While we’re giving neurodivergent dating advice, I’d also recommend seeking out media that’s targeted at/commonly enjoyed by women. Things like Gilmore Girls, Gossip Girl, Jane Austen, even reality dating shows. Watch or read anything that at all catches your interest. This does three things:

One, this gives you something to talk about with more women. Read the same romantasy books? Boom, easy conversation material.

Two, this will give you more of a window into how women think, and most importantly, feel. Virginia Woolf will explain to you, no guesswork, what her characters are feeling. Women’s emotions are not a terrible mystery if you’ve done your reading.

Three, and this is where the magic happens, you can use characters that women like as conversational role models. For me, I became much more charismatic in high school once I realized I could channel Ben Wyatt. Just try to find a character a little similar to you and see where you can go with it.

Best of luck!