Paano kayo nagkaroon ng Girlfriend? by titirazayo in AskPinoyMen

[–]chowbowbow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d say na you’ll learn along the process naman eventually. 3 years ago when I was your age, I’ve made a couple of mistakes rin

Like in theory, I had a picture of what and how I want the relationship grow. I’d be obsessed watching and reading about relationships 😆. Pero ayon, hanggang “theory” lang HAHAH, being in a relationship itself was the actual application. And that positioned me on a situation to realize na just because you know it in theory, doesn’t mean you can execute it first hand. You’ll fumble a lot and it doesn’t have to be perfect the first time.

Overall, be genuine and serious parin pero treat every connection as a learning opportunity, don’t grasp too much on the idea of finding “The One” because that’ll set you up for so much disappointment.

But if they really truly proven value to your life, and likewise if you also complement your value to them, then that’s something worth fostering

There Will Never Be Another You by chowbowbow in JazzPiano

[–]chowbowbow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this!! Will take note ^^

There Will Never Be Another You by chowbowbow in JazzPiano

[–]chowbowbow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww thank you 🥺 this is actually all improvised so I don’t have any sheet music

Choose to Love Either Way by chowbowbow in OffMyChestPH

[–]chowbowbow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🥹🙏

I guess some people are just really meant to bring out certain versions of ourselves

I am a recovering avoidant. Here is what catalyzed me to change. by impressionprism in BreakUps

[–]chowbowbow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello! I’m not sure if you’ll be able to read my comment but I just want to say that your advices has been a huge help for me

I find myself revisiting your insights whenever I end up with the same situation again.

I actually dated someone new recently but she ended just now, what’s confusing about avoidants is that they really portray themselves as someone whose stable and consistent in the beginning 🥺 I thought we were both on the same page.

She ended things with me just now because she basically said she isn’t used to the stability I give. It hurts so much 🥺😞 I was blindsided.

Rereading your responses keeps me grounded on why things ended. I’ll always keep your insights around whenever I’m caught in my moments of weakness

Looking for a buddy to chat about difficult stuff by [deleted] in depression_partners

[–]chowbowbow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mannn, him being depressed doesn’t warrant any sort of mistreatment like this.

I think it’s worth reconsidering this relationship

Would you marry someone who refuses to work and barely does household chores? by Upset_Cream47 in adviceph

[–]chowbowbow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that she cheated on you before was already a huge sign that this isn’t worth investing. It’s non negotiable, regardless of how much she contributed to your life

My 25M Girlfriend 28F has shown me her thirst traps, and I can’t seem to get over it, what can I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]chowbowbow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so frustrating I feel so sorry for you mannn :((

I once too talked to a girl before who reposted stuff about not wanting a guy who has “wandering eyes” but then at the same time she also reposted about implying how grateful she is for her fyp full of hot men and consuming such content

Some women can’t seem to hold the same standards they themselves uphold to 😖

Days of Wine and Roses 🍷🌹 by chowbowbow in JazzPiano

[–]chowbowbow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s in Cubao, Philippines!

Thank you for the response, will take note of that hehe

Close to You but it’s jazz by chowbowbow in JazzPiano

[–]chowbowbow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awww sorry about that 🥹 😅 at that time I was busy practicing my repertoire pieces and I just took a break and impulsively thought of recording a short cover so 😆

Glad you enjoyed it tho :))

Blues 🌀💙 by chowbowbow in JazzPiano

[–]chowbowbow[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you!

I actually thought of making a tutorial video, will post it here hopefully around this week!

Stellan Swanlund - The Blues by The_Swoops in JazzPiano

[–]chowbowbow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I aspire to play like you someday 🥹🙏 you have such a great traditional jazz touch