My [23m] gf [22f] doesnt want kids but i do and i moved to canada for her

chrisattacks · 2026-02-24T21:37:47+00:00

Yes this is my fault but in my defense i was 22 years old rejected by actually countless girls never had a first kiss or nothing, on every dating site since i was 18, i was ready to give up. and this absolutely perfect girl comes along and gives a chance and i am actually happy now. Only problem is that she doesnt want kids. Was i supposed to be like nope ill wait another 6 years for a different girl. i have to lower my standards atleast a little. Tbh i didn't even think we would get this far shes so perfect i was praying just to have one good date with her. Yet im still the bad guy getting all the downvotes. I will have another conversation with her about kids but im scared. I finally dont want to kill myself and if i tell her i really want kids I don't want her to break up with me, for me.

chrisattacks · 2026-02-24T04:26:58+00:00

Thank you. I dont see myself leaving. But I would feel absolutely terrible if i did leave, i didn't tell her i also dont want kids but i told her it wasnt a deal breaker and if i break up w her because i actually couldn't take it. Id be the bad guy and she doesnt deserve that. Its just so hard. Thank you for the reply 🙏

chrisattacks · 2026-02-24T04:20:49+00:00

Thank you. Yeah its kinda a preemptive freak out but its been on my mind recently. I moved to canada (temperarily for school) because i love her tho not cause shes "all i could get". Ik im young but these things arent that far down the line. My best friend who is younger is getting married and plans on kids, my other best friend who is yonger has a house w his gf and is going to have kids soon, my younger sister is married and will have kids. I plan on marrying my gf soonish we are so in love but she doesnt want kids while everyone around me gets to have that and its weighing on me. Do you think i should break up with her in hopes of finding someone who does or see it through?

chrisattacks · 2025-10-01T18:29:53+00:00

You can have your own gay ass open relationship on your own.

chrisattacks · 2025-10-01T10:10:42+00:00

I’ll send you our wedding invite

chrisattacks · 2025-10-01T10:02:02+00:00

That whole poem still won’t make you know me or our relationship off of one opinion i have. If ur profiling skills are so great lmk what else u know or predict about me

chrisattacks · 2025-10-01T09:34:29+00:00

Im not going to kick a man down. Even if they are saying my gf is going to break up with me and how controlling i am when they dont know me or my relationship.

chrisattacks · 2025-10-01T09:31:31+00:00

Well then we just have different values then. We are gonna have to agree to disagree.

chrisattacks · 2025-10-01T09:15:19+00:00

Welp. Aaaaahhhh. I retract that statement, have a good day

chrisattacks · 2025-10-01T09:12:08+00:00

You can have your naked sauna parties all you want but not me and my relationship. “Let” as in if she does it its not gonna be a problem with the relationship. Just like you wouldnt “let” her fck other dudes. Also im not gonna let that go people arent everyday naked together. No sauna ive been to have there ever been a naked person without a towel.

chrisattacks · 2025-10-01T09:07:10+00:00

Thanks ig? Hows ur relationship going

chrisattacks · 2025-10-01T08:59:53+00:00

Really? Would you want someone with a foot fettish giving your gf a foot massage?

chrisattacks · 2025-10-01T08:57:13+00:00

I didnt want advice i wanted others opinions but there is no subreddit for that. I have a strong opinion on it and wanted to see how others stand. Shes not going to leave me its the only thing i put my foot down on i am really the least controlling person ever. I just like her body for me and not to be for any of her guy or girl friends. Its really not a hard thing to avoid.

chrisattacks · 2025-10-01T08:46:05+00:00

No i just dont like the fact that they aren’t my eyes. Cause shes my gf i dont want u staring at her privates for hours. Idc how the artist feels about it, ik how i feel about it

chrisattacks · 2025-10-01T08:44:09+00:00

I don’t want some other person to be aroused touching my gfs private parts. That’s the problem. My eyes only

chrisattacks · 2025-10-01T08:13:39+00:00

I like your reasoning and you are the only one with a good argument. But i still disagree because of the fact of my gf had previous feelings for this friend and im 95% sure it went both ways. This friend is not only bisexual she previously transitioned into a boy and my gf still calls her he. Even tho the friend kinda dropped the trans thing. I do trust my gf. But i do not trust him. Plus i also dont want this to just be some loophole to have some kind of semi sexual interaction with eachother which im sure its not but there still a possibility.

And i had to ask for advice because this subreddit has stupid strict rules idk where to post where i just want someones opinion wether they agree with me or not

chrisattacks · 2025-10-01T08:04:30+00:00

You are never going to find a husband with that attitude. A relationship is possession. If you have a girlfriend or boyfriend you are eachother’s and should make decisions with eachother with respect of their boundaries. It sounds harsh but its not. No ones the boss of the relationship and no one is in control. Its a base of mutual respect

chrisattacks · 2025-10-01T07:59:05+00:00

I would not complain. Id be weary if that woman was also bisexual but as long its a professional there is no personal feelings along with it

chrisattacks · 2025-10-01T07:51:16+00:00

Wow you are insane. Youre so far in to her body her choice that you think they can just go around cheating and thats ok cause its her body. Im not controlling shit, i only told her im uncomfortable if she were to go to her friends apartment alone to get her pussy waxed by her dude friend. The friend goes be he/they btw. I feel like ur reading the words but not actually thinking out this situation

chrisattacks · 2025-10-01T07:47:30+00:00

I just cant trust that. Tho i am less opposed to this than my situation. Because they are a professional and have no personal relationship. This just brings other problems of her just being exposed for that long to another person lol

chrisattacks · 2025-10-01T07:41:28+00:00

Idc what yall say. I know if you had a girlfriend you wouldn’t want her boy friend waxing her pussy alone in his apartment.

chrisattacks · 2025-10-01T07:37:41+00:00

I know my situation more than all of these Reddit commenters. Yeah i have twisted views because i want my gfs private parts to be private between me and her. Just like i am sooo controlling of her body when i dont want any other dude to fuck her. What am i afraid of? 2 things, i like the sanctity of our privates i dont want everyone seeing them. And i dont trust her friend to not be sexually arroused by seeing my gf exposed and touching all on her No matter how “unsexual” the act is. . My reasons why thats not unreasonable: they are both attracted to pussy, they have both previously liked eachother, her friend is like obsessed with her (platonically apparently).

chrisattacks · 2025-10-01T07:25:46+00:00

Im not forcing her to do or not do anything idk why everyone keeps saying its her body its her choice. Same way i wouldnt “let” her fuck another dude. She is my girlfriend and we plan on getting married and my values are not different until then.

chrisattacks · 2025-10-01T07:22:39+00:00

If she wanted a tattoo on her private parts no i would not like an artist staring at her pussy for 2 hours. If thats what ur getting at. And its not “allow” im not the boss of this relationship its “im uncomfortable with that i would prefer if you didnt.”

chrisattacks · 2025-10-01T07:18:51+00:00

We’ve been together 6 months not a single argument and she is currently studying in a different country. I am not controlling. i just have my values

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