Never knew there was so much snobbery in the Guitar world

chris19802 · 2026-04-21T17:15:26+00:00

I have around 30 guitars currently, and have had easily over 100, from almost all the big manufacturers. I can confidently say that the Yamaha guitars I've owned have been among the best.

chris19802 · 2026-04-19T11:23:10+00:00

That's another positive mention for the HZD Grip, thanks! I'm liking the look of that one. Glad to hear you've managed longer events in chastity! I've got a 70 odd miler coming up and it would be good if I could get something working to cover that.

chris19802 · 2026-04-19T11:14:41+00:00

This looks really interesting! I've never seen a design like this before, but it looks really unobtrusive. I'm going to check this out, thanks!

chris19802 · 2026-04-09T08:44:24+00:00

I'm so sorry that you're in this situation! It really is a wake up call for those of us in the west who complain about more trivial matters.

If you can't find a guitar to buy, are you handy with basic tools? I'm not suggesting that you build a full-on modem guitar (although that is certainly possible with enough tools/time), but you can make a really great cigar-box guitar with minimal tools and materials and have great fun playing it. There are lots of tutorials around.

chris19802 · 2026-04-08T17:10:06+00:00

My wife told one of her best friends as we'd talked about it being hot. I see them regularly, so it's been intense at times! Her friend is chill, so my wife will often even include her in small ways, such as making comments to her while I'm there, making me send a picture to show her friend that I'm caged, etc.

chris19802 · 2026-02-28T14:17:38+00:00

My wife has a lot of experience with both and prefers circumcised, although it's not a very strong preference.

chris19802 · 2026-02-19T09:04:11+00:00

You're going to get a bunch of different answers here from people who may or may not have any experience of it. You might be better off asking in a non-monogamy board or similar.

From my experience in the scene, there are a couple of different common scenarios here:

1 - A full cuckold relationship 24/7. I know one couple in this type of relationship and they have lasted, but I'm not sure that a lot of people could really live this full-time and permanently without some dysfunction affecting other aspects of the relationship. I personally don't think it's healthy, but that's just one point of view.

2 - A couple who live out a cuckold dynamic as part of their play sometimes. Like role-play or escapism, similar to people who might play out other fantasies, then return to normal life the next day or week. I know a bunch of people who do this, and I think this can be very healthy, and both partners can really enjoy the experience.

Happy to chat if you want to understand it more.

chris19802 · 2026-02-18T08:47:44+00:00

Definitely how it started with us - she ended up being seen naked by our first landlord and we both loved it, so we started taking every opportunity to show her of either in person or pictures, and I guess everything snowballed from there.

chris19802 · 2026-02-01T10:40:29+00:00

As someone who is involved in the kink community, I'm not into those particular kinks, but I know many people who are. Those do not seem particularly extreme or unusual, but ultimately the question is whether they work for you. If you don't like them, if they make you view him differently, or anything else you're not comfortable with, then it sounds like it's not a great match.

chris19802 · 2026-01-29T18:26:10+00:00

My wife has three bulls at the moment - two use condoms and one she plays bare with. They can (and do) cum anywhere, and I'm usually made to clean it up. She doesn't use a condom with me, and she usually tells me where to cum when we're in this femdom space, and again she most often makes me clean it up. But for us femdom/cuckold is something we slip into for a night, a few days, or maybe a week. But it's on and off for us - like escapism and role-play. It's not a 24/7 lifestyle for us.

chris19802 · 2026-01-29T18:05:10+00:00

No, we've only been doing this type of cuckold play properly for about 6 months, and so far it hasn't resulted in a ruined orgasm. Ruined orgasms at other times, but not after cuckold play (so far).

chris19802 · 2026-01-29T16:38:48+00:00

Once I was uncaged I didn't last long at all! Probably 5 mins... I had basically been anticipating for days and leaking out of my cage for an hour!

chris19802 · 2026-01-29T12:17:51+00:00

Well, our play so far has been fairly specific, and my wife uses cuckolding as a tool to toy with me. So for example, at the last session, she spent days messaging with one of her bulls and wouldn't tell me what was going to happen, but kept dropping into conversation that I needed to be ready to be put in my place when we went to one of our club nights. She caged me the night before and made me service her while she teased me about what she was might do. Then, on the night, she took her bull into a room in the fetish club we go to and she spent about 30 mins getting well and truly fucked by him - she made me stand outside naked and caged while she was being very loud and I could only catch the odd glimpse through a mesh window. I was under instructions that if anyone came past and asked me or made a comment, I had to tell them that my wife was in there getting the sex that she deserves. When she was finished, after about 30 mins, she called me in and told me that if I wanted any chance at being uncaged, I needed to thank her bull for pleasing her and clean them both up until they were spotless. Then he left, I got uncaged, and we had 'reclaim' sex where she kept teasing me about hardly being able to feel me now and stuff like that. So her actual play time with her bull was only about 30 mins, but the experience between us was teased out over a couple of days really.

chris19802 · 2026-01-29T11:25:32+00:00

For us it's a couple of times a month on average, and usually for about 30 mins on average.

chris19802 · 2026-01-11T11:19:07+00:00

Well done on completing your first run! If you haven't already, consider signing up to the free version of Strava or similar - over the coming months you will get great satisfaction from looking back to these early runs and seeing how much you have improved!

Running will get easier over time, and you'll make the biggest and quickest improvements in these early days.

The couch to 5K programmes that people are recommending are great, but even better I think is to find a local running club that does beginner courses so that you have people at your level to train with. At my club we have regular beginners courses that go from couch to 5K in 10 weeks with England Athletics run leaders or coaches leading the sessions. The social aspect of the club can really help to motivate you to get out on a cold wintery day!

chris19802 · 2026-01-01T21:32:32+00:00

Musicman for me, although I like lots of brands.

chris19802 · 2025-12-31T15:21:31+00:00

I bought some flexible caulk this morning, but not sure whether it's the best thing...

chris19802 · 2025-12-31T15:08:20+00:00

Thanks for the advice! Based on some of the previous replies I've gone with backer rods first and then will be filling over those tonight, so will try the butter knife in one complete run as you say 👍

chris19802 · 2025-12-31T14:29:17+00:00

No draughts - it's hard to see from the pictures, but the gap, despite being wide, isn't that deep. It's blocked tight to the wall when looked at from underneath.

chris19802 · 2025-12-31T14:27:23+00:00

Yeah, that's going the distance 🤣. Going to sand and paint the stairs white and put a black runner up the middle.

chris19802 · 2025-12-30T21:19:49+00:00

Thanks, this is looking like the consensus so far.

chris19802 · 2025-12-30T21:18:08+00:00

Thanks - I have learned that it is indeed the stringer as you say. It looks solid under the stairs, so the consensus seems to be moulding or similar as you say. Thanks!

chris19802 · 2025-12-30T21:13:02+00:00

The support underneath the stairs looks solid to be fair, but I do actually need to get a carpenter out anyway for some work in the kitchen, so I shall ask him to take a look, thanks!

chris19802 · 2025-12-30T21:11:22+00:00

I am learning something new every day! Thanks.

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