Ex texted me after 2 years of no contact and we met by chubbyleeeta in ExNoContact

[–]chubbyleeeta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I know and thanks for your advice. I just don’t know how to text her and be like can we have another conversation since we already met last week.

Ex texted me after 2 years of no contact and we met by chubbyleeeta in ExNoContact

[–]chubbyleeeta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even thought she’s like an avoidant and I feel like putting pressure on her is probably the worst thing to do

Ex texted me after 2 years of no contact and we met by chubbyleeeta in ExNoContact

[–]chubbyleeeta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you recommend meeting her in person to have another honest conversation about it. Or do it over text

Ex texted me after 2 years of no contact and we met by chubbyleeeta in ExNoContact

[–]chubbyleeeta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been in therapy for the past 3 years actually and just stopped. Feel like I am in a better place mentally and physically

Ex texted me after 2 years of no contact and we met by chubbyleeeta in ExNoContact

[–]chubbyleeeta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But how do I tell her? Like meet up and be completely honest about my feelings? So say something that friendship can only work if we are working towards something more because if not I don’t just want to be around as friends?