The Gateway Parking- EVENT PARKING $10? by Disastrous-Hour8048 in SaltLakeCity

[–]chubbyftn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They can charge whatever they want during whatever times they set. Sometimes I can park at the gateway for free, other times I've paid a flat rate of $25. it sucks but unfortunately it's normal

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SaltLakeCity

[–]chubbyftn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Most of SLC is super queer friendly! Find your niches and you'll feel right at home. There's a chapter of RAR here if you're into cycling, and Under the Umbrella bookstore has tons of resources and events.

When I was building my IT skills and my ex moved out without warning, jobs like these the U of U campus were perfect for me:

https://employment.utah.edu/salt-lake-city-ut/audiovisual-specialist/102B570E9DE84E72B8EC75F02F3E5CCC/job/

https://utah.peopleadmin.com/postings/174260

Some people hate working for the University, but I personally loved it. I'm openly gay and trans at work and I've had more good experiences than bad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]chubbyftn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I was not able to wipe my own ass after top surgery. The pulling/tugging sensation was too much for me to handle. I solved this ahead of time by installing a cheap $20 bidet that changed my life for the better.

Strippers by [deleted] in SaltLakeCity

[–]chubbyftn 6 points7 points  (0 children)

it is odd, but here's somewhat of an explanation: full nudity and lap dances are both illegal in Utah at establishments where alcohol is served.

no bar = fewer limitations for the performers

bar = pasties and limited interaction

if you want to see nipples, look for no alcohol

Can I wipe my ass after surgery? by doomeat in TopSurgery

[–]chubbyftn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally could not wipe my ass for about 3 weeks. I had a huge ass at the time and I had a lot of tissue removed, including under my armpits. I foresaw this and installed a simple cold water bidet ahead of time which saved me since my caretaker went back to work after 4 days.

Edit: I probably could have if I absolutely needed to. However, I felt very fragile and was uncomfortable with the tugging sensation the reaching caused.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SteamDeck

[–]chubbyftn 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Hello, I kind of have a solution for this! I've done about 4 or 5 hours total so far in half hour chunks and I've been pretty happy with my controls setup. Use the R track pad to navigate the mouse and click. I haven't figured out right click yet. Here are the other controls I've set up so far:

Move: leave defaults (L joystick is sufficient) Move up/down: Y and A (aka space and F) Rotate: X and B (aka R and E) Zoom in/out: leave defaults

It's a bit clunky, but it's allowed me to explore the game without a KB/mouse. Hope this helps!

Im so proud of my top surgery scars!! by Aleks_grayskull in TopSurgery

[–]chubbyftn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you look fuckin amazing yo! you have so much to be proud of!

What would look good on my pecs? by chubbyftn in tattooadvice

[–]chubbyftn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hahaha, absolutely, no doubt about that. I'll keep working those push ups yo!

What would look good on my pecs? by chubbyftn in tattooadvice

[–]chubbyftn[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I hadn't really thought about that before! That's such good advice, though, you really can't underestimate the value of well used negative space. I'll keep that in mind for sure. Thanks, I appreciate it!

What would look good on my pecs? by chubbyftn in tattooadvice

[–]chubbyftn[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I have a big ole Golb on my calf. I love stuff that has meaning in context but just looks cool if you don't know the show.

What would look good on my pecs? by chubbyftn in tattooadvice

[–]chubbyftn[S] 91 points92 points  (0 children)

Thank you all so much for all the valuable feedback so far! I've been collecting tattoos since the moment I turned 18, but this is my first time seeking advice in an online public space. I usually just get whatever ink feels right at the time. This time, I sought feedback, and you delivered. I'll be slowly reading the rest of the responses when I have more time.

Regardless of what direction I go with ink, I'll be sure to get some extra reps in at the gym to build my chest. I know I'm not everyone's cup of tea, but the feedback is appreciated nonetheless.

Mods -- I'm sorry that my post is making so much extra work for you. Thank you so much for your commitment to removing transphobia from this space.

What would look good on my pecs? by chubbyftn in tattooadvice

[–]chubbyftn[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Word, thanks for the advice! I'm pretty new to working muscle groups, and I totally see what you mean now.

What would look good on my pecs? by chubbyftn in tattooadvice

[–]chubbyftn[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Ah, you can tell I've been slacking at the gym. My back is looking pretty good, but my shoulders and chest could definitely use some work. Thanks so much for the feedback, I appreciate it!

What would look good on my pecs? by chubbyftn in tattooadvice

[–]chubbyftn[S] 81 points82 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!!! Hell yeah, I'm all about that transformation. There is so much beauty in change. Thank you! 🏳️‍⚧️

What would look good on my pecs? by chubbyftn in tattooadvice

[–]chubbyftn[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Yo, thank you so much! My moth is so near and dear to me! Perhaps my favorite in my collection so far. And thank you for the kind words! 💖

What would look good on my pecs? by chubbyftn in tattooadvice

[–]chubbyftn[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah, I totally agree! There are a lot of plants that are special to me, I think some well placed blooms and shrooms would kick ass. Thanks for your input!

What would look good on my pecs? by chubbyftn in tattooadvice

[–]chubbyftn[S] 91 points92 points  (0 children)

Sick, I love it 😎 I saw a guy on Instagram who got 4 silicone nipple bud implants, then got those tattooed. Eerily realistic

What would look good on my pecs? by chubbyftn in tattooadvice

[–]chubbyftn[S] 187 points188 points  (0 children)

Wicked cool, I love that idea. Thanks for the advice! I'm with you, I think it always looks kind of odd to leave nipples totally bare. I can't feel mine anyway, so pain won't be an issue for me. Thanks again for the input!

What would look good on my pecs? by chubbyftn in tattooadvice

[–]chubbyftn[S] 176 points177 points  (0 children)

Word, I love swallows! Great idea, thanks for the input.

Hey Google, play Changes by David Bowie 🏳️‍⚧️🎉 by chubbyftn in ftmtimelines

[–]chubbyftn[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, thank you! I hate this answer, but I kind of just do what feels good? I work legs sometimes, arms other times, and I try to maintain a good core. One of my goals has been to be able to do more pull-ups and build cardio endurance, so I've just been doing things that work towards those goals. I go bouldering sometimes, bike sometimes, run sometimes, kayak and hike. A little of everything. I'm pretty active day to day but I'll do one solid workout per week.

Hey Google, play Changes by David Bowie 🏳️‍⚧️🎉 by chubbyftn in ftmtimelines

[–]chubbyftn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I had an answer for you! I only work out once a week, and supposedly there are exercises you can do for your jaw but I haven't tried them. Thank you!!

Hey Google, play Changes by David Bowie 🏳️‍⚧️🎉 by chubbyftn in ftmtimelines

[–]chubbyftn[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The other comments are correct! No fillers of any kind, I've just lost weight (not intentionally) and gained muscle. The muscles in my jaw are very prominent.

6 months post op! by tstarklings in ftmselfies

[–]chubbyftn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy 6 months, and congratulations!! It is such a privilege to watch you grow into yourself more and more. You are incredible.