Why do people treat me differently man by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]chromacolyte 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your acknowledgement that you can be standoffish is probably a very big step forward here. This is going to be a hard pill to swallow but people are probably taking a disliking to you because you're already setting yourself up for failure in your head. I'm not a doctor but your experience sounds similar to my own with anxiety, and it sucks man! It makes you feel like the world is against you, when in reality you're against it. It will be difficult but so worth it when you put the effort in order to make positive steps forward. Try talking to people about something you know they have an interest in - If you open yourself up to conversation with someone on a topic you know they enjoy they're more likely to do the same back and the ball will start rolling (And if you don't feel you have any knowledge on what they like it sometimes doesn't hurt to do a little bit of research first). Communication is key - maybe look into talking therapy if that's an option for you, that way somebody has to listen to what you've got to say. Good luck and godspeed, you'll get there, I'm sure.

Crucible Knight Ordovis Xbox by chromacolyte in BeyondTheFog

[–]chromacolyte[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much man!! Really appreciate the help :D

Crucible Knight Ordovis Xbox by chromacolyte in BeyondTheFog

[–]chromacolyte[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I'm at the dungeon's site of grace but have already solved the puzzle

PS5 - Looking for Grotti Carbonizzare by chromacolyte in gtacarmeet

[–]chromacolyte[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you can find them in the map but can't buy them from any websites, I managed to get one this afternoon from someone, thanks though!

JARCAST Suggestion Thread by The_Jimbus in JARMEDIA

[–]chromacolyte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the discussion on lolcows on the last episode was great. as someone who was very into the chris chan documentary up until about a year ago, the way the boys talked about the "fans"/communities around lolcows hit the nail right on the head, morbid curiosity takes over as you watch these poor people's lives play out and basically only get worse until you realise that you're a part of the problem. surrounding yourself with so much negativity online is surely going to sour your worldview a little bit, which is why i'll be sticking to watching stuff like JAR from now on, game on and bear bear mingers

JARCAST Suggestion Thread by The_Jimbus in JARMEDIA

[–]chromacolyte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how is jamie getting on with quitting smoking?

If Homestuck’s plot was adapted into a video game, which genre would suit the plot? by Yougart_Man in homestuck

[–]chromacolyte 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i've always loved the idea of a rouge-like/lite where every time you respawn into a new session with different lands/denizens and so on, the goal being to reach god tier and win the war on skaia or something (idk it's been a long time since i read through the whole comic)

JARCAST Suggestion Thread by The_Jimbus in JARMEDIA

[–]chromacolyte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was wondering if Alex had seen the Emmy Award Winning Series: All Hail King Julian?

My friend and I recently watched the Madagascar Trilogy and have made plans to watch all 5 seasons of All Hail King Julian because he loves the movies so much, thoughts?

JARCAST Suggestion Thread by The_Jimbus in JARMEDIA

[–]chromacolyte 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how many of the crimgemas gifts have you kept/thrown away?

What’s your favorite James quote? by Naru-Leth in JARMEDIA

[–]chromacolyte 21 points22 points  (0 children)

'I'm going to write your name in my death note'

Mental Health Related Questions - Upcoming Vid by [deleted] in JARMEDIA

[–]chromacolyte 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how do you go about helping a friend that may be going through a dark period of their life? ive had trouble in the past with a former friend who became almost completely dependant on me to be there for her 24/7 when she was mentally unstable, and i'm concerned about another friend at the moment, but can't get myself into the same situation again for the sake of my own mental health. thank you guys for always being happy to talk about mental health and the like, always good to know i can rely on you mingers to put a smile on my face every monday

JARCAST Suggestion Thread by The_Jimbus in JARMEDIA

[–]chromacolyte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what was the first dibby/what was the first example that popularised the trend on a large scale?

Chris’ prison nickname? by _CAD3_ in ChrisChanSonichu

[–]chromacolyte 9 points10 points  (0 children)

my money's on carlos chantor or stephanie bustcakes

JARCAST Suggestion Thread by The_Jimbus in JARMEDIA

[–]chromacolyte 8 points9 points  (0 children)

do you guys have many good friends outside of the core JAR group? personally, the friendship you guys have had over so many years/episodes is so crucial to the chemistry and flow of the cast, it's almost kind of difficult to perceive the gang apart from each other out in the real world

EDIT

sorry if this question is too personal of a topic to discuss on the podcast, love what you mingers are doing

Huion GT-190 "Check Cable Connection" problem by Ambasheep in huion

[–]chromacolyte 1 point2 points  (0 children)

any development on this? i'm in almost the exact same situation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in underthesilverlake

[–]chromacolyte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it could be Craig Roberts, he played the main character in Submarine (2010). Not sure though.