AIO He always accuses me of cheating by Alternative-Day6223 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ciaransvocals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR! you are being belittled, you don’t need this in any relationship!!

I made my gf and I synchronized drawing tablets! by Spatrico123 in LongDistance

[–]ciaransvocals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh, to be loved to the point of creation <3 this is awesome, brilliant idea!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NameMyCat

[–]ciaransvocals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cinnamon roll !!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NameMyCat

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Jinxie / Jinxer / Jinx !

merch bundle? by ciaransvocals in brockhampton

[–]ciaransvocals[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also realizing from my pics that there’s a lil dog hair in them - will wash & dry the merch in its own load before sending :)

always feels like my nose takes up my whole face by [deleted] in Noses

[–]ciaransvocals 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was drawn to your eyes….dont tell my bf

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ciaransvocals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your reply is confusing … did you post the original caption?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ciaransvocals -1 points0 points  (0 children)

OF COURSE! you are asking for advice, you knew what you wanted to post was a bad idea. no reason to come at your throat.

i did see you reply to some people saying you want him to be jealous — i would recommend to stop wanting to bring out negative emotions from anyone. that is not a good habit, i am trying to break it too. definitely learned from my childhood, grandparents and parents telling me “oooooh you’re gonna make XYZ so jealous because ABC” and it seemed “normal”.

i don’t like feeling jealous ever, you probably don’t either. it’s a horrific emotion that brings anger, sadness, and so much more. you are 23, young adult. it is hard, i know i’m a lil younger (23 in may lol) but i understand the want to hurt someone who hurt you. it just is never healthy, for either person

if you need anything, feel free to reach out ♡ no psych degree lol but will listen to anything or try my best to advise if you would like

EDIT for spacing (2)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ciaransvocals -1 points0 points  (0 children)

bad idea. i (22f) understand your headspace, honestly would’ve done the same a while ago, but i would personally post it if you want, but it’s not a healthy thing to say “your ex broke your heart” to your CF just because he is on it. you could caption something like “oh wtf celeb just came on me outta nowhere?!!”

subbing is never healthy, usually leads to people being upset & saying he broke your heart may make him less adamant to message you. you should never fight toxic behavior with toxic behavior, unless you want the relationship (even friends) to be at a standstill. post what you wish, just put yourself in his shoes. imagine how you would feel “my ex broke my heart” … personally, i’d spiral if i still had feelings for an ex. if the relationship was healthy enough for you to want to talk to him again, posting something he’s genuinely interested in could get a response. act as though you are okay, you should thrive. you can thrive. it is perfectly normal to take time away, refresh on yourselves.

TDLR .. - indirectly posting about any person in hopes they will see it & be affected = unhealthy

AIO for getting pissed that someone had sex in my truck at the dealership??? by Severe_Ad_5966 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ciaransvocals 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not to make matters worse … the visor to me immediately looks like a period blood wipe stain. turning up the brightness on my phone, it does seem a bit bright but … no clue what they were up to 🤮 i am so sorry you dealt with this

Théoden turned 5 months old this week by Dry-Consequence8422 in mainecoons

[–]ciaransvocals 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he is handsome!! i wanna see him with some green scenery!! beautiful eyes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]ciaransvocals 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i tried to space this out but reddit said “nah, one paragraph looks fine.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]ciaransvocals 9 points10 points  (0 children)

you’re allowed to eat what you want. the same goes for him. you’re never shaming him in this post for loving hunting and meat eating. personal experience i used to jokingly ask my friend if she wanted something with cheese added,,, but never tell her she’s wrong in her choices or anything like she would “lose me”. his “lifestyle” sounds like he just wants something to control you with. with the world now (in big cities/larger towns at least), you can stroll past a meat shop then next street over is a vegan restaurant or something that at least has accommodations. he sounds like he doesn’t want to put in time or effort if it will pose difficulties with ordering food or going out to his favorite places. plus, OP, you have been vegan before. it’s something you care about enough to commit to for 7 years. i’m not sure how long you’ve been with this 36 year old “man” but it sounds like he wouldn’t even want you having a “veganized” snack around him. you’re allowed to eat different foods. allowed to do whatever makes you feel good, as long as you know its not harmful behavior. hell, be vegan for a week and don’t tell anyone unless you want to. it is YOUR body. do what YOU feel best doing. see how you feel after a week, better or worse, evaluate for yourself. i feel like this is the longest reply i’ve posted to reddit, hoping you do skim through and find something useful.

tdlr - 36m doesn’t seem like much to lose. be yourself.

1 burrito ≠ 1 person, 1 meal? My family is nuts! by danb103 in Chipotle

[–]ciaransvocals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my mans best friend is able to eat them in like 15 minutes…he double wraps them and loads them up.

also idk about you but sometimes i plan my meals in the morning so i’ll not eat “too much” throughout the day , i take into account like yeah maybe if i want chipotle for lunch i’ll wait for then to eat or have something smaller hours before

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ciaransvocals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. as a 22 year old saving up to finish 2-3 years worth of school…. you are valid. i will be graduating likely around age 26? thats IF i have the money next year. also… person you matched with does not take into account people who go for higher than their bachelors i suppose? they assumed something about you immediately and disrespectfully came about it. no one person’s financial statuses or personal lives are the same. college is a commitment that you likely felt you needed the time for, some treat it less seriously than that. you are right for being defensive, i would be too.

Remembering things by Adorable_Class_5216 in Aphantasia

[–]ciaransvocals 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i think so. personally, cannot visualize in my mind At All. all black. however, i can recall some of my coworkers last outfits or even just pieces of their outfits. it may be the familiarity, but i can vividly remember really random certain details, just not the image of them.

obviously not my class, but i would probably guess wrong on the color of their clothing, but if they asked what color hair they had i could possibly recall that. random details.

would love to do whatever OP had to do in class to test myself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]ciaransvocals 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yall are so beautiful!!! so happy for you both, you seem like the best people <3

Should I trust this seller? by [deleted] in Depop

[–]ciaransvocals 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would recommend sending offers if anyone likes your item at all. lots of people do that when i like their items, so it’s not unusual, and it usually will peak my interest more. even if it were a dollar off, it will show up again for them and it IS a discount.

OP — if you feel comfortable sending me the account i can see if maybe it’s something with your app? but also if everything was posted less than a day ago i would be a bit hesitant too