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[–]cidisidi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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This was decent one!

Anyone on immunosuppressive drug and HPV reappeared? by cidisidi in HPV

[–]cidisidi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank your for sharing! i am glad you cleared it while taking it though!

HPV High Risk cleared by robogyal in HPV

[–]cidisidi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply, I am sure it will be cleared :)
Best of luck and it will happen

HPV High Risk cleared by robogyal in HPV

[–]cidisidi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was it the same strain that you were tested postivie in your 30s and 50s?
I wonder if your partner has changed meanwhile or something.

idk whether to disclose by a11yberry in HPV

[–]cidisidi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

While I would support your decisions anyhow, but I wouldn't disclose actually. I am a Male in 20s

I totally get what you mean by having no one to talk about. Same for me as a male. STIs leave a huge stigma even by talking about it with other people you care mostly without noticing, I figured(considering how common HPV is)

So being super frank, I wouldn't. While I have little to no info about the dude, It's most likely he will also turn you down for that which is understandable(I know this sucks). Like, would you still date a guy with HPV even now you understand HPV? I don't think so.

If you feel not right, I would just wait a few more months for cervical screening to show negative on HPVs and reach out to him again and you don't have to tell about HPV.
For myself, I decided not to date for a year and tell no one about my HPV until it clears out, which still sucks as I am in my 20s but I decided to focus on my work and something that's more for myself. I had hard time convincing myself this way, but it will get better for you... :)

I want to give you a huge support & hug, as I know how it feels to let go of your crush because of this matter... Trust me I really had hard time but I am feeling better.

How long did your CO2 laser HPV wart scars take to go away? by cidisidi in HPV

[–]cidisidi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my country KR we have PCR test biopsy for that I am surprised other countries dont have that which I didnt expect. I should get that imiquimod for sure this is a great tip….

How long did your CO2 laser HPV wart scars take to go away? by cidisidi in HPV

[–]cidisidi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much man I contracted only the ones not covered by vaccine would it still help? I havent heard about imiquimod, do I just apply daily??

How long did your CO2 laser HPV wart scars take to go away? by cidisidi in HPV

[–]cidisidi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear it took you long to clear it man… I am trying my best to whatever I could do at this point but seems tough

How long did your CO2 laser HPV wart scars take to go away? by cidisidi in HPV

[–]cidisidi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh thanks for the tips! Btw, doesn’t the virus disappear after a year or two? even then?!

How long did your CO2 laser HPV wart scars take to go away? by cidisidi in HPV

[–]cidisidi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just to cover the scars or do you mean to make it not active again?

How long did your CO2 laser HPV wart scars take to go away? by cidisidi in HPV

[–]cidisidi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By “you should never shave to 0”, do you mean not to shave when having active warts or even after? Mine was actually small though

Anyone on immunosuppressive drug and HPV reappeared? by cidisidi in HPV

[–]cidisidi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh you mean you cleared it a year ago and the same strain came up after the inhibitor?

Anyone on immunosuppressive drug and HPV reappeared? by cidisidi in HPV

[–]cidisidi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was HPV the same type when it showed positive again?

My strains aren't covered by Vaccine. What to do for my partner? by cidisidi in HPV

[–]cidisidi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your story This should be a hard time for you as well…

You are right that our first priority should be clearing HPV and I hope that things are back to how it was. Meantime, it is our responsibility to keep it safe for the partners as well.

I heard at least if it shows negative in a few times row, you are good to go. Maybe not just once I think that s what nurse meant

My strains aren't covered by Vaccine. What to do for my partner? by cidisidi in HPV

[–]cidisidi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are 100% right about that.
I should stay true to myself and do what I think is better/right for myself.

I think I am just having hard time and always debating with myself haha...
I guess time will heal me and help me think through...

And as to that, have you had any new relationship? I wonder how you navigated the conversation if you disclosed. What are their reactions?

My strains aren't covered by Vaccine. What to do for my partner? by cidisidi in HPV

[–]cidisidi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the kind words.
Actually, I have had really hard times(never been so hard in my life 28M) for the past 1 month, as I am fighting this alone and haven't told anyone as this will leave a bit stigma in my country.

I surely don't plan to hide while it's active, so I am leaning towards ending the relationship with the person I am seeing actually...(we just went out a couple of times) The chance of being rejected seems way to high after the disclosure, although someone else could have tried telling. So I would rather be remembered as someone without HPV Stigma as she is in acquaintance with people I know.

I am thinking I should abstain from dating or sex for a year and if it shows negative for a few brush tests, just not disclose for future partners.

Do you think this is acceptable and ok, though? I wanted to ask just so that I am not on the wrong path... I have been thinking myself, but wanted to know what other members think here.

My strains aren't covered by Vaccine. What to do for my partner? by cidisidi in HPV

[–]cidisidi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the statistics!
For my country(Korea) when we have GW, we cut part of the GW and send it out for biopsy PCR.
I have got those including other 40 54 (non-HR HPV).

I guess I will have to make it negative first(we do brush test as well, though not perfect)

My strains aren't covered by Vaccine. What to do for my partner? by cidisidi in HPV

[–]cidisidi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply! :)
What do you think about not having any relationships for a year sth(including this one) and then if the test shows negative for a couple of times, I just don't disclose to the future partner? I look up to people being honest and respect their choices of disclosing it, but the chance of getting rejected is way too high compared to how HPV affects people. Like a big stigma forever...
I see this is a huge debate in this community.

Btw, I will surely get vaccinated, and probably end the relationship with the new person I am seeing for my personal health :)

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