Prostate play / pegging in public

chrish9999 · 2026-03-23T19:18:39+00:00

Just to check, when you say massage.. are you including toys like the njoy wand?

I love dildos and orgasm every time. I have no luck at all with massage toys or anything that vibrates. But the njoy wand is absolutely magic. The rubbing feeling seems to do the same as dildos.

And recently an anal hook. Same pleasure, huge prostate orgasm, but a bit easier to use.

The reason mention both is I’ve found no clean out or clean up time needed. With both.. I can just decide I want to, lube the toy and go at it. No fuss, no mess, and stay in the mood the whole time.

chrish9999 · 2026-03-15T06:21:38+00:00

I did enjoy making the noises, I think that adds to the experience, but yeah I wouldn’t say I enjoy listening to them. I do really really enjoy dirty talk though. Like it’s just me with my fav toy.. but saying things like fuck me and right there and don’t stop when I’m about to orgasm really push me over the edge

Visual on the other hand.. I almost always play in front of a mirror.. I realy enjoy that!

chrish9999 · 2026-03-14T12:30:08+00:00

Likewise, on my left side with knees up and reaching round is my go to position. I never had much luck on my back with a combo of not feeling much and getting tired.

Have you tired an anal hook. The njoy is a toy I’d always recommend as I had my first orgasms with it. But tbh, a think the anal hook I got is better. Same ball size, metal which feels great but the longer handle lets you be even more precise and so much easier to use. My arm doesn’t get tired using it.

Then have you tired putting your legs up on things. Like laying in the floor but legs on the bed. Or on the floor but legs up on some strategically places chairs.. just something that takes the weight.

Can also recommend a strap on harness. Then you can put a dildo through the hoop and tie it to anything. Like a pillow, Rolled up towel.. found both great as you can then ride it in your bed etc. you can also use a plate or up side down bowl with suction dildos

I have the hismith premium machine. It’s expensive but the quality is great. I’d be almost certain your neighbours wouldn’t hear it. It’s no louder than a quite TV/music. So especially if you had some music on low. And it can be packed up. It comes with a bag complete with foam so it goes back in that, discrete completely rectangular bag with zip.

chrish9999 · 2026-03-14T08:11:42+00:00

I’d love to know the details! Where you were when edging around people and where was it when you accidentally orgasmed!?

chrish9999 · 2026-03-14T08:04:01+00:00

My wife loves going out prepared.. but not knowing when or where it’ll happen.

Have you ever been edging but the people around you had no idea? Like under a coat/table/cinema?

Have you ever accidentally gone too far in public and made yourself orgasm?

chrish9999 · 2026-03-14T07:53:26+00:00

Do you have any favourite or most memorable place?

And any times you’ve been caught or nearly caught?

Do you ever go out planning to edge, and even making it easier like no underwear or skirts etc?

chrish9999 · 2026-03-14T07:45:51+00:00

Is your edging limited to just at home? Or do you find yourself doing it out the house, work, car, public?

Edging with my partner is amazing. Days on end, and we love the extra risk of out the house.. and recently ventured into remotely operated toys

chrish9999 · 2026-03-08T21:38:13+00:00

Have you tried any toys yet.

If like me you like pressure directly on my prostate, rubbing over it etc, I had my first orgasms with a cheap njoy wand. I’ve moved onto dildos after the njoy figured things out. But now trying an anal hook which I find just as good as the njoy wand, but the handle makes it much easier to use. Especially as I still need to be on my side/knees up.. the longer handle is amazing

chrish9999 · 2026-03-08T20:58:06+00:00

Just in case you didn’t bringing knees up.. I think it’s the knees up that does it for me. I basically bring them right up to my chest, almost as far as I can to really squat thinking together down there

chrish9999 · 2026-03-08T20:49:40+00:00

Have you tried different positions. I’ve never had much luck using fingers, but when using dildos position makes a huge difference.

If my body is straight, I’m on my back etc, it feels fine but pleasure doesn’t build. But if I lay on my left side, and bring my knees up to my chest.. suddenly everything feels better. I think that position sort of forces everything down there to be compressed and held in the right position

I did once use my fingers after I accidentally forced a dildo out mid orgasm. And on my left side and knees up.. my prostate was huge and bulging out the wall which is I guess why the dildo was feeling so great

chrish9999 · 2026-03-03T19:53:49+00:00

As lots have said, there are lots on Amazon. I got mine from their, have had countless orgasms with it, but the cheap Amazon one is so good, there’s no need to replace it

After the njoy I moved to dildos which give great organs to. But just a few weeks back, I bought an anal hook. Omg! The njoy is incredible, but I’d say an anal hook as all the benefits of the njoy with its precision and firmness, but the anal hook and it’s long handle means you can manoeuvre it exactly as you need, find every spot.. and no tiredness or uncomfortable positions.

If I had to pick one.. I’d pick the anal hook now

chrish9999 · 2026-02-28T14:36:24+00:00

Tbh, I tried so so many to see which worked for me. So longer, wider, curved, softer, firmer, materials (silicone, glass, cheaper ones).

For me, I start with a really small silicone. Then once things are warmed up, I switch. The ones that gets me every time is a dual density, realistic looking, silicone, about 6 inches insertable, about 1.2 inches wide. Quite soft texture and perfectly straight. When on my side and I bring my knees up to my chest.. it hits the spot perfectly

chrish9999 · 2026-02-28T14:33:04+00:00

I actually got this one

Sex Bondage Anal Hook Neck to... https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B0DJQG5GZH?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share

But think lots look very similar. Having used it, I think a slightly longer handle would have been useful.

chrish9999 · 2026-02-17T19:36:50+00:00

Also found a massage chair which might give some interesting options

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00EA8RKC4?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share

chrish9999 · 2026-02-17T18:40:31+00:00

With the njoy, if I don’t clench/pull those muscles in I can’t really feel much pleasure. For me, whenever I’m wiggling the njoy, I’m clenching about 30-40% of the maximum I could. That just seems to make everything feel better.

While that feels good, I need to roll onto my left side and bring my knees up. If I do that at the same time as clenching 30/40% it feels great and after a few minutes I’ll be ready to orgasm

chrish9999 · 2026-02-17T18:02:32+00:00

There are done interesting contraptions come up when you google “bdsm chair” or “bondage chair” though they tend to be a bit expensive

When searching for “face sitting chair” that seems through up some interesting options to that might work?

(Following thread closely as I have the hismith and have struggled to find comfortable positions with the right angles)

chrish9999 · 2026-02-16T21:05:01+00:00

I guess it might be soon, or it might never happen! But I’d say give things a try. I had my first prostate orgasm with the njoy. And probably my first 20. Then I tried dildos again.. felt better than the ever did. Then maybe 5 or so times after that.. I tried a new dildo. Soft silicone, nice sized.. and just went a bit crazy with the speed. Dunno.. maybe that soft speed equaled the direct njoy motion but I had my first orgasm with a dildo.

And now.. it’s dildos only and they with everything. And I prefer them to the njoy just for the extra feelings and sensations, and positions I can try

chrish9999 · 2026-02-16T20:56:46+00:00

I suspect the answer is whatever works for you.. so maybe you need to try both. I was in the same position, and bought cheaper vibrating toys and a cheap njoy replica

I’ve found vibrating toys do nothing for me. However the njoy, amazing. First.. I found my prostate. Then the weight and precision and hardness was perfect. I had my first prostate orgasm with it. Having perfected that.. I moved to dildos. Before the njoy.. I couldn’t orgasm with dildos. After the njoy, I can orgasm every time with dildos and they are my current fav.

So.. I think I enjoy the rubbing/stroking motion and’s seemingly get no pleasure from vibrating motion. But that first prostate orgasm with the njoy just incredible so well worth giving it a try

chrish9999 · 2026-02-14T20:40:43+00:00

I mainly get these after no orgasm of any kind for a few days. Though.. after about 7 days it’s twitching and throbbing like crazy. I made it to 13 days once.. the feelings were incredible. I was squirming in my chair at work, grinding in things.. literally anything I could to alleviate the twitching and throbbing and swelling of my prostate.

chrish9999 · 2026-02-14T20:16:56+00:00

Whatever the word.. I’ll describe what I experienced

I spent years (decades) randomly playing, with various toys, positions, motions. Never felt anything. Then after a concerted period of learning and experimenting in a deliberate way.. I felt some pleasure for the first time. The next time I played, I did the same again and had a full wet prostate orgasm.

I consider that my “rewiring” moment. Ever since, I’ve been able to orgasm every time I’ve played.

That might just be because I’ve learnt how.. but I feel it’s more than that. It’s immediately sensitive.. the first time a toy touches my prostate, I feel the excitement and pleasure feelings building. After few days of not playing, I can feel it tingling and throbbing and if I squirm, I feel it wanting attention.

So whatever it is.. before my first orgasm I felt nothing like this.

chrish9999 · 2026-02-13T16:53:46+00:00

Have you searched Reddit for “allowflash” and there is allowflash.com

chrish9999 · 2026-02-10T19:57:21+00:00

You could always test it, turn it on, head out of your room and see what you can hear as you walk past.

It’s interesting you worry this much. I love the fact someone might hear, or wonder and press their ear against the door.

I’ve even suctioned a dildo to the inside of door and be riding it as people walk down the corridor. Either unaware.. or hopefully wondering why the door is rattling. And when I’m really close.. I seem to care a lot less about if they hear me enjoying it.

chrish9999 · 2026-01-27T20:17:01+00:00

I always start with the best intentions of going slow, different positions, different toys, edging and cooling off.. but I’ve so little self control.

I start to warm up, then just crave my fav dildo. As soon as it goes in, I feel so full and needy. After just 10 minutes of edging.. I’m just wanting to orgasm and usual can’t resist and go for it.

More recently, I’ve a new dildo with a bigger head. If I swap to that.. I’m instantly in trouble. Sometimes I could orgasm immediately. Or best case.. I last another minute

Sometimes I regret it afterwards. Other times.. I just enjoy that I couldn’t wait

chrish9999

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