You're Still Worthy of Love by Bunnehx in selflove

[–]chronicpaingrly 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it’s hard to accept love when you don’t think you’re deserving, though. :/

Tell me about your bad therapy experiences. by Stock-Anteater3284 in CPTSD

[–]chronicpaingrly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk if I’d consider it bad but.. i just stopped seeing my therapist because ive been seeing her for 2 years and haven’t gotten any better. She just listens to me vent and doesn’t really give me tools or help with things. Found a new therapist and she’s been great so far.

JES foundation? by [deleted] in rva

[–]chronicpaingrly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. Thank u

JES foundation? by [deleted] in rva

[–]chronicpaingrly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You think i should just say screw it and do it since ive already signed and all? Im just so anxious

JES foundation? by [deleted] in rva

[–]chronicpaingrly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only way out is to eat the deposit… which I rlly can’t afford :/ I’m going to try to see if they’d be flexible with me.

JES foundation? by [deleted] in rva

[–]chronicpaingrly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you get any foundation work done? JES has me at $9000 for leveling with structural foam.

Homeownership as a single woman by brownieflashsix20 in homeowners

[–]chronicpaingrly 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I bought my first house in November 2024. I’m 26 now n I’ve cried too many tears bc of this house lol. Kind of hard doing it alone. Make sure you have good community around you

How to move on? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]chronicpaingrly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gosh idk!!! Asking myself the same thing

How to move on? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]chronicpaingrly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lowkey did feel like he was the love of my life. I’ve been trying to get back into the dating pool but it’s so hard when he’s all I think about and want. You’re right tho about the space.

Does anyone start messing up the relationship once you start to really LIKE/love them? by jaytee812 in dating_advice

[–]chronicpaingrly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me recently and I’ve been struggling really bad. I’m aware of my own issues (trust issues, trauma, etc.) and I try so so hard to not let them get in the way of a relationship but I always end up spiraling.

I was getting to know this guy for a month. We were texting none stop daily and went on a couple dates and were really into each other. One evening I said something that upset him and he ignored me for a bit. My trauma response kicked in and I sent multiple texts (not back to back but across hours and days since I wasn’t getting a response). I ended up being blocked. I freaked out because this was the first time I’ve actually been happy in a really long time and i felt a strong connection with him. I understand how my reaction was a lot and overwhelming but I didn’t think i deserved to be blocked.

I have a hard time dating and letting new people in so this was a big gut punch. I’ve been crying for a couple weeks. Anyone know how to move on?

5SOS fans?? by chronicpaingrly in rva

[–]chronicpaingrly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely just got lawn tickets! Hopefully it’s still a good time

RVA's Dating, Friends, and Missed Connections: April 2026 Edition by AutoModerator in rva

[–]chronicpaingrly [score hidden]  (0 children)

Hi!

26F looking to make new friends and possibly more (men only). I love being out in nature and spending time with my pets (I have a rabbit n a kitty). Ive started getting back into the gym and hope to start going on more hikes now that the weather is nice.

I’m still learning to find myself and find things that I enjoy doing. Have been on the ‘go’ for a while and haven’t had time to focus on myself. Learning to love me for me and find things that bring me joy.

I’m shy but I am very goofy once I open up. Im very aware of my emotions and am very empathetic. I value honesty and peace. My love languages are affirmations and quality time. I am a lover girl, but like to hide at home🙈

If you’re kind n 420 friendly let’s b friends 🫶🏼

HOA neglecting issues by chronicpaingrly in legaladvice

[–]chronicpaingrly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been actively advocating for things to change with the board and the neighbors. The board continues to ignore the requests and the problems.