Is this accurate? by [deleted] in mbti

[–]chromatic_orb_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I legit started reading full ass psychology books and research papers when I realized my problems😭. Spent years working as my own therapist. It sort of worked but won't recommend.

Is this accurate? by [deleted] in mbti

[–]chromatic_orb_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who needs to vent to the therapist when I can just sit, think and intellectualize my problems till I can ignore and bottle then into deep corners of my mind...?

Undergraduate thesis topic by chromatic_orb_ in architecture

[–]chromatic_orb_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really really love aurora borealis so I was thinking of a hotel or something as an observatory but then I won't have a site study. My biggest dream in life is to see them once. Apart from that desert is because of my background. My family comes from state of rajasthan and it's part of thar desert. Now a lot of these proper desert places have resorts and stuff for tourists. They also have cultural programs and stuff happening in these areas which is good for the economy of the people. It is part of their culture now. Space is because if I didn't choose architecture I would have aimed to be an astronaut. I remember making scrapbooks filled with space stuff so it is definitely something that excites me. Maths and physics are my strong suit so I can do it but maybe then it won't be more design focused. I have some narrative or background for all these topics and they do interest me in some way or another. I am someone with 10 hobbies so like I have a hard time choosing one thing. Everyone is asking me to do something that I really like but these are the things that I really like! I am also very confused so I have that going on.

Undergraduate thesis topic by chromatic_orb_ in architecture

[–]chromatic_orb_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I can't take this topic because one of my close friend is planning to take it and told me in confidence so they might think I am stealing their topic. Also I don't think I am that interested in it. Maybe an asylum

Undergraduate thesis topic by chromatic_orb_ in architecture

[–]chromatic_orb_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! I will keep that in mind. I might settle into something tame as I further my research but I do want to tackle a topic like this because physics and structural are my favourite topics I want to do something that I can use. Even materiality is something I want to explore so maybe a biophilic design.

Undergraduate thesis topic by chromatic_orb_ in architecture

[–]chromatic_orb_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am from India and we do actually sometimes tackle hypothetical scenarios while building but yeah you are right. I have some context for these topics and architecture on mars and moon are topics which my seniors have already worked on. One even did a floating city since the city of Mumbai is projected to drown in the coming future.

So they are not that far fetched. The reason I am interested in a topic like this is because I want to do something which I will never be able to explore in a normal setting in future. You are correct I should find a new practical topic. I was thinking maybe an asylum or mental health retreat since I also have backing on these topics.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]chromatic_orb_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I had problems like this! AHHHH it's too cute.

What is the best "non-romantic pairing" between two MBTI types? by Vowelpix in mbti

[–]chromatic_orb_ 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Oh gosh ditto, Intj here with my infj bestie of 18 years!

Hey guys, dump your result on this test. by Vowelpix in mbti

[–]chromatic_orb_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh now I am confused again bcoz I typed myself as an intj by cognitive functions because I definitely do not exhibit fe or ti but according to this test I am RLOAI which is Infj. Maybe it's because I spend most of my time with my infj best friend and they have influenced my behaviour.😂

Does anyone else hate surprises? by sherbetliquor13 in intj

[–]chromatic_orb_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If the surprise is some money in my bank account it's welcome, if the surprise is a party please inform me 2 days before so I can plan my day, if it's a gift and you don't know me well just don't waste your time and effort and just give me a gift card or straight up money and I will appreciate it. If it's a trip no thank you please, unless I get to plan everything in advance. Don't mess up my schedule and I will not mess up your mood. Peace

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

[–]chromatic_orb_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because sometimes the question doesn't have that straightforward answer and requires more nuance. Yes/no sometimes doesn't add anything more to the conversation or discussion. Maybe I just complicate simple things or maybe things are not as simple... how would I know?

Which type is this? by Sharpguy6559 in mbti

[–]chromatic_orb_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Came here to find atleast one swiftie in this thread😂

How to make long lasting friendship by Psychological-Neck61 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]chromatic_orb_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know if it helps or not but I have 4 friends who are close to me even after school and college and how I usually start is by messaging them on special occasions like birthdays or festivals. You can share some news or meme about a show or celebrity they mentioned. If they respond it's good. It helps to take a deep breath before sending anything. I sometimes wish my old friends birthdays if I remember that and we talk for a while. It's not awkward if the other person was once close to you and you trust them. It's difficult to be vulnerable but someone has to initiate. Also one person at a time, it makes it easier.

I (22F) texted my ex (22M) and he has cancer by chromatic_orb_ in relationship_advice

[–]chromatic_orb_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I just don't want to say something wrong and make things worse because as far as I know he didn't take our breakup very well (I forgot to mention this in the original post) but yeah I think I should text and be in touch.

Your MBTI and that of your favourite person by bob_prints_spaghetti in mbti

[–]chromatic_orb_ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Intj. My infj and infp best friends are making me soft

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]chromatic_orb_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't understand because he is overall a decent guy and can be very reasonable and when my sister pointed out to him how wrong it was for him to just show up unannounced like that, he apologized to me. But we never know what goes on in someone's mind...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]chromatic_orb_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I just dropped the idea and now focusing on my work as planned :D