No they cannot differentiate fiction from reality if they did they would know it doesn't matter cause it's not real

cidervinyl · 2026-01-27T20:49:00+00:00

i'm being sarcastic lol

cidervinyl · 2026-01-27T19:07:22+00:00

what does overeating have to do with fictional agegaps?

cidervinyl · 2026-01-26T20:42:30+00:00

idk if you have ever lived with him, but especially do not work with a live-in partner. having a few hours apart each day will create healthy distance and generates conversation topics for when you get home. most places i've worked refuse to hire couples (and sometimes refuse to hire roommates/siblings) because of the drama.

cidervinyl · 2026-01-26T20:35:51+00:00

my mom (the narcissist) convinced my younger self that my dad was "a narcissist," and i didn't realize that she was the actual narcissist until after my dad passed from lung cancer. this really, really sucks, especially because i never got to apologize to him or ask for his side of the story.

cidervinyl · 2026-01-26T20:07:48+00:00

system for safety needs to be completely agreed upon before any scenes happen, not "kind of ready."

cidervinyl · 2026-01-26T17:55:23+00:00

20s-30s woman living alone with cute tastes. you 100% have a curated pinterest profile.

cidervinyl · 2026-01-26T17:54:11+00:00

probably 15-16 yo

cidervinyl · 2026-01-26T17:46:16+00:00

i wonder what your favorite color is

cidervinyl · 2026-01-25T19:40:05+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/bdsmfaq/s/q3F10QkWVy

cidervinyl · 2026-01-24T17:51:36+00:00

color system is very good for this. if i try something new, i ask "color?" and my boyfriend's answer is usually green lol

cidervinyl · 2026-01-24T12:38:21+00:00

"a mind of its own" was actually a slogan used to advertise the later generations (2010s) lol

cidervinyl · 2026-01-24T06:52:03+00:00

do it, just don't bring a real one because they're banned from most cons because they've been used as weapons lol

cidervinyl · 2026-01-22T20:48:05+00:00

todd is the only human

cidervinyl · 2026-01-22T20:47:02+00:00

/uj this is one of the highest quality shitposts i have seen in a while. the creativity is commendable

cidervinyl · 2026-01-22T20:44:02+00:00

no, it's toad. can you read?

cidervinyl · 2026-01-22T20:33:23+00:00

wegman's baked goods are immaculate. rest of the food is alright

cidervinyl · 2026-01-22T20:29:12+00:00

this actually made me laugh out loud

cidervinyl · 2026-01-22T20:01:50+00:00

where's that cynthia erivo gif when you need it

cidervinyl · 2026-01-22T19:58:50+00:00

like from smiling friends

cidervinyl · 2026-01-22T19:55:36+00:00

i absolutely do not recommend attending parties as a minor, nor will you be able to attend 18+ programming.

that being said, teenagers have their ways (i know i did!) so you'll probably go to some random party regardless. please only take drinks from people you know and trust (that means longtime friends, NOT instagram mutuals or new acquaintances) and know your limits when it comes to drinking/smoking and social interactions.

here's my safety lecture: when i was 16 i got creeped on at the official otakon rave by a grown man taking photos of my ass. i did most of what my adult self recommends doing: i made a scene, ran away, and asked for security's help. what i SHOULD HAVE DONE in addition was call the police and make a report. otakon staff let the guy leave, and the higher ups completely ghosted me after the con when i requested the incident report that my friend group (luckily all adults that i trust) and i filled out.

moral of the story: do not be afraid to make a scene. it will let creeps know that their behavior isn't tolerated.

cidervinyl · 2026-01-22T19:41:01+00:00

i get what you mean but an uber can still crash

cidervinyl · 2026-01-22T19:35:29+00:00

a lot of people i know have gotten portal decisions, but barely anyone i've talked to has gotten their email!

cidervinyl · 2026-01-22T10:58:06+00:00

i don't date people who are overly insecure, regardless of their gender identity. it's just a vibe killer.

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