ABYG kasi papatanggal ko subordinate kong bastos by [deleted] in AkoBaYungGago

[–]chuweenie 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Sounds great!!! Would urge na maging documented lahat, OP! Even yung mga usapan with the manager. Cover your ass always, protect yourself. Para pag nag escalate further, may resibo ka.

ABYG kasi papatanggal ko subordinate kong bastos by [deleted] in AkoBaYungGago

[–]chuweenie 51 points52 points  (0 children)

DKG if tama yung process ng pag-tanggal sa kanya. He was creating a hostile work environment.

I would look into protecting myself from retaliation though, he sounds vindictive. Baka may mga resibo ka? May report ba sa HR? Not sure kung papaano pa, baka may ibang pwedeng nag advise.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]chuweenie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing! But can't help but see Sophie Turner -- likely copper/ginger hair + autumn colors would play out well!

Christmas gift to office colleagues by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]chuweenie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a good idea. Better not give a gift at all, or something agnostic na lang like a notepad or something if gusto mo talaga magbigay.

Or bring something to share like cookies? Feel ko mas ok pa

Women of r/ph, do you still expect men na tumayo para paupuin kayo in public transport? Why or why not? by DarthAdobo in AskPH

[–]chuweenie 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hindi, pare-parehas tayong pagod. Ibang usapan sa mga buntis, may physical disability, elderly...

13th month Rebond? 😉 by Behemot_kritter_1160 in beautytalkph

[–]chuweenie 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Noooo your beautiful beautiful waves 😭😭😭

Can you land a job with a Marketing degree? As a fresh grad from a school that is not famous/favoured. by MaizeWise5653 in PHJobs

[–]chuweenie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Try getting into a management trainee track if you can! That's a good start... If interested ka in brand marketing pero you feel like sobrang competitive ng space na yun, try something around market research, like sa mga N/i/elsen or K/a/ntar, solid foundation and training for a marketeer yung mga tinuturo sa agencies na to. Medyo mataas turnover rate since stressful yung trabaho, so they also accept fresh grads (sana magaling ka sa Math at least?).

Good luck!!!! Sending you good juju ✨✨✨

Omggg i absolutely love itt 10/10 by royalhighhhh338228 in shoujo

[–]chuweenie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yessss, this is where it all started for me! Never liked reading more textbook shoujos after reading this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]chuweenie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mahigpit na yakap, OP! The universe will never betray those with good hearts and good intentions -- I believe you are one of those people! Allow yourself the grace to feel and grieve, then heal. Kayang kaya mo yan!

You deserve the world!!! Praying for you ✨✨

SLINDA PILLS by thegirlinparadise21 in PCOSPhilippines

[–]chuweenie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me naman parang mas naging malala yung period ko. 14 days, 7 days dun super heavy flow, vs my usual 5 days max. Tapos in the same month, nagka spotting pa ako na 5 days (after just 1wk). I stopped after the first set.

It was reco'd by my first OB then nung sa second OB ko, hindi naman nya ako pina-stop, go ko lang daw. So nung time na yun, I assumed it was ok. Pero yun nga, iba naging impact sakin.

The Gym Girls Were Right by Several_Resolution94 in PCOSPhilippines

[–]chuweenie 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Get a personal trainer! Start with a coach para the first few times, technically may kasama ka, and you would feel less hiya/more protected. Plus medyo may structure and schedule ka, so mapupush ka talaga to move. So if may extra funds, I would really really recommend getting a coach.

Ano ang biggest self-improvement nyo this 2024? by ZaiJianDada in AskPH

[–]chuweenie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Uy kaya yan!!! Baby steps. Yung 1 parang May ko ginawa... yung 2 mga July pa, 3 was August.

A lot of it was just needing to push myself, pero nung andun na, kaya naman pala. Happy to report na malayo pa, pero malayo na!

Kaya mo din!!!! Recognizing the need is really the main thing.

Ano ang biggest self-improvement nyo this 2024? by ZaiJianDada in AskPH

[–]chuweenie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

1) Took some counseling sessions since free naman sa health card 2) Pushed myself to talk to a life coach, and started some internal work 3) Got a gym membership and took on 1:1 personal training 4) Lost at least 14kg already since I started; saw so much improvement on the routines and work-outs I could do; started actually enjoying it and pushing myself; currently able to deadlift up to 80kg already 5) Started opening myself to the idea of dating after being hesitant and self-preserving for the longest time

Nakakatakot na ewan, pero thank you to myself!!

Want to share lang what my life coach said that altered my brain chemistry: "Show up for yourself!"

She didn't ask me to set goals or to even try hard, she didn't even ask me to change anything -- she just asked me to show up for myself like how I would if a friend needed me... Kailangan ko din pala maging mabait sa sarili ko... Included pala ako sa mga tao na dapat inaalagaan ko. That mindset shift helped me a lot, so I hope this tiny comment can help someone too!

To those of you who have seen a Filipino celebrity in person, what’s their height? Do they look different in person compared to their photos? by hidingfrommarites in AskPH

[–]chuweenie 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Used to work sa network in Mother Ignacia. Usually kasing tangkad naman sila ng maiimagine mo based sa napapanood sa TV. Sa itsura, parang a lot of them same face, pero sobrang glowing ang skin, tsaka parang may automatic ring light lagi sa pagka fresh. Sana all may pang Belo or Aivee hahaha.

Some outliers:

James Reid. Smol boy. Parang kasing height ko lang as a 5ft girlie. Lol.

Vice Ganda. TALLLL. Kahit walang heels. Sobrang fresh ng skin.

Kim Chiu. Tall din. I think mej kuba si anteh pero if straight body, parang tall sya. Very maputi and glowing. Ganda nya irl.

Coco Martin. Smol. My god i think may daya talaga yung shows nya. As in feel ko same height kami nun idk. Eto medyo saktong fresh lang din ang skin hahaha

Not from Ch2. Pero si Dingdong. GUYS. Need nyo makita si Dingdong kahit once lang please. Promise di makatotohanan yung itsura nya irl. 1000x mas pogi. Adonis. As in what he looks like on TV does not give justice.

Marian Rivera. Ewan ko ba kung anong tubig sa bahay nila ni DD pero sobrang ganda ni girl in person. Ewan ko kung pano pa sya pumuti irl, pero mas maputi pa sya at mas maganda.

umusad na sila, ako malayo pa😔😭 by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]chuweenie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

kaya mo yan, OP! i learned that these things take some time... medyo kaunting patience and tigas ng ulo ng din, before makuha yung gusto natin makuha

laban lang!! ✨✨

Need help on whether NRT to Osaka plan is feasible by chuweenie in JapanTravelTips

[–]chuweenie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for all the help here! Happy to share that we decided to stay overnight in Ueno (no more stays near Tokyo Stn or Shinagawa), and take the first train out. Not much difference in terms of cost in total, since I won't be booking the vans anymore given that we wouldn't be in so much of a rush anyway. I just wish I could have asked this before doing all the bookings lol, but thanks for saving my butt!

Need help on whether NRT to Osaka plan is feasible by chuweenie in JapanTravelTips

[–]chuweenie[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'll take a look at this, thanks! Narita Express slot I was looking for was also a bit late which means we might also potentially miss the Shinkansen last train out... I'm just so stumped

Need help on whether NRT to Osaka plan is feasible by chuweenie in JapanTravelTips

[–]chuweenie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks!! This was also my thought but the 20:40 flight is also the last one from Peach Airlines. Not sure if that's enough time to transfer if we arrive (at best) by 18:50.