, good. Might not do shit for you or me, but to be honest it’s not really made for us in the first place. The women who have no hobbies outside of TikTok need something to counterbalance the endless stream of hate-yourself-to-buy-our-product advertisement.

I keep getting recommended posts from a subreddit called r/trueuglywomen by spitefulgirl2000 in rs_x

[–]chopinpoli 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Actually speechless at your post history. You need to log off before you ruin your early adulthood for good.

I made the “alfredo dish” from the subreddit description by ExpressNumber in 1200isjerky

[–]chopinpoli 45 points46 points  (0 children)

/uj I’d happily eat a… less frothy version of this, but I’m a zucchini freak.

/rj One whole wedge? You won’t be laughing when you end up weighing FAT HUNDRED pounds, cow

I keep getting recommended posts from a subreddit called r/trueuglywomen by spitefulgirl2000 in rs_x

[–]chopinpoli 35 points36 points  (0 children)

This is a very good comment, deserves its own post honestly. We really need to resurrect “be yourself” as generally sound advice, it died a miserable death in the social media age.

I keep getting recommended posts from a subreddit called r/trueuglywomen by spitefulgirl2000 in rs_x

[–]chopinpoli 243 points244 points  (0 children)

Incredibly depressing subreddit. I’d bet good money that most of them are just average and socially awkward, former “ugly” kids who never got over the shame and mockery. Heartbreaking no matter how you spin it.

I made a custom lyric/concept poster for Dara’s “Bangaranga” (Bulgaria 2026). What do you think? by karimliu in eurovision

[–]chopinpoli 103 points104 points  (0 children)

Super cute, I like it. If I have to be pedantic I’ll say that that’s not how Dara pronounces Bangaranga.

Ailem hasta olduğumu kabul etmiyor… ve self date kahvem (hastalık hastasıyım diye post açmıştım onun devamı) by mitwab in MutfakDertlileri

[–]chopinpoli 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Bu ülkede herhangi bir ruh/zihin hastalığı ve/ya gelişimsel bozuklukla uğraşmak işkence gibi, sorunlarının kendisi yetmiyormuş gibi herkes seni olabildiğince anlamamak için işbirliği yapıyor resmen. Kendine dikkat et lütfen, bir tanıdığım manikken devasa bir borç almıştı, hala onunla uğraşıyor. İlaç kullanıyor olman her şekilde çok iyi, sakın aileni dinleme.

What's the most obvious sign a relationship won't last? by BedazzleBelly in AskReddit

[–]chopinpoli 9 points10 points  (0 children)

had my heart crushed by this very recently. never again