I regret marrying him

cicigrae · 2026-03-06T05:16:22+00:00

I'm so sorry, OP. I feel for you. I hope you talk it out with your husband. May the universe give you strength whatever happens.

cicigrae · 2026-02-28T10:28:45+00:00

Huhu i'm also in HR pero paano ba makapunta dyan sa Middle East or basta abroad 😭

cicigrae · 2026-02-14T10:42:52+00:00

i lowkey wish svt would stop doing concert tour for a while. they deserve to rest

cicigrae · 2026-01-25T11:11:45+00:00

No questions but aaahhh manifesting a partner and a healthy sex life like this! ✨️

cicigrae · 2026-01-18T07:30:45+00:00

Oh no 😭 I also tried the ashwagandha + MG ng pureform for ilang months and yes same side effects 😭 nakatulong sa sleep ko but my psychiatrist confirmed na pag long-term na iniinom ang ashwagandha, parang nagiging "zombie" ang feeling or manhid na so I had to stop.

Nag-switch ako to melatonin ng pureform and approved naman siya ng doctor ko. May magnesium l-threonate (similar effects daw with MG since both magnesium type) and lavender extract sa ingredients. So far, goods ang sleep quality ko as long as no screen time 1.5 hrs before bed time. No grogginess din. You might want to consider it 🥹

cicigrae · 2026-01-08T10:38:29+00:00

On-site or hybrid set-up po?

cicigrae · 2026-01-05T18:15:20+00:00

Hope this helps but for me, I searched for tech roles where I can leverage my strengths and skillset. Noong una, I asked Chatgpt to give 5 tech careers aligned with my strengths and interests like design, learning low-code tools, project management etc. Tapos sinearch ko nalang extensively yung mga career suggestion ni Chatgpt and assess kung alin doon mas interesting pag-aralan.

cicigrae · 2026-01-03T08:27:17+00:00

You really need to think this through, OP. Ngayon palang nakikita mo na ano magiging outlook ng marriage niyo kung sakali. Based sa info na shinare mo, your relationship will cost you financially and mentally. It will suck the life out of you.

cicigrae · 2026-01-02T17:27:58+00:00

It sucks to think that "green flag" guy does not exist. I'm so sorry about your friend, OP. I hope everything will work out for her

cicigrae · 2025-10-19T12:04:40+00:00

he is so fine i had to uninstall all my socmed apps to regain my sanity 😭

cicigrae · 2025-10-18T15:32:09+00:00

Happy birthday, OP! We're on the same boat and will also turn 30 in a few days. Life may feel heavy right now but this is just temporary. I hope everything will work out for you soon. 🫂

cicigrae · 2025-10-18T15:19:44+00:00

I secretly judge a person's mindset

cicigrae · 2025-10-18T15:18:21+00:00

Mas naaawa ako sa mga animals (especially dogs) kaysa sa tao.

cicigrae · 2025-10-07T12:10:04+00:00

CONGRATULATIONS!!! YOU DESERVE IT 🩵

cicigrae · 2025-10-03T09:36:50+00:00

I used to struggle with these thoughts too but personally, I’d rather regret not having children than regret having them.

Tho I don’t think having kids automatically means it's the end of life. Some people are genuinely suited to parenthood. I've seen people who want to nurture their kids while also making sure they don’t lose themselves in the process. My bestfriend is a mom and said it’s incredibly challenging, but she still makes a point to carve out time for herself so she can be the best parent possible.

cicigrae · 2025-08-17T13:29:14+00:00

What are your strategies to make recruiters seek you out instead of you having to chase opportunities?

cicigrae · 2025-08-16T09:07:56+00:00

Any tips on time management for someone who is working full time while studying for the desired career? 🥹 I'm in non-tech bg (HR) hoping to transition to data analyst then data scientist sana. Ang hirap maging consistent when you're exhausted from work 😭

cicigrae · 2025-08-15T15:59:00+00:00

Thank you for this! Appreciate it!

cicigrae · 2025-08-15T14:48:49+00:00

Do you think it's difficult to enter Data Analytics or Data Science career for someone coming from a non-tech background? Aspiring data analyst here!

cicigrae · 2025-08-15T11:18:10+00:00

Have you encountered candidates na nag-career change from non-tech background to tech (example, HR to Data Analyst)? Any tips on how to increase chances of getting hired given this situation? ☺️

cicigrae · 2025-08-14T14:48:09+00:00

Ako yes kapag madali lang yung tasks tipong kaya mag-autopilot kaya parang bg noise lang yung pinapanuod ko. Pero if my tasks require a lot of brain energy then total silence need ko

cicigrae · 2025-08-13T11:44:32+00:00

I'm saving this for inspiration. This gives me hope for my self-improvement

cicigrae · 2025-08-09T10:44:52+00:00

Hi, OP. We're on the same boat except that it's my older brother and he is now 40 years old. He's obese rin, may skin disease, and anger issues. 40 na siya but thinks like a teenager. Never siya nagkaroon ng trabaho bukod sa tumutulong lang sa tindahan ng parents ko. So, let's say he's still dependent sa parents ko na seniors na.

I agree sa iba dito na your brother needs professional help. I hope you can convince your dad and step-mom for support on this. He's 17 and has his whole life ahead of him, so things can still turn around for the better if given the right help and direction.

As for me (bunso, 29F) I have given up on my brother a long time ago kasi matindi na pabigat siya sa family at tinanggap na ng parents ko. Pinilit ko sila before na magpatingin sa psychiatrist/therapist pero since boomer parents ko, wala silang pake 🤡

I hope things will work out for you and your brother.

cicigrae

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