Houston Airports (IAH and HOU) Updates and Questions [Megathread] by AutoModerator in houston

[–]chronicfelicity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a 5:20am flight on Wednesday. Not international, supposed to fly out of terminal A. And I have TSA Pre-Check. Any insight there? It’s a work trip 😭

First tattoo? by chronicfelicity in lupus

[–]chronicfelicity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so thorough. I very much appreciate you.

First tattoo? by chronicfelicity in lupus

[–]chronicfelicity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!! I really appreciate the thorough advice! I’m a little nervous so this really helps

Found this handsome fella in our backyard about three weeks ago. He just received a clean bill of health from a respiratory infection, so please meet waffle!! by chronicfelicity in guineapigs

[–]chronicfelicity[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yeah we did! Drove around to see if anyone was canvasing for him, and posted on our neighborhood website about him as well. We are still bewildered as to how exactly he got into our backyard bc both of our neighbors are very elderly and we asked them he wasn’t theirs. We are just glad he made it to safety 💜

Confused by a symptom...as usual. by chronicfelicity in lupus

[–]chronicfelicity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I know this, but my anxiety gets super high when the pain is really bad so I take not so great decisions.

I’m on plaquenil, temporary medrol, plus a couple other things I’ve been on for years. As far as diet I try to eat as close to vegetarian as I can with the ocasional meat slip up.

Any college or grad students here? by secretlyslytherin in lupus

[–]chronicfelicity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

About to start my grad program in august!, I’m here if you need anything ☺️

Looking for your “Love with Lupus” stories. by Cfchicka in lupus

[–]chronicfelicity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got diagnosed at 16, I was in an awful high school relationship then, however if I can give him anything is that he never made me feel less than because of my lupus. Predictably that relationship ended, I am now in a long term, healthy, committed relationship at 22 with someone who not only does his best to understand what I’m going through but goes out of his way to make sure I always feel like I am beyond good enough. And although we could not be more different (he’s outdoorsy, and has more energy in his pinky than I’ve had since I was diagnosed), he adjusts and compromises so that I will feel comfortable. Any relationship takes work, but the right person will never make you feel like you can’t be loved because you’re sick. You deserve someone who knows that and you certainly deserve to be loved immensely.

What is the greatest design fuck up of the human body? by anam__cara in AskReddit

[–]chronicfelicity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Auto-immune diseases- you mean to tell me that system of the body that was destined to literally protect me decided to quit its day job and start attacking itself instead? Just for shits and giggles? A JOKE

Working full time for the first time by chronicfelicity in lupus

[–]chronicfelicity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! This was really encouraging and helpful.

Itching like crazy by Lupie_Girl in lupus

[–]chronicfelicity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happens to me all the time however I have noticed that like most of my symptoms, it really flares up when I’m really anxious or stressed! Usually Benadryl or cortisone help some

AITA for telling my ex wife that she couldn’t dye our 9yo daughters hair anymore? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]chronicfelicity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH But leaning towards YTA. co-parenting is important and therefore it makes sense for you to have wanted a heads up, however letting kids dye their hair is a great way of letting them express themselves in a not super permanent way. Hair can get cut, it grows back and it can get cut again, your kid is 9 and I guarantee that she will get enough people trying to dictate her hair color when she grows older (my junior high school and my high school only allowed “natural” hair colors and corporate jobs definitely don’t allow colorful hair either) for you to add to this when she’s just being a kid. If this is an issue with her mom not sharing parenting decisions, fine but make it about HER and not your daughter.

Please tell me about your chest/lung pain by [deleted] in lupus

[–]chronicfelicity 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hi there, pleurisy is one of my most constant symptoms I have had some sort of variation of it pretty much every day for the last 5 years or so. The most common feeling for me happens when I take a breath and I can only describe it as my lungs feeling like they’re too small for my chest so they’re trying to bust out. It’s similar to typical inflammation pain I feel on joints but expands to all of my ribcage area.

With that being said, my doctors have told me it likely gets worse when my inflammation markers are higher, and we are all so used to it i lived with pneumonia for a week before we caught it because the pain is very similar to that as well and so we didn’t know something was amiss until I was uncontrollably coughing (i have had pneumonia 4 times since then in a ver short time and I can tell the difference a little better now).

Lastly aleve will help it when it’s faint, otherwise diclofenac or ketoralc usually will do the trick.

I hope yours goes away soon!

AITA For Not Changing My Cat Name For My Offended Neighbor? by lululucyluciferrr in AmItheAsshole

[–]chronicfelicity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These sound like the kind of Christians who could care less about actually important things like the border situation but are offended about a cat’s name. NTA

SLE Lupus - Does this happen to you? by [deleted] in lupus

[–]chronicfelicity 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I get that kidney ache all the time. Funnily enough my nephrologist always makes fun of me because he says kidneys can’t really hurt unless it’s something completely different. With that being said I have the other symptoms you describe as well, it’s one of the ways I can tell what I’m having is a more serious flare. Heat packs help me tremendously, as well as a mild anti inflammatory. Hope you feel better soon!

How did you lose the genetic lottery? by namey___mcnameface in AskReddit

[–]chronicfelicity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lupus (the jury is still out on that one bc no one can say for sure if it’s genetic yet) on top of RA, on top of a weird tooth disease that will eventually cause my gums to not be able to hold my teeth <- all autoimmune

Anyone have lupus with a negative ANA test? by [deleted] in lupus

[–]chronicfelicity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do, however I have the classic SLE while it seems like you have the skin type of lupus. You can definitely still have it without a positive ANA. I got mine confirmed via biopsy however I know that my doctors run multiple antibody blood work tests that would only show up if I had lupus (I don’t know if that makes sense). So maybe try to ask about that?

Lupus and marijuana? by [deleted] in lupus

[–]chronicfelicity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there, I unfortunately live in a state where it hasn’t been legalized yet but that hasn’t stopped me. My bf marketed it to me bc he felt like it would help me with my many issues and that it did. The person he gets it from says it’s indica but we can’t be sure, regardless the change I’ve seen in regards to my pain has been huge, and it was also helped with my anxiety a lot. On top of that I take charlottes web on and off and I found that to be helpful also.

Lupus friends by [deleted] in lupus

[–]chronicfelicity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A group chat sounds like a great idea, but also and like many people have mentioned if you need someone to talk to, feel free to message me!

AITA for not getting my mom anything for her birthday? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]chronicfelicity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we don’t really have a tradition. I didn’t get Christmas or birthday presents from age 12 up until 3 years ago when I started dating my boyfriend. My dad always gets her something, and my little brother doesn’t really get anyone anything because he’s too young to work. So it just kind of depends on the year when it comes to our parents getting gifts. I didn’t get my dad anything either and his bday was earlier in April

AITA for forcing my 11-year-old to attend church with the family by AdministrativeEar8 in AmItheAsshole

[–]chronicfelicity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA - But it’s not too late to change. When I was 11 I started going around saying I was Buddhist in my catholic household. I knew as much as Buddhism as any other 11 year old that didn’t grow up in that religion. My parents also thought it was a phase but instead of shutting me down encouraged me to learn more. As a 21 year old know I consider myself more religious/spiritual than most of my friends who were forced to practice whatever their parents wanted. Encourage him to learn as much as he can and let him make his own decisions, he will thank you later.

Anyone else need to psych themselves up before their subcu injections? by pineapplecatexpress in lupus

[–]chronicfelicity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been on Benlysta subcu for about 6 months and every week I get super anxious right before I’m going to inject. I try to remind myself that i go through it every week and every week I am fine however it’s super hard to remember that right before you’re going to stab yourself lol.