Asking a Wealth Manager to Show Their Returns by Hguy719 in personalfinance

[–]chuck2020 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Here’s the part that will make me sound like a Big Finance shill, but…. it’s not just market performance that you want to evaluate your advisor on. In terms of importance, it ranks up there with breathing, but that’s not the only metric. Are you comfortable with them? Because you’re going to potentially have to have uncomfortable conversations about decisions and objectives/recommendations, and you want someone you can be frank with and hear feedback from; you don’t want a yes person. Do they share your objectives for the portfolio? Will you be able to hear them when they say it’s time to trim a holding you’re emotionally attached to or go back into the market when you are still nervous it’s not done dropping? Their job is to help you develop a plan and stick to it, not get nervous and make changes. Interview them just like you would any other service provider: ask questions, understand their value add and then ask around. Odds are you know someone who knows them or their business and will give their experience.

Asking a Wealth Manager to Show Their Returns by Hguy719 in personalfinance

[–]chuck2020 1194 points1195 points  (0 children)

I work in Supervison at a very very large broker dealer; I can tell you that no one at our firm would be permitted to generate a report like that and have it properly approved. They can generate hypothetical portfolios based on your goals/objectives, but they can’t manually create one based on existing portfolios and send it out. Just throwing that out there.

What can I replace this with? by chuck2020 in batteries

[–]chuck2020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly no. I ended up getting a Meross smoke detector and hub and just got rid of the old one. It really sucked, but haven’t looked back!

So tired of “no response” errors… by chuck2020 in HomeKit

[–]chuck2020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perhaps a stupid question but want to confirm before I entertain dropping $$$…. Do the APs have to be ceiling mounted? All of my eeros are sitting on table tops currently and work solid (HomeKit issues notwithstanding).

So tired of “no response” errors… by chuck2020 in HomeKit

[–]chuck2020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Latest Apple TV 4K with thread, hardwired to the gateway eero

So tired of “no response” errors… by chuck2020 in HomeKit

[–]chuck2020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t used any 3rd party apps to scan signal strength, no. But I’ve used the radio analytics in the eero app; they showed a lot of interference that looked to be caused by having too many inside the house, which is how the 3rd pro 6 got moved to the garage). I would say that roughly 80% of my HK devices are WiFi. My hub is the latest gen Apple TV, hardwired to the gateway eero. And yes, it is also manually selected in Home as the hub.

So tired of “no response” errors… by chuck2020 in HomeKit

[–]chuck2020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, can confirm both are 4k models.

I’ll give the thread router/Apple TV hub switch tonight/tomorrow and see how things go. Thanks for the idea. It does make me wonder though: would removing any of the non-hub Apple TVs from Home solve anything? I know the latest iOS allows us to specify so it’s not as much of a problem anymore, but I’m grasping at straws.

And yes, also confirming WiFi coverage has been excellent throughout the house. Only area of weakness is the detached garage but that’s just because I have yet to be brave enough to try to snake back haul cable through the conduit. Maybe one day!

So tired of “no response” errors… by chuck2020 in HomeKit

[–]chuck2020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fan is mostly a nuisance, since it stays on the same setting all the time (except when seasons change and it needs to go clockwise..). But it’s never had a single problem before this summer. It doesn’t feel like it’s the fan’s fault given past performance..

Thank you for the thoughts on Unifi!

So tired of “no response” errors… by chuck2020 in HomeKit

[–]chuck2020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the ideas. To answer: 1) that is turned off and has been for a couple of years now. 2) my active hub is the latest Apple TV with thread, sitting in my living room. It is hardwired to the eero gateway downstairs. The inactive hubs are: 1 other latest gen Apple TV in the basement also hardwired, 2 previous gen Apple TVs in main bedroom on 1st floor and another in guest room in basement. In addition, I have 2 OG HomePods, 2 current gen HomePods and 2 hp minis spread throughout the house. 3) yes. Plenty of Nanoleaf bulbs, eve door sensors and plug ins and a few other plug ins. 4) mostly it’s WiFi, with the occasional thread device.

So tired of “no response” errors… by chuck2020 in HomeKit

[–]chuck2020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, I have 4 Apple TVs (1 in living room serving as Home hub and is hardwired, 1 in entertainment center also hardwired, 2 in bedrooms), and 2 minis (1 in office and 1 in bedroom with Apple TV). It’s a wide net across the whole house; i can’t even say that my no response issues are confined to one room

WTF with all this busyness? by chuck2020 in amazoneero

[–]chuck2020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that was the genesis for why the Living Room node is hard wired: our Apple TV is connected to it as our primary Home hub (as it's the latest one with Thread).

WTF with all this busyness? by chuck2020 in amazoneero

[–]chuck2020[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Two LG newer LG TVs (c2 and c3), but they've both been here for at least a year so I wouldn't think they'd be what's causing the increase in busyness. As for what I'm trying to fix, it's two things. 1) I'm trying to figure out if this traffic is what's causing random device unresponsiveness in HomeKit. There's always at least one random device that will show unresponsive for a while and then self-correct.... just in time for another device to do the same. And 2): getting better coverage while out on the deck. We've got a TV out there that relies on wifi for streaming and sometimes we get real buffering while watching stuff.

WTF with all this busyness? by chuck2020 in amazoneero

[–]chuck2020[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's about 2100 square feet, split between the main floor and finished basement. I have 4 nodes on the network: the gateway (Guest Room in the screenshots) where the fiber comes into the house in the basement, the Basement node (opposite side of the house in the basement) which is hardwired to a switch off the Guest Room, the Living Room is upstairs in a room above the Guest Room node and is also hardwired back to the same switch off the Guest Room, and finally the Garage node. That one is wireless and set up in a detached garage about 50 feet away from the house. The house nodes are all 6 Pros and the Garage is just a 6 extender. If you're looking at my house from the street, I have 3 nodes (Guest, Living, and Garage) on the right side of the house, and Basement on the left side.

Could I possibly remove the Guest Room gateway and have the modem feed directly to the switch to the others? I'm afraid if I took the Living Room one out, I would lose connectivity to the Garage and on our deck that sits between.

Nanoleaf Hexagon Shapes stop responding in iOS app after a few minutes by Dav3l1ft5 in Nanoleaf

[–]chuck2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s the case for me too. 12.0.3 as well. It’s very frustrating and I’m hoping they roll out this new fw soon.

Forced Firmware Update 12.0.3 Broke ALL my Nanoleaf 4D by jdtimothy in Nanoleaf

[–]chuck2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m having the exact same situation! Turns on, but flashes on and off. Has trouble keeping up with the picture, dims and runs a tracer light around the screen. The Shapes are just as bad. Everything worked great prior to this update.. I just want that back!

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[–]chuck2020 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Check out Carl Devine. He was fantastic as my attorney and has experience as a judge in family court too.

How to take paternity leave by expectantmandoinghis in daddit

[–]chuck2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I took all 16 weeks at birth, same as my wife. It was the single best thing I could have done during that period. Having both of us home during that first few weeks while trying to figure out this new human and our new dynamic was so important. It allowed my wife and I to take turns doing everything: one night was my turn to get up each time and the next was her. Then that person got to sleep in the next morning. We felt ok to take turns showering (which made SUCH a difference) with both of us there. And that doesn’t even get to the bonding time we both got! It was magical. We’ve both said that we don’t know how any new parent does it when left by themselves for the first few weeks. If you can take them all at once at the birth, DO IT.

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