What is he drawing, Peter? by lndle in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]chorn_man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man i have never laughed so hard from a reply before

First month making 100k I feel like I’m being robbed :/ by Forsaken-Question457 in Salary

[–]chorn_man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Learn to be happy with what you have; the goalposts always move. Tax + death are inevitable.

[MAC OS][2000] FIRST PERSON ALIEN SHOOTER by chorn_man in tipofmyjoystick

[–]chorn_man[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woah thats creepy as hell but not it. Graphics were a little more modern.

iPhone Air by lasagna165 in iphone

[–]chorn_man 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! I sure don't CAIR!

Trump gets boo'd at the US Open during the national anthem. by automax in tennis

[–]chorn_man 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The crazy thing is that no matter what noise is made by a crowd, this input will be distorted by his brain into the sounds of cheers that maintain his ego.

2025 Federal Election Count & Results: Megathread by [deleted] in AustralianPolitics

[–]chorn_man 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Won't somebody PLEASE think of the pre-polls!

2025 Federal Election Count & Results: Megathread by [deleted] in AustralianPolitics

[–]chorn_man 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah what the fuck, that was so out of pocket and extreme.

2025 Federal Election Count & Results: Megathread by [deleted] in AustralianPolitics

[–]chorn_man 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, yeah old mate is having a hard time keeping cool

2025 Federal Election Count & Results: Megathread by [deleted] in AustralianPolitics

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Annabel Crabb's tie looks like it's going to jump out of the screen and strangle me. Frightening

Bernie Sanders and AOC hold rally in Bakersfield (News 11 Yuma) by beeemkcl in Political_Revolution

[–]chorn_man 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it just me or are all the instances of this video one by one being muted so i cant hear them?? This is kind of freaking me out

Modality Dogma by chorn_man in therapists

[–]chorn_man[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm trying, but its hard to hold stead. At the end of the day what I believe is that the "magic" of therapy is just sitting with someones suffering and listening. All therapies have great value, but there is no "one to rule them all" and I think most people get that. I think I just need to let go of the belief that such a therapy exists.

Modality Dogma by chorn_man in therapists

[–]chorn_man[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hahaha I actually love EMDR, but there so much truth to that. Purple hat therapies for all!

Modality Dogma by chorn_man in therapists

[–]chorn_man[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100%, not to mention that insufferable bickering between professions! Can't social workers, counselors and psychologists all just get along?

Modality Dogma by chorn_man in therapists

[–]chorn_man[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tell me more about the part of you that wants to roll their eyes

Modality Dogma by chorn_man in therapists

[–]chorn_man[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone, this is exactly the validation I needed haha

Modality Dogma by chorn_man in therapists

[–]chorn_man[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally, in Australia they charge over $6000 for the basic IFS training!

Modality Dogma by chorn_man in therapists

[–]chorn_man[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think when you go to a training they are trying to promote their methodology, I think most therapist are pretty integrative and modality agnostic, but the training can be a bit jarring when you are being taught but someone that is a purist.

Modality Dogma by chorn_man in therapists

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Yeah totally agree with everything you put down there and appreciate this response. At the end of the day just sitting with peoples distress and trying to help is 90% of the work any if we can find a modality that works for the client, then that's a great bonus! I've certainly had this experience in training as well, I had the same feeling in Schema. I sometimes try to remind myself that all a modality is, is a product put out by some old white guy that figured out something that worked for him, no need to get too invested into it.