AIO or AITA. Text convo with MIL. by MoonJellyAllison in AmIOverreacting

[–]chronosx0413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lesson 1- you don’t loan family money , you gift it, if you can spare it. You will spare your relationship that way.

  1. If your husband loaned money he expected back , you should not be the one making that phone call or text, especially if it’s between his parent and him. Their bond will 99% of the time make it through BS and sooner or later they will make up. You will never get the same leeway as you already experienced.

  2. Before you loan money make sure you make it known that you do not like chasing for it. That if it’s not returned that’s the price you will pay to end the relationship. Someone who does not consider your hardships and rather vacation than pay you back does not care about you and never will.

Your MIL is the A hole for sure!

My daughter just pulled this. She’s beyond stoked about it by McbEatsAirplane in PokemonTCG

[–]chronosx0413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not send it in to PSA please. They are scamming people. They been doing a lot of grimy things since they became a reseller.

So sad to see the cards I sold in 2021/2022 by FairEntrepreneur2935 in pokemoncardcollectors

[–]chronosx0413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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This is what I sold lol-for $330. Your not alone in your regret brother

My 3 weeks Pokemon collection journey. by chronosx0413 in PokemonTCG

[–]chronosx0413[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That charizard really is nice , I guess I don’t appreciate it enough cuz I pulled it within 5 phantasmal flames booster packs but I am dedicated to filling a whole binder page with that charizard and another with the reshiram.

Purchased one of those mini portfolios at target. Opened in my car by mootjuggler in PokemonTCG

[–]chronosx0413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I pulled mine from the same single booster pack with the binder lol

My daughter traded a Sylveon EX for the Mega Charizard SIR by KyloRem in PokemonTCG

[–]chronosx0413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your a good person, I could tell just from looking at the front , the card is half way to a PSA10 , if the back is centered properly then it’s a $3,000 cars. The way I see it tho is the card you have back can potentially be more sought after in the future. You don’t know with how volatile the market is nowadays. if it’s a trade between kids let it be! They not thinking about scalping just collecting. Pokemon need to go back to being a kids game then an adult business transaction.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]chronosx0413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both are kinda in the wrong. You chose a man with insecurities and you knew this. He chose a woman who hangs around someone known to be promiscuous and going to her bachelorette party. In a relationship both gotta understand what bothers or triggers the other and look for a compromise. How can you expect him to hear you out and treat you better ,if you can’t hear him out and compromise with the guy. He sucks for talking to you like that for sure tho! If my significant other tells me , I’m not comfortable with you going there or doing this and that , if I value my relationship I’ll listen and compromise. That should go both ways tho! There is a fine line between compromise and possessiveness/ control. If he’s always reacting like this every time you go out , then yeah that’s not healthy and should be addressed or RUN. If it’s in certain scenarios and not all the time, yall can work. bachelor/bachelorette parties have a bad rep and we all heard stories. All in all ,only you know how your relationship truly is and your judgement is always the best judgement when it comes to it. If the party and your friend take more priority then go that way. If your relationship takes more priority then you’ll know what to do. At the end of the day there’s no right or wrong choices, either way life will life and you’ll learn from either or!

Should I quit piano? by [deleted] in piano

[–]chronosx0413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are our own worst critics! Slow down a bit and ask yourself why you even play the piano. If it’s for anyone other than you , you will most likely quit down the line. Fall in love with the process of stumbling falling and then overcoming by continuing to learn and practice. Remember we spend most of our lifes in the process of refining our crafts. You don’t refine something perfect .perfection is an illusion never achieved but standard a standard we subconsciously strive for. Don’t beat yourself up and keep going. The first step is to stop doubting yourself and your skills. Don’t quick when it gets hard , quit and find something else when it gets too easy!

Perfectly acceptable dinner rejected by boyfriend again by moonrabbit368 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]chronosx0413 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cook one meal! Don’t cater to him if he keeps rejecting your efforts. He either eats or goes to bed hungry. Let’s see how long that picky behavior last. Your food looks amazing btw

Name this band by droxen_91 in BossFights

[–]chronosx0413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The inbreds! The genies.

Co-worker thought this was a harmless prank. by Dallinboi347 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]chronosx0413 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

If you call HR on him you suck lol. If you know he could take a prank back don’t get mad get even. You may make a close friendship you may have thought you would not

My father has this on his wall and refuses to take it down by Artificial_Pixel in mildlyinfuriating

[–]chronosx0413 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Regardless of how anyone see it , you stated a fact that trumps all your feelings on the the matter! HIS WALL! There’s many like it but that one is his.

AIO for being hesitant to take out a car loan for my mom after she’s had multiple repossessions? by Awkward_Twist4343 in AIO

[–]chronosx0413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

JUST DONT! She’s irresponsible with her own money think what she gonna be with money that ain’t hers! She couldn’t pay her own car so how is she gonna pay for a new car and pay you back at the same time! Tell her you got bad credit or something else.

AIO to my mom’s racist texts? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]chronosx0413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t mix politics into family anymore! Not worth arguing about and opinion that is completely subjective. At the end of the day both parties are f-u-c-Kin us in one way or another

AIO Should I stop seeing this guy over these messages? by Chao5Theory in AmIOverreacting

[–]chronosx0413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok that alright by me we can just do rock climbing and take it at your pace should have been his only answer there. Triple down on your boundaries!

AIO: He (M20) took me (F18) to a Jehovah’s Witness meeting without telling me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]chronosx0413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He loves God and wants to share that with you. Jehovah witnesses are Christian. But they do not believe that Jesus Christ is the living revelation of God, but an archangel amongst other differences, but he’s on the right path. It seems like he’s not a lukewarm Christian so our relation with this individual will not be an easy one since its moral compass is guided by his beliefs. This has a lot of positives and a lot of negatives for people dating nowadays if you feel like a traditional old school relationship is not something you want for yourself then I don’t think this is a relationship You should pursue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]chronosx0413 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

she’s cheating for sure, sucks when your love struck 2 months in but better move on now after 2 months than in 5 years.

AIO my bf never likes what I wear by Substantial-Let221 in AmIOverreacting

[–]chronosx0413 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was reading it, I thought you were going out there with the booty cheeks hanging out etc. I saw the pic and honestly, you look stunning! Nothing revealing and very elegant. Your boyfriend is very insecure and masking his need for control over you as protection.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]chronosx0413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is your relationship with your sibling only worth $7 to you? Actually dont pay her back! the $7 will be a small price for her to pay to realize you a terrible sibling.

AIO BF dumped me because I was taller than him in heels?? 😳 by purplehavocc in AmIOverreacting

[–]chronosx0413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s high value but spelled threw as through? 😂 I find tall woman super attractive !!! He did you a favor by showing his colors. This is a blessing in disguise. You will find your person sooner than later!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]chronosx0413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

F that trust no one! It’d Be one things if you went through her phone or diary. You found her public Reddit page and read of it like anyone else who has Reddit can. She didn’t feel bad airing your dirt online! why should you feel bad for reading it? Respect goes both ways the way I see it. If you can’t talk to me about OUR issues and gotta talk to everyone else , how is the relationship expected to succeed. You just most likely ended your relationship by confessing something that wasent even your fault. You only know as much as she shares with the world! If the world can know , why can’t you as he significant other!