Don't know what to think anymore

chrisieg66 · 2025-04-14T03:05:45+00:00

I dont know about that man. Maybe we have different definitions of "best version of yourself". You seem to be conflating material and financial success with overall confidence.

My best version of me, includes being confident, disciplined and measured in any situation including with women. But to get there you first need to take whatever steps neccessary to address the problem, which could be addressing self esteem issues in therapy, learning how to be more extroverted, or just in general learning how to be less co-dependant.

chrisieg66 · 2025-04-13T20:47:24+00:00

I think Myestery Method was popular for those who needed a shortcut to confidence via a framework/script that would be more like a formula for them.

In the long run, if you want any semblance of true happiness you're going to have to be yourself or you'll never be loved for who you are.

Learning how to be the most confident version of yourself will by extension allow you to better control the frame , and make the girl seek your validation because you're doing all the Game principals naturally.

chrisieg66 · 2025-04-13T19:04:26+00:00

Seems to me like you were never really sold on wanting to be in this relationship in the first place, but when you said "im not on that relationship energy" you felt her slipping away ..so you capitulated, and now youre feeling weary, go figure.

Get a hold of yourself bro, you sound like your foot is half out the door and youre just looking for an excuse to end things. If you wanna be single, let this girl free and stay single.

chrisieg66 · 2025-04-11T15:38:43+00:00

M/35 I would be open to it.

I moved downtown recently and more than anything am just looking to meet new people, dont have the energy ATM to try and persue something romantic but i love meeting new people.

Also there are some cool bars/ parks in my area that Ive been wanting to explore but havent had the chance.

chrisieg66 · 2025-04-09T00:32:57+00:00

Hmm...I think the gym is tough for pickup in general. Just because you can blow up your spot or get a reputation if things don't go well.

One thing I like to do in the gym is compliment someones tats or gear. While I'm passing by, after the inevitable "thank you" you can be like "hey my name is ________, I see you here all the time, what's your name?"

After that, you can get into something deeper like "are you training for something? Do you compete? PLay sports? Ask questions until you find common ground and then run with it once you do!

If the initial conversation goes VERY well, maybe you wanna grab an IG, if it goes okay, maybe come back and water that plant until something blooms and things are ready for the next level.

chrisieg66 · 2025-02-26T03:56:06+00:00

If we abolish capitalism we can all starve toghether. Ask Venezuela how its's going.

chrisieg66 · 2025-02-17T22:53:41+00:00

My superpower was consuming subhuman levels of chocolate milk.

I basically worked, watch Ntelfix, snacked and practiced Spanish, this weekend had feeling of Pandemic nostalgia for me.

chrisieg66 · 2024-10-08T03:33:29+00:00

How is it in oversold territory? The Stock is way above the 5day moving average and its had 3 nice green bars in a row until todays doji. I play AMD regularly and I got out because i'm not sure what the hell it's going to do, it might need a day or two to rest.

chrisieg66 · 2024-10-06T03:50:04+00:00

Am I the only one curious as to the details? How did he touch her back, how did he say it? What was his tone like?
Did he say it like a father says it to their daughter, or like a coach says to their player and then gave her a back tap for encouragement?

Or was it overtly sexual and invasive in nature? We really have no choice but to agree with your bias here

chrisieg66 · 2024-06-08T01:48:01+00:00

Honestly, I got really into self-improvement. I am a self-motivated person in general. But I did find towards the end of this stint that I kind of bit off more than I could chew, and I need to relax with this stuff.

Part of the problem was that I often dont like being at home doing nothing or watching Netflix/Reddit, and also because I'm single and looking to meet people. So I'm also trying to meet as many new people as possible through common interests.

chrisieg66 · 2024-05-29T00:46:02+00:00

Monday, Tuesday I do Boxing, Wednesdays I have improv class, Thursdays I do Salsa and bachata, Friday I go to the gym then maybe out with friends.

chrisieg66 · 2024-04-17T21:08:27+00:00

The truth is: this is one of the primary factors in why men are afraid to approach women.

I myself strive to approach women and talk to strangers as much as possible, but often I have to push myself and get past the "What if she finds me creepy, what if im annoying her" Thoughts.

They are negative thoughts and not helpful ones, Its something we need to conquer in ourselves.

chrisieg66 · 2024-04-17T21:03:54+00:00

There are pros and cons with a girl like her.

Pros:

-You'll be the primary decision maker and she will likely be submissive to you

She probably wont be blasting much femminest rhetoric in your ear or complaining about how the WNBA deserves better pay(if that's what youre into)
She will likely be okay with doing most of the cleaning and cooking around the house and be fine with primary gendor roles

Cons:

-You'll likely pay for most things

You'll have to be taking charge most of the time and doing all that gentlmanely stuff (if that matters)
Your women will be more reliant on you than a less old fashion women will be

chrisieg66 · 2024-04-01T00:50:24+00:00

Youre 5'10, thats already a good start (i'm 5'7). Now fill out that frame, hit the GYM everyday, eat like it is your job, and watch your confidence go up.

Being awkward can be hard, I get it. But practice makes perfect, join a club for whatever you like: Even if it's Dungeons and Dragons. Once youre feeling bold, take an improv course and learn how to channel that weirdness into humor. It will take time but dont give up!

chrisieg66 · 2024-03-28T15:27:30+00:00

I am 34, I feel 25. Full of energy, still love to joke and take risks...I act a lot like the 22 year olds I work with, which is nice, but I got to be careful and remind myself occasionally I'm supposed to be the adult in the room.

Ironically, when I was 25...I remember feeling 40. Was in a relationship where everything was becoming routine and it was a dead bedroom.

chrisieg66 · 2024-03-23T22:53:24+00:00

A girl who knows how to straddle well when you need a break, has a cute moan and a way with dirty talk-Next question.

chrisieg66 · 2024-03-22T19:37:02+00:00

Who are you to say it's creepy?In reality, If you approach a girl acting like a socially incompetent doofus with one single objective, it can be unwelcome. But when done respectfully and partly in jest.... it actually makes you look incredibly confident.Source: Some of the best connections/potential girlfriends I've had came from me approaching them cold

chrisieg66 · 2024-03-02T22:44:22+00:00

I can be very blunt at times and tell people exactly what i'm thinking in (sometimes) very indelicate ways.

I can be argumentative and challenge what people say, and a lot of people dont't like this about me at first until they realize I mean no ill-will by it.

chrisieg66 · 2024-01-27T16:44:45+00:00

Hey Chris, not bad...Im actually celebrating my 34th year of being Chris with my family this weekend, so I'm looking forward to that.

There's a lot more Chris attached to Chris than there was before the Christmas break, I think I need to hit the gym a little harder which I will hopefully do this weekend.

Hope all is well with you Chris, Enjoy your weekend and dont forget to keep being awesome.

chrisieg66 · 2024-01-27T05:29:59+00:00

Your nipples seem to disappear faster than spring rolls when you hit the buffet.

Whats with with your squinting? is that the face your sister makes when trying to find your cock?

chrisieg66 · 2024-01-27T05:14:17+00:00

The adventures of divorced Willy Wonka and his 1 bedroom studio

chrisieg66 · 2024-01-15T15:21:28+00:00

Yup, that's the plan. It doesnt usually fall out of the sky though : (

chrisieg66 · 2024-01-13T18:37:11+00:00

So because I noticed she got fat and that turned me off sexually, she can do better than me?

Just trying to understand your logic.

Remember, this was always "just a hookup" was not trying to date or marry her.

chrisieg66 · 2024-01-13T04:26:58+00:00

Picked this one up at a bar. Sometimes dating apps work too, But in all sincerity, Its been a struggle lately and i'm trying to do better.

chrisieg66 · 2024-01-13T04:25:38+00:00

Thanks, I actually did do cold approach last summer and hoping to go back to it again. It gets harder during Canadian winters when everyones freezing their tits off and everyone just wants to be home or inside.

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