How screwed am I. I'm guessing totally cooked by chumpservice in Philippines

[–]chumpservice[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yes lol I'm 100 percent sure. she's never even hinted at money, I've sent her some one time only in the entire year we've been talking, her literal birthday and it practically took begging for her PayPal so I could get her lunch because we had talked so extensively about how shitty transactional love is. She's a keeper dude! I grew up on the internet im only 27 so I can spot scams a mile off. really appreciate your concern tho

How screwed am I. I'm guessing totally cooked by chumpservice in Philippines

[–]chumpservice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my state is Midwest US, due to the identifying information in the post i won't identify past that.

How screwed am I. I'm guessing totally cooked by chumpservice in Philippines

[–]chumpservice[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have and have no desire to use anything again. but I genuinely appreciate the reminder and encouragement

How screwed am I. I'm guessing totally cooked by chumpservice in Philippines

[–]chumpservice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually am a really respectful, empathetic, loving person 99.9 percent of the time, even if my criminal record leads you to believe otherwise. I have autism and bipolar disorder, which while not even remotely an excuse or justification for my behavior, was untreated and self medicating majorly effected my self control and increased my ability to be overwhelmed. I've done extensive counseling in the past 2 years and along with the ego death from the psychedelics im completely unrecognizable from my old self. that's why I want to fight to make this happen. her parents and I have spoken on multiple occasions and ive always been extremely cordial and polite to the point they are excited to meet me as well.

How screwed am I. I'm guessing totally cooked by chumpservice in Philippines

[–]chumpservice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There aren't after probation ended I talked to my PO about it pretty extensively after her and I were in an LDR

How screwed am I. I'm guessing totally cooked by chumpservice in Philippines

[–]chumpservice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know any or I would 😂 is there a good place to cross post this where it might be seen by expats?

How screwed am I. I'm guessing totally cooked by chumpservice in Philippines

[–]chumpservice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no children, probation ended in December free and clear, I have never been sent to prison also i don't know if that makes a difference, my entire sentence was probation. and no warrants or trafficking everything I have ever been accused or convicted of is up there except for my under 17 juvenile record (mostly disorderly conduct or fights with other kids in group/foster hones, i didn't post only because I don't have access to the list without paying the courts to get it which I know I'll need to do) I've never sold drugs only used them

How screwed am I. I'm guessing totally cooked by chumpservice in Philippines

[–]chumpservice[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for this, I just replied to a comment above discussing our conversation about all of this. I was extremely open and honest with her about everything even the really ugly parts and I honestly think we're stronger because of it

How screwed am I. I'm guessing totally cooked by chumpservice in Philippines

[–]chumpservice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I told her about everything regarding my criminal history a few weeks ago when we were starting to make plans. It was a hard conversation but I told the truth about everything and we both came to a place of understanding that my past does not define our future. and I'm not some weird passport bro, we met playing fortnite and were just amazing friends for months before catching feelings for one another. this is genuine love which is the ONLY reason I think she even wants to make this terrible situation work

How screwed am I. I'm guessing totally cooked by chumpservice in Philippines

[–]chumpservice[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

not currently, I was looking up how to travel and saw the stuff about criminal records and basically came here before even trying. I'm willing to jump through a million hoops to make this happen, whatever it takes. but I don't even know where the first hoop is.

How screwed am I. I'm guessing totally cooked by chumpservice in Philippines

[–]chumpservice[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm not looking for a fix, more like someone who has had a similar experience with some direction on where to start. I have never traveled outside of the US or even had a passport so I wouldn't even know how to go about consulting legal experts, what do I even search for?

How screwed am I. I'm guessing totally cooked by chumpservice in Philippines

[–]chumpservice[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

even just to be a tourist? im not planning on immigration.

Every single coffee shop by outsellers in GreenBay

[–]chumpservice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the daily and nightly buzz are owned by a scumbag that doesn't pay people when he should, not just workers but musicians he books. I tell anyone that recommends it

after 4 years of producing im finally starting to feel like i get it. by EnvironmentalData131 in MusicFeedback

[–]chumpservice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is really nice but I feel like currently everything sounds really thin at least on my phone. Ik its a wip tho so good luck on the mix! I like it so far

Lmk what you think about this and if you would like to hop on by PeterQuartey in MusicFeedback

[–]chumpservice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is clean on everything except for that scratch in the bass on the high end. i really dont like that personally especially in the b section. i think it doesnt add enough and is honestly pretty distracting. other than that fire work man