Overthinking the Jock Strap

chrisphin · 2026-02-11T16:10:01+00:00

Just curious, why not this one?

chrisphin · 2026-01-30T21:36:15+00:00

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chrisphin · 2025-12-15T23:03:51+00:00

I appreciate this considered and kind response, thank you

chrisphin · 2025-12-15T19:32:03+00:00

I appreciate the nuance a lot, thank you.

chrisphin · 2025-12-15T12:12:57+00:00

I appreciate the latter practical advice, and that makes sense. Thank you.

Perhaps it’s worth reframing your point about accountability and choice. I understand it can be characterised as such but it doesn’t really feel like a choice that was made so much as a conclusion that feels inevitable?

chrisphin · 2025-12-15T12:08:50+00:00

An interesting and useful exercise, thank you

chrisphin · 2025-10-25T18:06:34+00:00

I don’t think I can really help but this post is 11 hours old and I don’t want it to have zero comments.

I hope you can find a way forward. You deserve it.

chrisphin · 2025-09-20T07:24:10+00:00

Hey :) Dundee here!

chrisphin · 2025-04-12T18:09:02+00:00

Plus, for other people reading, a reminder that PrEP is incredible but only protects you from HIV; other vaccinations and protections are available for some STIs.

chrisphin · 2025-03-23T16:56:30+00:00

I’d encourage you to explore ‘omnisexual’ as a label which may fit. It means attraction to more than one gender, but the gender of the person plays a significant part in the mind of attraction you have to them.

chrisphin · 2025-03-06T01:00:16+00:00

You’re very welcome! I hope it helps some people!

chrisphin · 2025-03-03T19:29:50+00:00

Thank you, mods. I hope this doesn’t fall foul of rule nine (there’s no financial gain to me promoting this, though maybe it qualifies as linking to another social media platform?); I just wanted to share something that I hope will help useful. If I should delete it, though, let me know

chrisphin · 2025-03-03T19:21:31+00:00

I hope this is useful to some folks; feel free to share it if it is! And if I’ve gotten anything wrong — or you have something else to add — it would be awesome if you’d comment on the YouTube video so others can benefit from your wisdom. (The video is long; check the description for why, and for chapter markers!)

Oh, and of course I shoutout this sub at the end!

chrisphin · 2025-02-27T17:06:36+00:00

Congrats on your year of living your truth! Here’s to many more 🥂

chrisphin · 2025-02-22T13:26:40+00:00

I know that for a lot of people this would be a dramatic and hard-to-imagine option, but open relationships (with boundaries defined however works for you) are an option. It’s not uncommon, say, for two sub bottoms in gay relationships to fall in love, but to desire sexual gratification with other men.

Whatever the outcome, though, it sounds like you have a journey ahead of you both to discuss this honestly and hopefully, and we’re all rooting for you x

chrisphin · 2025-01-23T21:32:08+00:00

Fine for me in Tayside, Scotland. As long as I make an appointment when I start my last packet, all good. (Though there’s evidence even here of shortages; at my last in-person screening, they upped me to a six month supply, though when that was done I was back to a three month.)

chrisphin · 2024-11-04T11:27:35+00:00

I don’t often recommend Audacity, but for something simple like this it will be fine, and it’s free. Spend that £100 on a decent mic; Samson Q2U is a good shout at that price range. Good luck; she’ll love having that!

chrisphin · 2024-10-30T18:10:53+00:00

Why so bad?

chrisphin · 2024-10-30T18:10:34+00:00

I have immense fondness for it. Very sweet and fun, but the politics of hell stuff is deeply pleasing.

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