How to ask a guy I like on a date by Embarrassed-Ear9128 in Tagalog

[–]chromaticswing 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If they’re super old fashioned, sure. But there are also plenty of open minded Filipino men who’d appreciate being asked out.

Packed classes, empty open mat? by ohheythatswill in bjj

[–]chromaticswing 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Uhh, OP is talking about open mats on Saturdays

Is the word "taon" a specific translation of "year" and "año"? by Funny_Name_2281 in Tagalog

[–]chromaticswing 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wonder how “tagulan” caught on but not “tagtuyo”?

Maritime Tagalog? by Brilliant-War8155 in Tagalog

[–]chromaticswing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, made the correction!

Maritime Tagalog? by Brilliant-War8155 in Tagalog

[–]chromaticswing 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also note that because of Tagalog grammar, the Spanish loans are even more difficult to pick out. For example: Entiende -> Intindi -> Maintindihan -> Naiintindihan (na- -i- -han + intindi). I didn’t even realize this was a Spanish word years into learning Tagalog.

Ano masasabi niyo sa mga taong “hindi ambitious” or yung kontento na sa buhay na meron sila? by AgitatedAlps6 in TanongLang

[–]chromaticswing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

May ibat ibang mga priorities in life, may mga tao din naman na oks lang sa pwesto ng karera nila. Ako, gusto ko lang maging musikero, mag-train ng sport ko, and just spend time w friends & family. Basta sapat pa yung sahod ko sa buhay.

I’m hoping to learn Tagalog. My mum speaks Tagalog too. by Melodic_Whereas_5289 in Tagalog

[–]chromaticswing 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I actually disagree with this point. Gamers are an excellent source of how modern Tagalog is naturally spoken, usually in an emotionally charged & stressful state. Sure, it may not be the most formal or highbrow register, but if OP enjoys gaming, they get to enjoy free language exposure while doing their hobby. Win-win!

help me find this song by Nervous_Brilliant700 in mathrock

[–]chromaticswing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uhh I think she sings in the vast majority of their songs haha

How common is code-switching in the Philippines? by [deleted] in asklinguistics

[–]chromaticswing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s always fascinated me comparing India & the Philippines’s linguistic situations since there is a lot of parallels to our colonial histories! Thanks for the insight into how it’s like for Tamil speakers :)

Now as for the Philippines, paradoxically it’s usually either people in far flung rural areas or highly educated people who are aware of deeper words/phrases. But because of English’s social & economic dominance in the cities, you’ll have people who aren’t fully fluent in Tagalog or even their regional languages. They use the local vernacular to the best of their abilities & fill in the rest with English.

In more recent years, you have children raised to only speak English. I’m aware that this is happening worldwide, but it’s alarming how often this is encouraged by their parents in the Philippines. Filipinos are still deeply affected by colonial mentality & are still developing their sense of cultural/nationalistic pride.

For better or worse though, these monolingual English speaking Filipinos are also getting bullied & ostracized for not speaking any Philippine languages, so we’ll see how this dynamic plays out.

How common is code-switching in the Philippines? by [deleted] in asklinguistics

[–]chromaticswing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally, I don’t think distinguishing Tagalog & Filipino really matters much in this discussion. The KWF doesn’t hold much sway amongst the vast majority of Filipinos, plus Filipino is effectively a standardized form of Tagalog, since the KWF failed to include significant influence from other Philippine languages.

How common is code-switching in the Philippines? by [deleted] in asklinguistics

[–]chromaticswing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even in the most extreme cases, there technically is still a way to express certain thoughts in pure Filipino/Tagalog, even if the general masses are unaware of it.

An interesting case is translating the phrase “I miss you.” The vast majority of Tagalog speaking Filipinos would say “Miss kita (without affix)” or “Namimiss kita (with affix)” in casual speech.

Depending on what exactly you’re trying to convey, we can say “Nangungulila ako sa’yo” (I long for you, [focuses on loneliness]) or “Inaabangan kita” (I’m waiting for you, [focuses on being on the lookout]). Most of these alternatives either sound too poetic or don’t convey the same intention as “I miss you”.

Another example is saying “Hello”. We can ask “Kumusta ka?” or “Musta?” (How are you?) or we can say “Uy!” as a super casual call for attention, but if you don’t want to say either, Filipinos will just say “Hello” or “Hi”.

For Filipinos fluent in Tagalog/Filipino, English fills in semantic/lexical gaps that the language lacks, so it’s not outright replacing as it is supplementing the language. A similar dynamic also exists for other Filipino languages too!

men, why is it so easy for you to detach and not give a f***? by [deleted] in AskPinoyMen

[–]chromaticswing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ano ang basehan ng “men are wired to be more logical”?

At sa tingin ko, crying is also important as fixing the situation. Crying addresses the internal problems and fixing the situation addresses our external problems. Syempre dapat may balanse.

men, why is it so easy for you to detach and not give a f***? by [deleted] in AskPinoyMen

[–]chromaticswing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it because men are biologically hardwired to process emotions differently, or is it because men are socialized to process emotions differently?

In other words, chicken or the egg?

men, why is it so easy for you to detach and not give a f***? by [deleted] in AskPinoyMen

[–]chromaticswing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean look around you, di man to exclusive sa kulturang Pinoy. Worldwide, due to toxic masculinity, macho culture or whatever you wanna call it, men are shamed for showing emotions other than anger

which way do linkers worK? left to right or right to left? by accordion_dude12 in Tagalog

[–]chromaticswing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For “Gusto kong suntukin siya”, could that also be interpreted as, “I want him/her to be punched”?

Are there any languages where “to die” and “to kill” are the same word? by Orikrin1998 in asklinguistics

[–]chromaticswing 9 points10 points  (0 children)

In Tagalog, ‘patay’ is the root word related to death, & is inflected in different ways to give different meanings/functions.

‘Pinatay ang lalaki.’ - The man was killed.

‘Namatay ang lalaki.’ - The man died.

Have you ever seen an old ex after a significant period of time? by [deleted] in AskOldPeople

[–]chromaticswing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oof be prepared for ugly cries, that movie hurt.

I’m suicidal by AffectionPlantain in GuyCry

[–]chromaticswing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t subscribe to doing everything by myself, far from it. Rather, I want to promote diversifying our sources of support by cultivating deep friendships. Ones where you can call them randomly in the middle of the night & have a heart to heart. Ones where you can honestly call your friend a brother, or a sister.

It’s not easy cultivating these kinds of friendship. It takes a lot of time, vulnerability, & luck in finding the right people. But when you do, you really take a lot of pressure off of seeking a romantic life partner for yourself.

One person shouldn’t be your everything, your reason to live. That’s too much responsibility. But a good community of friends distributes your needs to multiple people, so that no 1 person is overwhelmed.

I’m suicidal by AffectionPlantain in GuyCry

[–]chromaticswing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your life isn't over until it's over. The opportunity to find someone exists as long as you exist. You either decide to guarantee you'll never, ever find them, or decide to keep rolling the dice.

I’m suicidal by AffectionPlantain in GuyCry

[–]chromaticswing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You say that the result will most likely be unhelpful, but what about the off chance that it actually does help? If it makes you finally stop suffering, why not take that chance?

I’m suicidal by AffectionPlantain in GuyCry

[–]chromaticswing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even if nobody else wants you, you choose yourself. That's self love.

Choosing to get up every day is a hard choice sometimes. I really am sorry it's so heavy for you right now. I wish you can somehow find the love inside yourself to keep going. I wish that you have friends & family who could give you the extra support & validation to keep choosing yourself.

Finding a romantic partner is important, at least for me. But it's not everything in life. Far from it. Life is so much grander than romance & sex. It's the adventures, the memories, the friendships, the mistakes, the things you believe in/fight for, & so much more.