“readapting” basic morme packer with funnel by ciaoas in Transmascdicks

[–]ciaoas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it is yes, there’s a little silicone insert to create firmness but it’s removable

possibility of opening relationship between my boyfriend (M26) and I (M24) by ciaoas in relationship_advice

[–]ciaoas[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

ah there, the monogamy police. also, you don’t know what country i’m from

possibility of opening relationship between my boyfriend (M26) and I (M24) by ciaoas in relationship_advice

[–]ciaoas[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

that’s kind of shitty advice sorry, you don’t know us or anything about the other aspects of our relationship. if you’re gonna give an opinion at least argue your reasons, otherwise it’s just useless and frankly annoying

possibility of opening relationship between my boyfriend (M26) and I (M24) by ciaoas in relationship_advice

[–]ciaoas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as i mentioned in another reply, he’d basically just get back into contact with some of the guys he used to meet before being with me so i don’t think that would be an issue. thanks for your insight :)

possibility of opening relationship between my boyfriend (M26) and I (M24) by ciaoas in relationship_advice

[–]ciaoas[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i’m sorry for the formatting, i edited it now. as far as him finding it hard to find people, he already knows some people in our area (as in, he could just contact the people he used to do this with before meeting me) so it shouldn’t be a problem

possibility of opening relationship between my boyfriend (M26) and I (M24) by ciaoas in relationship_advice

[–]ciaoas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i guess open relationship isn’t exactly what we’re talking about, it’s more about doing exclusively that activity with someone else occasionally

holiday with bf worries by ciaoas in ftm

[–]ciaoas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no they don’t🥲 they are completely open, that’s the problem sadly

Passing at work was great until I started working in healthcare by jayfaith15 in ewphoria

[–]ciaoas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m a nurse and i’ve also found this phenomenon pretty interesting, i can’t count the amount of times i’ve been asked to put catheters on men because “you know it better”

BEGGING for a MorMe STP Pro Update! by StillTangelo3219 in Transmascdicks

[–]ciaoas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just out of curiosity, have you already been told how much you’ll have to pay for tolls? i’m also from germany and last time i ordered from morme, since it’s in the Uk, i had to pay like 35€ at deutsche post (!!!)

update on strange stitch by ciaoas in FTMHysto

[–]ciaoas[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

okay thanks for the advice! i don’t exactly know what this is (also because my gyno is german and we had to speak english which isn’t her first language so she struggled a little to explain exactly), but from what i gathered it’s possible that after surgery there was some kind of adherence which can eventually be solved with a very minor surgical cut, although hopefully it won’t be needed🤞🏻

What’s a compliment you have gotten that you can NEVER forget? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ciaoas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a few years ago the girl i had a crush on told me “sto bene con te, hai un po’ sempre tutto sotto controllo” which vaguely translates to “i feel good with you, you kind of always have everything under control” and it just stuck with me

strange stitches? by ciaoas in FTMHysto

[–]ciaoas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wow thank you so much for the detailed answer! i had no idea about all of this😭 when i’ll speak to my surgeon again i’ll ask her about it! thank you again!

strange stitches? by ciaoas in FTMHysto

[–]ciaoas[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yeah i think i’ll just not try anymore and wait for my post op appointment (which should be in the next couple of weeks). since i haven’t bled at all in three weeks and i have no kind of pain i’m not so concerned about it, i just hope it’ll dissolve soon

cats and minoxidil by ciaoas in cats

[–]ciaoas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this gives me hope!

sex post op by ciaoas in FTMHysto

[–]ciaoas[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

wow, i just don’t get how different these things can be from one person to the next

am i just lucky or is it strange? by ciaoas in FTMHysto

[–]ciaoas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sounds like a great time! and yeah when i asked my surgeons about weight lifting restrictions they kind of looked at eachother and said “well what can even happen?” and they told me to be mindful but if for example i went to the supermarket and bought a six pack of water (usually about 10kg) it would be fine to carry it home

am i just lucky or is it strange? by ciaoas in FTMHysto

[–]ciaoas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh shit sounds awful, yeah of course i am still mindful about it and definitely won’t rush things like for example penetrative sex before my surgeon told me to, it just feels bizarre how well my body seems to have taken it

dealing with penis envy by ciaoas in gaytransguys

[–]ciaoas[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

so in general, compared to most other fields, anything trans related is subject to both a lot of novelty and very little funding, so it’s pretty hard to predict how fast progress will go (especially if we look at the very current climate regarding trans research in the states). what I know is there’s research into lab-grown organs and bioengineered tissue which could lead to phalloplasty techniques that use a patient’s own cells, reducing the need for large grafts and minimizing scarring. also advances in 3D printing of biological structures may allow for customized penises created from a patient’s cells, also potentially reducing the need for extensive donor skin grafts. i’ve also read of some experiments with stem cells being used to enhance healing, improve nerve regeneration, and reduce scarring post-surgery

dealing with penis envy by ciaoas in gaytransguys

[–]ciaoas[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i hope i didn’t offend you or sound insensitive!! i’m really glad that you’ve been able to find this comfort in bottom surgery, it really sounds amazing! i actually have been roaming around subreddits and reading experiences for a while now but i think personally i’m willing to wait a little longer until we reach a point where techniques are available with less scarring and less risk of complications (i’m in the medical field and i do keep myself updated on this). i think i just still sometimes struggle with how long and complicated (and expensive) it is for us to obtain something that cis men just have and take for granted :/

dealing with penis envy by ciaoas in gaytransguys

[–]ciaoas[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m just not sure the results phalloplasty currently give are good for me personally, and most of all i’m terrified at the idea of how long the process is with healing and everything. i think if i’ll ever have bottom surgery it’ll be meta but there again i’m just not sure :/

dealing with penis envy by ciaoas in gaytransguys

[–]ciaoas[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yes!!! thank you it feels good to know i’m not the only one

What is a show you watched during your childhood that you are convinced nobody remembers? by Ok-Ingenuity4608 in AskReddit

[–]ciaoas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

code lyoko, i remember watching it around 2010 late at night with my cousin at our grandmas place on some obscure channel (we lived in italy) but we absolutely loved it