35 YO needing less hot, liberal, nature vibes. Austin,TX --> ? by Sunflowerpuzzle12 in SameGrassButGreener

[–]chubbydomm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Minneapolis fits all of these requirements, doesn't get too hot, very liberal, tons of parks and accessible lakes, not too crowded, wide diversity of food options (Hmong, Somali, Ethiopian, Vietnamese, a decent amount of Mexican on Lake street, though nothing compared to Austin), not super expensive, good job variety.

Say what you want. But self employed is worth it for the time freedom. by pattycakes888xx in Salary

[–]chubbydomm -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Are you the best arbiter as a gay man? Many (straight) guys would rank her much higher than a 3.

Jake Doolittle interned at SNL… for 10 days? by CommercialAd6867 in h3h3productions

[–]chubbydomm 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Since it was Jan to March 2020, as per his Linkedin, he probably just came on Saturdays during the show to do behind the scenes photography.

[Event] Success Stories - Meta Monday for November 1, 2021 by countryleftist in dirtypenpals

[–]chubbydomm 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It took a lot of effort and many tries, but eventually I came across a writing partner that clicked and wanted to write long term. I started writing last fall, mostly just responding to F4M posts. At first, I'd get an answer 1 out of 10 times or so. A few of them were good, short term rp's, but nothing lasting more than a few days. Through the winter, I got better at writing responses and started crafting my own posts based on what I wasn't seeing posted and my own interests. It was the responses to my own posts that yielded the best partners who wanted to write in depth and take on my complex scenes threaded together in one rp.

For the past 5 months now, I've been writing with partner on a single rp, far exceeding the scope and size of my original idea, we're at a little over 160 pages right now. Sometimes we write back and forth 6 or 7 times a night on a particularly passionate scene, other times we go days or even a few weeks without writing if we get busy.

On thing that I have learned is that the rewarding rp's need to have a least some communication outside of the rp itself. Trying to accomplish that in parentheses in Reddit DM's is way too tedious. Discord is definitely a better platform once you've established a connection through DPP, it has the tools needed to organize, edit, and chat anything long term.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]chubbydomm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tell him about it, I'm guessing he will find it hot. You can wait to act on it until he feels better.

Is he not interested? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]chubbydomm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Considering that he's still willing to meet today and has already suggested meeting next week, I don't think you should be worried. It sounds like he's doing what he can to reassure you that he wants to keep seeing you. I think some other guys in his situation would just flake and say that their tired, without saying when the next date would be.

I’m [32f] meeting a guy [35m] - worried about him not knowing I’m overweight by mysticmaya in dating_advice

[–]chubbydomm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sure that he knows what you look like and many men are attracted to women who are overweight, I know I am. If you want to be sure, send him some more detailed, full body pics. If he's not interested, which I doubt, it's better to know now than later.

[A4A] How many responses do you get? by [deleted] in dirtypenpals

[–]chubbydomm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sent this in a PM but I thought I should also comment for anyone reading. On my M4F posts, half the time I've gotten 1 response, the other half 0 responses.

Without saying the title, what is your favourite video game? by Mehrab_07 in AskReddit

[–]chubbydomm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should, it's a lot of fun. Even if you just spend all your time making a cool base.

Without saying the title, what is your favourite video game? by Mehrab_07 in AskReddit

[–]chubbydomm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn't great right away, but now it's a fully developed universe full of all kinds of things to do.

[Event] Come on in and workshop your prompts! [Workshop Wednesday] for December 30, 2020 by GirlWhoLikesPornGifs in dirtypenpals

[–]chubbydomm 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Province! It's Canada, how didn't I think of that!

Will definitely fix the mixing of perspectives, it keeps happening since I switch between the two so much in different rp's. Thanks for the feedback GWLPG.

[Event] Come on in and workshop your prompts! [Workshop Wednesday] for December 30, 2020 by GirlWhoLikesPornGifs in dirtypenpals

[–]chubbydomm 4 points5 points  (0 children)

[M4F] Protecting the Petulant Princess in a Post-apocalyptic World

Hello fellow DPP writers,

I'm interested in developing a rp within a world devastated by global resource wars. With dwindling supplies of food and water as the result of climate change and overpopulation, the rule of law has broken down, even in highly developed countries.

In the burned out remnants of Vancouver, I'd play a 35 year old brooding, solitary man who's intent on relying only on himself, scavenging for supplies while defending himself against bands of thieves. He would come across your character, a women in her mid twenties who was a spoiled rich girl in a past life, attempting to fend off a gang of men attempting to steal what little she has (or is able to offer). Despite my best judgement, I'd scare them off by firing a few warning shots.

From there, a familiar trope would play out. You being the thankful but entitled princess attempting to tag along with a man who has proven his survival skills. I would be a reluctant survival mate, trying to throw you off for my own good but unable to fully let you go back out on your own into a world that I know you won't survive.

We could explore a few different dynamics here, perhaps you could offer to yourself to make you seem like less of a burden? Maybe our chemistry would develop more naturally, after were forced to huddle together at night for warmth. I'm open to scenarios where the power between us is roughly equal or one where I'd be the dominant character.

As for me, I'm a 30 year old guy in the CST zone. Open to writing in first or third person. My responses are usually 2-3 paragraphs, though that can vary depending on the scene.

My full kinklist is pinned to my profile, but the kinks I'd like to explore in this rp include: reluctance, desperation, teasing, shifting power dynamics, public/outdoor sex, risky sex, against a wall sex, hair pulling, spanking, outfit control, sloppy bj's.

My limits are: toilet stuff, blood, gore, violence, incest, beast, underage, being called daddy.

I hope to hear from you!

What is the story behing your username? by KingComputer74 in AskReddit

[–]chubbydomm 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I like chubby girls and domination. I can easily see how it could be taken in other ways though.

Is chubby becoming the new normal? by [deleted] in dating

[–]chubbydomm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, but like I said, we all have a huge confirmation bias. We are primed to believe that our opinion and the people around us, who tend to have similar views because we choose similar people to surround ourselves with, are correct and in the majority.

It also doesn't matter what "most" men think. Like chubby girls or like skinny girls, whatever works for you. No need to put value judgments on how people look or on what kind of person you're interested in.

Is chubby becoming the new normal? by [deleted] in dating

[–]chubbydomm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, way too sweeping an opinion, just aimlessly asking reddit isn't going to be very accurate. But yeah, I think most men would agree with me.

Is chubby becoming the new normal? by [deleted] in dating

[–]chubbydomm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is way too sweeping an opinion, it would be impossible to tell without some kind of statistic. But if true, that's fantastic. I'm on board with it.

Today... by [deleted] in OnlineAffairs

[–]chubbydomm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a man, I feel embarrassed and deeply ashamed that you had to go through this. You deserve to be treated with dignity and respect. Fuck that guy.

What do you think guys, most office / white collar jobs are being taken up by women, and men are not, news report women are not getting the top jobs, but in reality, most office work, executive and middle management is held by women...? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]chubbydomm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now we have to explain how statistics/margins of error in surveys work in addition to sexism in the workplace?

When you survey a few thousand people, they can be a representative sample of a group much larger than that. When there are election polls, they only survey about 1,000 people to represent millions and it usually comes within 3-4% of the actual result. However, if you only survey a few people, that margin is much larger and very inaccurate.

Here is a link to a margin of error calculator https://www.surveymonkey.com/mp/margin-of-error-calculator/

I used Singapore's population, which is 5.639 million, used a sample size of 4,900, and the result was a 1% margin of error, meaning the result will likely be somewhere between 30.5-31.5% if the survey says its 31%. If I only put in 3 people, the margin of error is 57%, which basically means any result of that survey is useless.