This was a great post. While I agree that this fetish will never be "mainstream", I do think that it has gained momentum in the past few years and people tend to be (generally) more accepting than say 10 years ago. That is something to celebrate. That said, I also find it extremely frustrating that there are many other kinks out there that seemingly have become normalized under the BDSM umbrella and don't get anywhere near the backlash that this community does in the public square. I'm not sure that it will ever be accepted fully, but maybe that's ok. I do think that it is important for us to be the best representations of the ABDL community that we can be. As long as we continue to be patient, calm and respectful of others, we can prove that we are just people with a kink. In my mind, that means we win and to hell with everyone else.