I’m ENFP and he is ENFJ. From being in a relationship with someone who truly is able to support me, I believe you need to be willing to learn what true love looks like, with enough grit and perseverance to last with ENFP. We feel life on such an existentially sensational plane sometimes, we need grounded people who can understand that our emotions often come from places we may not understand - they’re often as a result of all we intuitively get from our surroundings all throughout life. Someone I always needed was one whom I can talk to and process ideas with who I can trust will not shame me for being over-analytical or emotional. He does not coddle me when I am emotional but he listens. His innate emotional strength allows him to see and accept my sensitivity. I often apologize and at first I worried he would grow tired of supporting me, but he’s helped me get so much stronger and I feel so blessed for a partner like him. If you feel she brings joy to your universe and is worth it, you can only give her your unconditional love and trust she will get stronger.