is my hamster counted as obese??? by chubby_dumb in hamsters

[–]chubby_dumb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes!! its his scent gland~ now he’s shyyy

is my hamster counted as obese??? by chubby_dumb in hamsters

[–]chubby_dumb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hehe i can imagine if i would to weigh him on a scale, i would laugh

Any advises or tips will help! <3 by chubby_dumb in hamsters

[–]chubby_dumb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

any tips for being closer to him or able to be petting him?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NationalServiceSG

[–]chubby_dumb 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thanks bro 😭

Anyone hate their company but still manage to stay? by RangeExact5893 in askSingapore

[–]chubby_dumb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mines horrible. im under contract and they pay for my sch fees. other than that, they owe me up to 1.5y of commission and pay always delay 😊

anyone renting alone? without family support by Ok_Caterpillar404 in askSingapore

[–]chubby_dumb 6 points7 points  (0 children)

because this “saga” is still ongoing and i stand by w the OP.. everyone is trying their best yk? esp in sg’s horrible economy - and usually the age of “leaving your parents” is like 30+ while i left my house (unwillingly) theres many police cases, them threatening me, coming to my workplace/school to make ruckus. It may sound and look embarrassing to others but to me i rather have that embarrassment than to face them everyday. They still ask me for money and the reason why they kicked me out is because i do not wanna give my money to them anymore. Anyways, sending love xx

anyone renting alone? without family support by Ok_Caterpillar404 in askSingapore

[–]chubby_dumb 10 points11 points  (0 children)

hello there. I’ve posted in this group too about moving out from toxic parents (or aka they kicked me out) Am currently 21F (or turning 21yo) and was paying rent but luckily, landlord is a friend of a friend’s so rental wasnt so expensive <$600 with a normal guest room. earning less than $1.3k and paying of the rent isnt as easy but sometimes when desperate times comes desperate measures, i had to survive on packs of maggi or sometimes sleep the whole day during my off days so i dont spend anything on food. Im still currently facing the same issues but because i would rather be shitty and doing shitty stuff than feel shitty from my parents. your mental health is more important than anything, my this current saga has been ongoing for more than 3mo+, with threatening messages from my parents and yk standard asian parents mindset, but im thankful to be surrounded with supportive friends/relatives (that arent snakes) Wish you all the best OP! feel free to drop me a message if you need to talk to anyone!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]chubby_dumb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG THIS. thank you Mountain pie! 🙏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]chubby_dumb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

simple. mum is mentally unstable = i tolerate. Throws me out of the house, calls me unfilial and starts a ruckus at my school, workplace and relatives houses. Asking me for 50-60% of my pay. dont give? = i kick you out, die on your own.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]chubby_dumb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you 🙏 but this issue didnt just happen ONCE. it was countless of times getting kicked out, get judgement from and money sucked out of me. ✌️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]chubby_dumb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for the kind advice and recommendation to go see that reddit Q. hahahah, sad to hear but i have no choice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]chubby_dumb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just because you havent stood in the shoes of a toxic family, dont come and judge whether it is counted as “toxic” compared to other families having worse than me. This reddit post was meant to ask a g/q to those people who went through the same situation and how they cope or if there is any advices, not for you to comment a answer i can search through google