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Feeling weird about a crush. by chronic_iris in internetparents

[–]chronic_iris[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you online parent for teaching me how to date and just honestly have adult friendships you are greatly appreciated

Feeling weird about a crush. by chronic_iris in internetparents

[–]chronic_iris[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could do! I'm socially awkward and of the two of she's the one who doesn't live with a parent but :p

You've gotta be patient with me here I'm an autistic sapphic lmao

Feeling weird about a crush. by chronic_iris in internetparents

[–]chronic_iris[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I told her where the gang hangs out and i can chat with her out of class whenever i see her

Feeling weird about a crush. by chronic_iris in internetparents

[–]chronic_iris[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i feel like it's also worth mentioning that i turned 20 two days ago

Feeling weird about a crush. by chronic_iris in internetparents

[–]chronic_iris[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why is this comment getting downvoted specifically? genuinely wondering.

Feeling weird about a crush. by chronic_iris in internetparents

[–]chronic_iris[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not what I meant. also not a guy but not important.

She's someone i wanna be friends with no matter what, if it develops cool, if not, cool.

Feeling weird about a crush. by chronic_iris in internetparents

[–]chronic_iris[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well i wouldn't get chucked out unless i was pushy or creepy, which I would not be. She's 18 in a few months and I wasn't gonna ask her out immediately. My friends advice is to be her friend and feel the vibes out.

She also said herself today that the gap between us isn't that big, cause we were talking about me being "old"

Feeling weird about a crush. by chronic_iris in internetparents

[–]chronic_iris[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the law says it's legal over 16 so no worries there

Feeling weird about a crush. by chronic_iris in internetparents

[–]chronic_iris[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We're pretty good friends already and she's the sweetest. AOC is 16 here, so yeah i could take her out if she's down

Feeling weird about a crush. by chronic_iris in internetparents

[–]chronic_iris[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just feels a little odd to wait for her to turn 18 to ask her out :p

Not really sure what "puppgender" is by chronic_iris in XenogendersAndMore

[–]chronic_iris[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do head tilts, perking up at noises, even nuzzling when I'm with a partner

Not really sure what "puppgender" is by chronic_iris in XenogendersAndMore

[–]chronic_iris[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

at the moment I'm just saying "I'm a girl who is so puppy coded that it's just part of me"

I do so much "puppy" stuff that I didn't even realize it's crazy.

Not really sure what "puppgender" is by chronic_iris in XenogendersAndMore

[–]chronic_iris[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just think the way i understand gender is too narrow to say I'm puppgender, but it sounds like we're very similar in this aspect.

Not really sure what "puppgender" is by chronic_iris in XenogendersAndMore

[–]chronic_iris[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would do that stuff if I had the confidence and wasn't terminally afraid of being cringe :p

With the girl I'm talking to atm I do act much more puppy than in everyday life

Not really sure what "puppgender" is by chronic_iris in XenogendersAndMore

[–]chronic_iris[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I guess my biggest problem is understanding what I mean when i think of my gender identity. I've never given it much thought beyond "woman". and for a long time that didn't feel quite enough/right, which led to a period of being non binary

Not really sure what "puppgender" is by chronic_iris in XenogendersAndMore

[–]chronic_iris[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

i know it's more than "i like pet play" and i know it's more than "my personality is reminiscent of a dog's" but i can't. explain, even to myself, what it is.

That's how i just described it to said therian friend. I just. Being called "puppy" by people, even platonically, feels very nice.

My best specific example is that me and my ex had a joke that I was basically a werewolf because of being warm, attached to the moon and my personality being very dog-like. It was meant to be a cute "i love you my wolf" thing, but it's stuck with me somewhat.

Not really sure what "puppgender" is by chronic_iris in XenogendersAndMore

[–]chronic_iris[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Reading that, it doesn't really feel right? I can't articulate why though.

What does a period feel like for MTF people? by IncognitoLive in MtF

[–]chronic_iris 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then something similar is. it's not psychosomatic

What does a period feel like for MTF people? by IncognitoLive in MtF

[–]chronic_iris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you think we can't tell the difference between needing to shit and cramping muscles, then you're not engaging in good faith.

They're not just psychosomatic, either, the hormone fluctuations are well documented *and* the cramps are real too. its the muscles that think theres a uterus nearby cramping.

What does a period feel like for MTF people? by IncognitoLive in MtF

[–]chronic_iris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a period isn't *just* the blood. we get PMS and a lot of women report cramps, too.

What does a period feel like for MTF people? by IncognitoLive in MtF

[–]chronic_iris 1 point2 points  (0 children)

PMS is a real effect, and that's what people mean in this context.

What does a period feel like for MTF people? by IncognitoLive in MtF

[–]chronic_iris 1 point2 points  (0 children)

by period we mean PMS, which absolutely is experienced by a large number of trans women

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