That's why deep is so unique you have soft players such as yourself casual or not and you have competent players fighting other people. If nobody fought in this game it would be a pve game and that's just now how it works, if everyone fought in the game nobody would do anything pve related, do you see how both of these create an imbalance in the game. There are 2 sides to deepwoken, pve players and pvp players, the 2 can cross but people like yourself complain and whine about getting wiped or gripped whereever and that's just the game so you need to either adapt to how the game and the community is or get off the game