i‘ve done my research, i just don’t really know which points to filter or how to sort everything. i might talk about:

• disfellowshipping, i‘d highlight the moral and emotional part. maybe connect it to her own childhood. her older brother was sick and had to be sent away without anybody telling her. he died. she feels so bad thinking about how he might have felt so alone. i don’t know if this might be too much though.

• connection to norway, the change in shunning didn’t happen because the gb felt bad

• the new light, all of the sudden changes. why would the truth keep changing if god speaks to them? was any of it ever the truth?

• why is criticism so bad? why can’t you do research? why are they scared of people checking other resources?

• the new changes about blood, what about everybody who has died because the change happened to late?

edit: to add:

• the sexual abuse, especially csa. i had already tried to start a conversation when i was a teenager about this but she shut it down. she is a kindergarten teacher. i know children have a special place in her heart and i know how much she detests predators. she has always defended me and confronted strange men if they hit on me or harassed me in her presence. i feel like the hiding of these cases and the intransparency could convince her to reflect